When is it too big for sex and BJ

Thanks that is great to know. It’s my first girl who has had a kid and that was one of the hounding questions in the back of my mind. I’ll find out soon enough.

Having children does not alter the size of the vagina, contrary to public opinion. The child passed through the vaginal opening in a relatively short time. A woman’s vagina, just like a man’s penis is inherited through genetics and both can only be altered in the same way, persistent and long term stretching (or in the case for women kegels can tighten that puppy up, but not overnight) :)

No I’m not a doctor, but I have done a ton of research on PE and related topics. I was also married for 20 years and we had 4 boys, all vaginal births, no noticeable difference in her tightness at all, pre-PE.

Im about 7,5+ BEL and can most of the times run it all through after some warm up. BJ are also good but the one Im seeing now actually have problems gettin it more than half an inch more than the head, and my dick is smaller girth on top (5,5 midshaft).

But its all good, aint have no problems:)

Well I gotta disagree with you on this…sorry. My wife had four kids, all vaginal. There was A HUGE difference before and after. The depth of her vagina may not have changed, but the width did. Kegels do help tho, but its not the same. I have been with women who have had kids and were nice and tight, so I do think some women recover better than others.

If the stats you list are correct, how did you gain 0.75” in girth in only 2 weeks?

Either it’s a new record, or kooljohn measured incorrectly initially. I did some pre-workout measurment today, I thought my girth was uniform through the entire penis, but I’m 5.5 near the base, the 5.25 I list on here is my midshaft girth (which I think is the more accurate measurement).

Measured incorrectly.

My correct stats are inplace now.

That’s the 1st major PE lesson I learnt,measure with the correct tools as it saves you huge embarrasment and blows to your ego :(

I’m actually only 6” MEG & 6.5” BEG.

Yeah, only thick as hell!

Yeah, kooljohn that is thick. Just curious what are your PE goals for girth?

Girth goals for me are 7” MEG.

A couple weeks ago I was saying I’m trying to get to 8” MEG but on reflection (and reality checks from a few on here) I think 7” MEG is as big as I’d like to be. So I’d like to put on an inch in girth over time. Girth is the hard part to gain for a lot of people and wether or not that’s the case for me I don’t know but I’m in this PE thing for life so in a year or so’s time we’ll see if that’s the case for me personally.

My length is where I need to gain and would love to add on 2.5” and get to the 9” mark NBP.

Once again,how easy that is or isn’t I don’t know I’m just over a month into PE and while I can’t see I’ve gained erect size,I can definitely see the flacid size has improved dramatically.Infact turtling seems to have vanished from my penis’s vocabulary whatsoever :)

What do you attribute that mostly to? As a newbie, that is one of my primary objectives.

Ive noticed a vast decrease in turtling for me also. I don’t drink caffeine and very little alcohol. I also drink at least a gallon of water a day. I’m also not stressed or depressed anymore which I think helps a lot as well. If your in the cold though I don’t think there is much to help though. When my balls get cold and retract into my body, my penis follows as well.

With alot of petting and lube most women can accomodate a larger penis. I have had problems with pinching with women with IUD’s or IUC’s in the uterus for birth control. Discomfort for me and painfull for her. I have a rule lick it before you dick it.

It’s hard for me to pinpoint what exact part of the newbie routine (got from JonPop @ PE gym) has eradicated turtling because I seem to respond to everything so well. Some people don’t like doing the stretches but I find that my flacid size becomes quite large during these,without becoming erect and this looks & feels GREAAAT!

Helicopter shakes & circles & up-left-down-right and all inbetween angles stretches are what I’ve been doing thus far for stretches and they all work my penis very well. My only prob being my grip slipping sometimes and having to grip too hard to stop this. Any hints and tips on this folks?

Then on to the bulk of the newbie routine.

Jelqs.

I do wet jelqs (ok grip and lube) and V-Jelqs (lube also)

Ok jelqs are amazing and I took to those like a duck to water and these feel like their making my dick huge when doing them. The technique is not that hard for me to master and it’s very easy to get in a zen like state when doing these and vizualize that image of a huge,perfect cock that you want to achieve.

V-Jelqs are slightly different….harder technique to master and my penis doesn’t respond aswell as I’d have hoped during the exercise. infact during ok/wet jelqs I go from 20-50% erection and maintain that fairly easy,sometimes going up to 70-80% and slowly easing back down by relaxing and slowing down my breathing. With v-jelqs however I stay around 20-30% and usually don’t go above 40% at any point during the exercise.

My technique is not as assured and I’m not as confident doing these but I’ll stick with them because I know they’ve worked for almost everybody and I am experiencing positive PI’s everyday doing this full routine.

Now,what I need to start focusing on is increasing intensity and time as I’m almost 6 weeks into the routine.

BEST thing for grip is one of those Micro-Fibre cleaning cloths (you can buy in a supermarket or car care place etc), It is super soft and super absorbent. You can get a fantastic grip without it hurting, slipping won’t be a problem then.

:)