When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

I was quoting the post of restored just before mine, he confused diameter and circumference (may be you too? and we are in inches not cm), and why you say mine “are”, have you two or more glans?

Yes, it should have read, “My glans measures 6.7 inches in circumference.” Spell check would not have caught that, nor did I when I proofread it.

Hahaha okay my bad and no no I have only one glands hahahaha,

I am about 7.75 BPEL and probably about 5.5” MEG over 6” at base. Sometimes my wife can’t take all my length and sometimes she can. The idea is to get them warmed up enough. It definitely takes more foreplay and poking and proding to get it all the way in, than before I PE’d. She usually can only take the whole length when she is on the verge of orgasm or after orgasm. However during those times I think she could take (and enjoy) a tiny bit more length and a lot more girth. (Which is why I am focused on girth right now)

Also the position of sex makes a huge difference. Girl on top she can take it all pretty easily, missionary with her legs up about 1.5” has to stay out. Doggy style is also the same there are very few times when I can go balls deep in doggy, but when I do it almost makes it more erotic becaus she is taking in more cock than usual. I find it slightly erotic seeing her barely be able to fit my whole cock in. I’m sure that many here feel the same way.

Makes fore quite the ego boost

Yes.

And women vary so much. I’ve been with women who could never adapt to ~8x6 very well; it would always get in the way of an optimal sex life. I’ve been with others who could probably take 8” girth (a beer can) with minimal preparation and little soreness after.

If you aren’t already married to a woman with the latter kind of pussy, be careful about getting too big. I really don’t think there’s much to be gained in getting bigger than about 7x5.5” for the majority of women, even though most can take more than that comfortably.

Ironhead makes a very good point regarding positions. The right position can make a cock feel bigger or even smaller, at least according to the women I’ve talked to. My gf can take my size without distress, but says certain positions make my cock feel “like 5 times bigger” in her words. In my opinion, I wouldn’t necessarily worry about getting “too big.” If you want to continue to PE in a limited fashion, continue working on girth. A really thick dick provides much more pleasure than a really long one.

Thank you all for your comments.

I was thinking back to an old girlfriend over 3 years ago. The topic of John Holmes came up on the TV, and I asked her what she thought about his large cock. She said it’s too big, and then with a bright smile said, “Yours is perfect! I wouldn’t want it any bigger.” Well, back then I was 7.25” BPEL, and now I’m 8”. My most recent prior girlfriend told me also, “You’re size is perfect, I wouldn’t want it any bigger.” I’m curious what my earlier girlfriend would say if we had sex today now that I’m bigger? Hmmm….

So yesterday I had sex with a BBW. First time ever with a BBW! I was just so horny I decided what the heck!! I was able to hit bottom with her but just barely, and she handled my girth with no problems whatsoever. She told me a few sex partners she had told her that she felt very open inside. Basically, that she wasn’t very tight. I’m 5.6” MSEG & little over 7” at Base. I did feel that she could certainly handle more girth, but all in all, I also felt that I filled her quite nicely. She has had quite a few sexual partners, and she said in all that time she’s only had 5 orgasms, including the 2 I just gave her. ;) I’m not sure whether to account that to my size, although I’m betting it helped. So once again, I think that 8” BPEL may be plenty enough, maybe as most members seem to agree, “Perfect.” I have a friend who claims he has 9”, and he says he bottoms out nearly every time. In fact he stopped dating one girl because her vagina was just too small. So I’m thinking that 8” may just be about the maximum goal to shoot for that will satisfy most women, and also lower the chances of bottoming out. Whoever commented that growing our penises is more about us makes a very good point.

As far as girth, I know that most members are shooting for 6” MSEG. That is a tall order for most guys. As I said, I’m 5.6” MSEG, but 7”+ at base, and I don’t have any problems going bone deep with most women, except for the couple petite ladies I had sex with recently. I’m contemplating now whether to shoot for 6” MSEG. and whether that even makes sense. My thought is that when I’m fully in her, I have approximately 6-7” girth within the first 1/3 of her vagina which is the most sensitive, right? So is adding more girth at the middle going to make her experience any better? Hmmmm… I just don’t know.

