When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

I’ve been PE’ing for about 3 years. I’m now at 8 BPEL X 5.6 mseg (7+ girth at base), & a large glans.

Here’s my dilemma. I recently slept with a couple petite girls. They were only a little over 100 lbs. They were both really tight and I couldn’t get it all the way in. I love to go deep, right to my pubic bone. Do I stop working on length gains?

My past girlfriends were not as tight and could handle my full length. I’m single, and some day I may end up with the same lady for the rest of my life. Hopefully!! But what if she’s a petite lady?

My concern is that I may end up with someone that can’t take my full length. It would be counterproductive to continue working on length if she can’t handle what I already have. On the flip side, there are women that can take it all in & even a little more. I love the feeling of being able to reach the end.

As far as girth, these petite girls were also very tight. I realize that a woman’s vagina can expand and get accustomed to her man’s girth, but never heard they can get accustomed to his length. As far as other girls I’ve slept with, they’ve told my my size was perfect, and told me they wouldn’t want it any bigger (yet I’ve gained since then). At the same time, I know they could handle an even larger cock than mine, but mostly in the girth department.

So when is enough, enough? When do I just focus on PEQ?

Here’s the kicker, like many of us, I have been PE’ing to have the biggest cock I can. I’m BIG, but not HUGE! I was originally thinking about setting a new goal that would take me to the next level until I had sex with these petite women. But now I’m just not sure where to focus my efforts.

I know there are members on here that have HUGE cocks, and I would be curious to hear your opinions & insights. And of course I would entertain opinions from all.

Thank You!

I am interested in this too I hope we can get an answer soon. I dont want to be too big either.

I don’t know of this wild rumor has any merit but I’ve heard that you can penetrate deeper by going under the cervix.

I heard it too brother. I think it is true but as always you have to be patient and careful when going in. This is like a war, if you go psycho shooting everything you can f*** the whole mission jejej.

I’m still shooting for 8 BPEL. Currently around 7 BPEL and only once did I bottom a woman and had a solid amount of dick out in the open. It did not understand what happened at once.

Every other girl have taken it all.

Still I fear that 8 BPEL my be setting myself up for trouble, as I also enjoy going balls deep and not having to concern myself with being ‘careful’.

I also wonder if the vagina can accomodate more length in time?

The can accommodate the length in time with caution and patience. Going 8 inches is good I think and should not make a huge problem at least that is what I have read here in Thunders. How much girth do you possess?

Just because a woman ‘can’ take a certain size does not (and I so wish guys here would get this!) mean they want the biggest size they can take all the time. Most women like to be able to have sex again within 24 hours, without being sore. All women like to be able to walk normally after sex :D .

Most women, for regular sex, like a penis that is at the most 75-80% of their comfortable maximum. If you want to grow a huge penis, you are doing it for yourself! Lots of women like ‘bragging rights’ when they are talking to their friends about the size of their boyfriend’s/husband’s penis - and they do talk to friends about it (most exaggerate too, as long as you are getting on well with them) - but women really don’t want a huge cock every time they have sex, regardless of what we like to imagine (or what silly young girls want you to believe to keep your ego in check).

My signature line is based on many, many years of personal experience, and also a lot of reading here. Sure, your ego might want more. But your woman probably does not.

I agree with you man. They are 2 different things. One is that the woman want a big dick and other different thing is that they want to murder their own vagina every time they get laid. I really think that the magic 8x6 is more than enough to satisfy a women and you can even have less than that and still they can enjoy it (6.5x6 or 7x5.5-6 inches). All of us should always look at the right thing to create ( penis size in this matter). Yes 99.9 of males want a bigger dick than they already have by nature but that does not mean that every woman you see and talk to wants you to have a 10+ inch dick and 7+ girth dick. That’s my opinion brothers.

6 inches BPEL and 5.5 inches MS-EG should be your minimal goal because it’s big, but should be no where close to being too big.

7 inches BPEL and 6 inches MS-EG should be your optimal goal because it’s pretty big, but should be close to being too big.

8+ inches BPEL and 7+ inches MS-EG will likely be too big for oral sex, anal sex, and vaginal sex.

charlie dog, you can stop working on length and focus on girth.

Once upon a deserted golf course, a lone golfer made a hole-in-one.
As was the nature of that course when a solitary golfer achieved a hole-in-one, the hole-in-one fairy would appear and grant him a wish.

Up popped the hole-in-one fairy as the man approached to reclaim his ball.
Genie: “Behold, lone golfer, I am the hole-in-one fairy and I am here to grant you a wish!”
Golfer: “I am a fortunate man in many ways. I have money, my health, and fine looks. What else might I wish for but a longer dick!”
Genie:”No sooner asked than achieved. Even now, the magic stirs through your loins, and will continue to do so until you reach the clubhouse. In this fashion, you shall determine your endowment!”
So the Golfer ambled ever so slowly to the clubhouse.
Later that night, the Genie was again awakened by the same golfer after having obtained two hole-in-ones in one evening.
Genie: “What is the matter?”
Golfer: “It’s, it’s my dick! It’s huge!”
Genie: “So would you like it to be as it was?”
Golfer: “Hell no! I thought you might lengthen my legs so that it doesn’t look so odd.”

Squib - I copied and pasted that to the jokes thread, which is great fun if you have a few hours to kill, and like jokes! /brain-food/joke-time.v2-60.html#post2070947

I am sure that there is a limit for some women as far as length and/or girth are concerned. IMHO I would thing that the limit would be more concerned with length, especially for the small/petite woman.

My unit measures, currently, 8.5 BPEL, 6.5 MSEG and 7.5 BSEG. My glans measures 6.7 inches in diameter. My unit volume is 28.7 cu. In.

I have been with 10 women where penetration was accomplished total length. There was one not included in this number who refused penetration at all.

I have been married twice and had no difficulty with total penetration with either of these women.

I find it interesting that the second one to whom I was married commented very favorably referring to both my length and girth. Later in the marriage as things began to deteriorate in the relationship she made mention on several occasions using negative comments both about my size as well as my ability to satisfy her. Of course early on the comments were very encouraging. Those of later years bruised my ego until I woke up to the reality of the situation. BTW I was her third marriage.

My glans measures 6.7 inches in diameter. ( I hope circumference )

May it be too big?

I think you are because mine are around 4.5 maybe a tiny more and they do look good. So your are pretty pretty big my brother jejeje. I hope I was able to help you.

I think it can. If it can accommodate as heavy as a few kilograms and much taller than 8 inches child when giving birth I think it will have no problem with much smaller penis. Of course no offense, your penis is quite big.