When is it too big for sex and BJ

you really know a few women doing kegels? I don’t know any but I have never talked about this subject with anyone :)
you cannot compare having surgery done to pe’ing. surgery you pay a lot of money but you don’t have to invest that much time.
I mean, I have been pe’ing fpr over 3 years and invest about 2 hours a day, even when I am not gaining for 1 year and so do others.
what about hanging boobs? no woman wants this but do they work out? no, it’s just a handful who do it. with training they could avoid what nature does to them.
anyway it is off topic.

I am NBPEL 7 inches and a little over 6 inches EG. sex is no problem at all as well as blowjob but that’s probably just because my head is smaller than the rest

Of course many women do kegels! It is from them we learn to do the same. It was even a TV program back in the 80:ths where a woman screamed “nip” all the time when they were doing group workout. Also when women visit the accoucheuse before and after giving birth, they are thought to kegel properly and the accoucheuse my wife had even made sure she did it right by holding two fingers in her vagina while she did the exercise. I am not sure many men go along their women but I am always curious and wanted her to feel my support so I did learn quite a lot about this :) .

Is this big news for you guys or is this very different in other countries than in Sweden?

I feel I bring this out of topic so…yeah, more than 6” would make BJ problematic for my wife I guess ;) .

When it comes to blowjobs, wouldn’t the shape of the circumference have something to say as well? I mean, some guys have nearly a cylindrical penis, while others are more “oval”, “wide” etc. I’m guessing a wide penis compared to a cylindrical one with the same girth is easier on the jaw. But too much width probably isn’t a good thing either, since it might still hit the teeth further back in the mouth?

As an experiment I tried putting a toilet paper core with a girth of 6.1” in my mouth. While keeping it perfectly cylindrical, I could barely get it into my mouth without touching it with my teeth, and I would probably get tired within seconds. If I squeezed it, it was much easier, and the added width didn’t seem to have much impact. I think I have kind of a wide penis, so these things are important to what my girth goal is going to be. :)

Okay so I have some interesting news for you guys:

My cock was too big for this Asian girl (Hong Kong foreign exchange student) that I tried to fuck last night.

I ate her out for 20 minutes and fingered her with two fingers (which was REALLY stretching her out). Then when we tried for about 10 minutes, including with extra lube, to get my dick in. I could poke my head a little in and out, but that was all she could handle. I asked her how she normally has sex, she looked puzzled, and said, “You and I are opposite.”

It was sweet but bitter. She was so shocked, she obviously had never encountered a penis close to that size. I still got off from concentrating really hard on the feeling at the tip of my glans. But it was just RIDICULOUS! I have only encountered one other such pussy with similar tightness, but the HK girl definitely beats her easily.

She seemed too experienced to be a virgin, but I could be wrong. She’s 20 years old. My coach told me, “Man, she’s either a virgin or she’s been fucking some really skinny-dicked guys. Maybe it’s true what they say of Asians?” I really felt that girl could maximum take about a 5.5 inch girth, as my glans girth is around 5.75” I think and she couldn’t even handle the whole head without being in crying pain.

One finger felt really tight in her. Once again, I’m still in a state of disbelief. Jeez. It would’ve felt SO DAMNED GOOD if only I can figure out a way to fit my cock in there. She is still talking to me so she’s still interested. I want to STRETCH THAT PUSSY OUT! Give those Hong Kong boys a little more of a challenge.

The blow jobs I recieve differ in there pleasure, id say more then 85% of the time my cock rubs against my girlfriends teeth, which after a while obviously makes your penis sore, while this is a bit of a issue she loves to blow me and I love being sucked, it also seems that she can only get about 3 inch’s in her mouth without it hurtting her mouth. I would not say I have a huge penis, because I am only 18 and have not realy seen many men in showers etc even though I play sports, I just realy dont want to look. latley i have noticed the teeth being more of a issue then in the past as my penis has gone up by .4 inchs in girth and i am now sitting at 8.25” long and 5,9” in girth. my flaccid state realy isnt big, matter of fact id say I feel below average even small in my flaccid state, even though i know this isnt ture, O know i am definetly a grower. My girlfriend tells me her and her friends used to like watching me in pe because they could see my cock swinging around in my pants so i dont know if this means I appear over average or not in flaccid i am about 4.5 ” to 5 “in length flaccid.