Well, 8” BPEL will be the absolute maximum for me, maybe I’ll stop at firegoat’s ultimate dick size. : )

Girth is 5” at the base. Shortly below that at mid shaft. So girth is what I really need more than length. The problem is that I have a tough time gaining girth. Fortunately, hanging may help both with length and girth. ;)

You also have to look at the technique too. Does she like long or short thrusts? Does she like it fast or slow? What positions does she like the most? .ect

If you got more girth on the mid shaft of the penis you can do long thrusts instead short thrusts at the base girth. If the girth of the penis is too big, the girl may not be able to take it fast. Some positions can feel the girth of the penis better than other positions, so you don’t want to be too big for one position and/or be too small for another position. .ect

Good points!! You got me thinking..

I was thinking about a penis that is shaped more cone-like with the base being the thickest part, then as you push it in, the increased thickness will push outwards on her inner walls right on up till pelvic meets pelvic.
It would be somewhat backwards if the thickest part is closer to the glans, and she can feel the girth deeper inside her, but max girth at the most sensitive 1/3rd of her vagina won’t be felt until the penis is coming out.
Of course, while I’m on the topic, a symmetrical tube-like penis will cause a more even, unvarying stretch. It would be interesting to survey women which type of penis they would prefer, if their arm was twisted behind their back ;)

So back to the original topic. Even considering these 3 possible penis shapes, it still comes down to the perfect girth that’ll be most pleasing to the broadest majority of women, right? So if 6” MSEG is the magical number, as many seem to believe, then what if the 6” is closer to the glans or to the base, not at the middle? What I’m asking is — Is the middle also the magical spot? Perhaps we should consider taking the average girth of the upper — middle — & lower - portions of the penis to come up with a girth measurement to set our goals by. Heck who knows? I’m just theorizing for the fun of it. Someone else chime in :)

I’ll chime in with what my girlfriend has to say on the subject, as we’ve had a conversation or two related to this specifically. I have that situation of a slightly above-average head, mid around 5.75-6 and a base 6.5+ which fits the mold of the cone-shaped penis. I told her about this idea of the thicker base opening up the first 1/3 of the vagina, which she did agree felt really nice. She went on to talk about how when the head hits the cervix, or some other part deep in the vagina, she gets an intense pleasure. So, for her, she said she wouldn’t mind a glans with quite a bit of girth as it hits a number of different places very deep inside.

This makes sense to me as she likes to grind on me with most, if not all, of my shaft all the way inside. She can take 8” BPEL+ so she might not be representative of most women out there. I personally like the tapered shape as it makes penetration a much easier process as I slowly push in more and more. The head is a bit more forgiving and she takes more shaft as she gets more and more arouse. But, her mentioning the deep penetration sensations seems to be an argument for having a good sized glans, as well as a mid-shaft girth that tapers to a thicker base.

My vote is that you’ll have a very hard time finding a universally appealing set of numbers. I think if you shoot for the majority of the shaft at, or a bit under 6”, you really can’t go wrong.

The shaft of my unit is fairly consistent in circumference except where it approaches the glans as well as near the base. It tapers only slightly just before the glans, and flairs out like a tree trunk as it approaches the pelvic bone area.

I have gotten several very favorable comments over the years.

It is like someone said about initial insertion. I practice putting only the glans in and gently thrusting momentarily then with draw. I then insert the glans along with about an additional inch. I repeat this process until I have inserted the entire length. I have practiced this method for many years. It has always been very successful for me and enjoyable for both persons involved.

Not sure where you got this data.

My fiancee had allot if difficulty accommodating my size when we first got together in both length and girth. She is also very small around 5’2. It took almost a year for me to make it all the way in.

Now she rarely has any pain during intercourse. It takes time for women to adjust to size.

Oh my gosh, a blast from the past. I got way to big for ms tnt. Read my thread. I dare not PE anymore, with my luck, I will gain.