When is it too big for sex and BJ

Very true …amazing what they can take. Just remember it’s not as solid as the objects are, so little different comparison needed….( :

Well my dick gets pretty hard to the point where it’s like plastic and I’m unable to bend it and I’m only able to indent it ~0.5mm with my finger nails.

I mean I definitely know I wouldn’t be able to give BJ to a dick like mine.

7.5x5.5 is probably the “best” size for most women like you said.

My goal is still 9x6.5 just because of my ego though.

Fuck….Go for it if you need to.

I like to set goals high, so mine is actually set at approximately 10.5” BPEL x 6.5” MEG. That said, I’m ok with what I have now, and if I can get to 8.5” BPEL x 5.5” or 9” BPEL x 6” MEG I’ll be extremely happy as well. Both those would give me a NBPEL of 7.5-8” even with the fat pad I have now.

Honestly too, I set length based on my own ideals, but girth is also set by the response. I want at least 5.5” out of PE, but anything beyond that is really based on how it is received by the fairer sex. I figure most should likely still be ok with 5.5-6” though, at least based on what I’ve read around here and other forums.

At least 7.5X 5.5 and you got all things covered. Undeniable. Above that it’s a personal choice. Won’t do any more good physically, I think.It’s more of a visual thing to all women.Except size queens.For them the bigger the better.

But physically I think 7.5x5.5 got all cases covered. Even size queens.

Even though, for most, that would mean a 6.5-7” NBPEL x 5.5” penis?

Yep.

Just seems weird since I am 7.75” (6.75” NBPEL) x 5.1-5.2” MEG now (might actually be slightly longer as it has been a while since I officially measured and have seen 8” BPFSL a few times this month), and it just doesn’t look ‘very big’ at all. End of day I’ll take other’s word for it, but in my own eyes it just looks average to maybe a bit above, and maybe a bit on the skinny side.

As for the 7.5” BPEL (6.5-7” NBPEL) x 5.5” MEG comment, I’m surprised that would also include size queens…I haven’t met any in real life, but would have assumed around a 7.5” NBPEL x 5.75” MEG would be their starting point, up to about 9”x6.5”.

Phoenix, I might agree with you a bit there but do remember that all of your BPEL is definitely usable with you go balls deep!

From what I know, size queens never go under 7 inches NBPEL.

A good way to see what it’s like to have to blow a dick with larger girth, simply get out your nearest paper towel roll or toilet paper roll and try to put it in your mouth. It’s probably between 5.25 and 5.5 girth. You’re going to have to spread your mouth pretty damn wide to get it in. Now do that for a prolonged period of time and you’ll see that it hurts your jaw a lot. My girl will sometimes stop sucking and massage her jaw briefly because she says it’s gotten sore from being open so wide for so long. At 6 girth you pretty much guarantee teeth and not much depth to your blowjob.

Most cocks aren’t perfectly circular though. Usually they’re wider left to right than top to bottom. This allows their cheeks to expand with the width while the cock still fits in between the teeth. Getting a blow job sideways would probably be impossible at anywhere above 5 girth, but most definitely at 5.5.

It happens with all dick owners. We all see it as average even if it’s big. I think anyone will agree to that. Find another man with your dick size, ask him to get an erection and place your head near his erection. I bet you’ll change your mind.

True perhaps. I said 7.5 bpel which can actually be 7 nbpel. I have a female friend who is a size queen. A good friend. I asked her if she would take or leave my size and she said << You are in my lower limits.>>.

I believe her cause we are friends for many years. I also knew her ex husband. Well hung guy. Close to 8.5. Her statement.That’s the one who spoiled her.

She seems to favor length. As for girth one time she said that doesn’t bother her as long as we are not talking about a straw.

LOL well I think I’ll pass on that one lol.

That said, I know I have measured out 7” before and also cut paper towel tubes to both my NBPEL and BPEL size, and arguably they look big until I place them next to me. Perception is evil, I know, but I still think most size queens would want a 7.5” NBPEL (so 8-8.5” BPEL), although they are not the norm.

Even if it doesn’t look huge to me when I get there, I sort of have the 7.5” NBPEL/8.5” BPEL x 5.5” MEG stuck in my head as the real starting point to ‘huge’. Since I only have a touch over 0.5”x0.4” to go, my hope is I can get there sometime in 2016-2017…although I still want to keep going from there (length as much as I can gain, and girth up to about 6-6.5” or until more girls have issue with it vs those who do not).