Your dick is big…flaccid and erect. I’d say you’re a shower. Be thankful!

Sounds about right.

Thank you, I guess maybe my idea of my size is skewd quite a bit from what ive heard and seen on T.V., not to mention I havent realy seen that many other guys. im hoping I can post some pics and get some feedback, trying to figure out how to get them at the moment though.

I haven’t gone through this entire thread, and haven’t posted here in a while, but I remember reading a while back about guys having problems at like 6 inches in girth.

I’m about 6.5 inches in girth now, and have been for quite some time now, and have not had ANY problems with sex OR blowjobs.

Not to knock anyone’s sexual technique, but if you’re having problems with sex because of girth you may be either going to hard, or not doing enough foreplay.

Because I know I’m big (and always get comments on it), I go slowly and I ask specifically “are you ok?”… generally it’s “yes”… but sometimes I’ll be told not to go as deep or to slow down a bit.

Overall I really haven’t had any complaints at 6.5 inches in girth, and I’m sure I could be a decent amount bigger and be fine. The vagina stretches quite a bit… just be gentle.

After reading this thread, i plan on going for 7.75 x 5.7

Is it too much to ask if we settle on a standard for talking about length, I get lost trying to work out if people are talking BP or NBP.. No fault of theirs, but I do think of we’re going to respond on threads, we should be able to know what defacto standard people are using if they’re not going to qualify the length with the appropriate standard they used..

I totally agree with you.

Funny and interesting thread. Conclusion: Boys will be boys.

Like most guys here I never heard any complaints or had any difficulty pleasing the women in my life. But it’s not about that, and I think all of you know it. It’s about getting excited about your own dick. Don’t get me wrong. I don’t mean you are supposed to get hungry for sucking your own dick. What I mean is that we all want be well above average, as in school or in sports. We want a big dick that every guy envies and every woman wants to fuck (at least that’s what we want to believe :) ) And of course there is the three magic moments when we all want to hear that we are big:
1. The first time a woman unzips your jeans
2. First (or should I say every…) time of entry
3. When she orgasms (oh, yes, your cock is so big… aaaaah :) )

At least that’s why I’m here. I know I’m big enough for 99 % of the women out there but that’s not it. We don’t do PE for the women, we do it for ourselves. It’s about our self esteem, feeling manly, proud, getting more excited about sex. Sometimes (as in my case) it stems from having a false view of reality but who cares? In my eyes I am more on the small side than on the big side (6,6*5,1 inches). It does not matter if statistics or some women tell me otherwise, in the end it’s my view that counts (I admit that I compare mine to the porn stars, and if they are not much bigger than me I think it’s bad casting…).

So in closing, I would like to end with stealing the feminists war cry:

“It’s my body!” :)

/Going for (at least) 8*6

I’d only add that in a perfect world 2 and 3 coincides. :)

Pussy sizes vary as much as penis sizes and you can never tell. I’m dating a petite woman right now and although she is a tight fit girth wise (and I’m only 5.1” of girth) she can take my 7+ inches no problem. The sensation is exquisite, slamming my whole length into something so snug. I’ve had larger women who were wide as a barn door that I would constantly bottom out on back when I was 6.3” in length.

I think great sex is about adapting to the relative sizes, not just about being huge or tight. With wider women I hit the 10 and 2 oclock, get up doggies style and really work the different angles that are possible. You can feel huge to her if you stick it in sideways. ;) The current girl I stay straight up and sometimes even use lube (even although she provides generous amounts herself the artificial stuff helps out ) or she complains about being sore later, which of course sucks for both of us because we can’t have comfortable sex again right away, which we both want. ;D

Size matters for sure, but technique is the bridge that allows for good sex with wider differences in sex organs. I think working on both is probably a good idea.