When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

My wife was a virgin when we married. I was basically the same size then as now. I took it very easy, and was tender with her. We had very little difficulty consummating our marriage. She was 5’5”.

I was able to penetrate to the fullest length.

Im almost 8 inches bp and 5,4 girth. I can make problems for some.

Its highly subjective. But if you are 8+ inches long you will encounter problems for sure. You have to grow your sexual skills with your dick along.

warming her up. massages..blood flow. getting her going. checking how wet she is. the right positions etc. etc.

Its not for nothing that woman say its about how you handle your dick.

I have a pretty good technique so even with my starting size which was around 7 so a bit over average I was creaming pussys and giving orgasms.

over 8 long and over 5.6 thick you can encoutner problems. Im sure.

Can you share some of the right positions? or techniques? I will become a 7 inches or more so I want to be ready and practicing so I don’t hurt my girlfriend or kill her as she is sensible for everything.

First she needs to be wet so shes lubricated enough to be able to take the grinding.
The more blood towards her vagina the better.
Mentally aroused will help tremendously.

I like to escalate my grip on her body. A strong massage if you will. Always towards her pussy.
Then feeling upfront with your hands how wet she is. If she knows your size she will let you know when she is ready.

Then its imperative to slide slowly deeper and deeper. While doing that try to hit different angles. You will see where she is more comfortable and where not.

With a dick that bottoms out you get into a position where you can use grinding. This means you are not moving in and out but rather around. This alone makes some woman come. But some dont like it and preffer all out hitting and smashing lol.

The position is important as you will hit different angles and spots.
Many woman do feel pain when hitting their cervix directly. Instead you aim for above or under to put the force there. Many woman have there some orgasm spots.
Infact some do cream up heavily once you hit these spots.

Basicly everything where her ovaries drop down and “out” are to be handled carefully. Like her sitting on top. Or missionary with knees to the shoulders.
A flat pillow under her ass helps. Otherwise she might get “gutted” which can be very painfull for some woman(again some like it)

The right way done you can make hot sex in every position even with a 10 inch dong.

For me warming her up getting her excited, grinding, trying to avoid direct cervix hits and paying attention to when she is on the edge to painfull angles is key.

The thing with the cervix is also that it differs very much during her priod..so sometimes it might be very sensitive and then not..

Are you going for more length and girth with those stats?

I slept with a new girl this weekend and the sex was really good! With a slim body like she had, I did not really feel the need for much more length at all. Only with her on top and possibly sideways did I feel more length would be nice.

She said that my cock was perfect for her pussy and judging by how it felt to me as well, I think that may be right and not just her stroking my ego.

While she took all my length without any issues, she ‘complained’ afterwards about hurting in her stomach because I had fucked her so deep and hard.

And I have to say that for me, being able to pound away without calculating every single stroke is very enjoyable and not something I would want to give away. So I may very well stop at 7.5 BP.

My midshaft girth is actually slightly below 5.0”, but I still made her orgasm so hard that she literally trembled. That helped my confidence. :)

I have mentioned this several times in other threads. As you can see from my signature I possess a penis above average. It is mostly nature given size. I only had one situation where the female refused my penetration. In the other 9 situations in my life I had not problems, even getting favorable comments about both length as well as girth.

I always have prided myself in my technique, both in foreplay and the ability to get to woman to achieve orgasm. My wife of 36+ years reached orgams most of the time.

Good for you and her. If that is your goal then you reached it. Work on technique.

Im going for as much as I can get while maintaining 100% EQ. Its fun for me. like for some hitting a high score in a game.

I think you can have good sex with 10x6.6 inches. It just depends on how you use it and probably at some point selection of woman who digg that.

There is for sure a point where its not usable at all. Still even the biggest guys around in porn find some pussy..

If you are married and your wife is on the brink of getting pain you sure should stop enlarging.

It’s a opinion (answer) to a question. 8+ inches for BPEL and 7+ inches for MSEG starts to become counterproductive because it’s too big.

Did you mean not till 7+ inches ?MSEG? that it can start to become counterproductive? I’m thinking along the lines of 6+ if looking at a broad spectrum of women (average sized vaginas). 7”+ MSEG could scare a number of women with small & averaged sized vaginas. Women with large vaginas may be saying WHOOPIE!!! I have 7”+ at BSEG, but 5.6” MSEG which still feels pretty tight for most the women I’ve been with. I couldn’t imagine having an extra 1 1/2” MSEG. Whoa!! That would be an absolute MONSTER!! HA HA

I think 6-7+ inches TSEG and 7+ MSEG will be more counterproductive for oral sex, but less for anus sex, but even less for vaginal sex. So it depends when it starts becoming counterproductive, but you probably don’t want to be any bigger then the sizes I listed below.

I prefer/recommend a penis to be shaped how it was suppose to be shaped: Which is TSEG is the smallest and MSEG is the medium and BSEG is the biggest.
With tip of shaft being smallest then you can get your penis in their holes easier, so don’t make your TSEG too big.
Once your penis is in it makes it easier for you to fit your more pleasurable+bigger MSEG and BSEG too, so don’t make your TSEG and BPEL too big.
= I am against 7-8+ inches BPEL and 6-7+ inches TSEG (and maybe 7-8+ inches MSEG and maybe 8+ inches BSEG).

Ok guys, I have to share what happened to me this evening.

So I’m on this online dating site, and this older lady (62) contacts me. Her approach was so unusual that I had to find out what this lady was all about.

I show up at the bar, and we have a cozy little area to talk. She tells me, “before we go any further I think it’s only fair to tell you that I provide sensual massages, and you need to be comfortable with that.” Holy cow, within 10 minutes she springs this on me. I said, “Uh, by sensual massages, do you mean…..” She interrupts me, “Yes, they get a happy ending.” OMG!! So we’re talking about this and she’s telling me about how she’s able to access the guys chakra, discusses tantra, and on & on… She goes on to say that she has clients from all over, even hundreds of miles away, guys in their 20’s, older guys that have trouble getting it up, etc, coming back, that she’s that amazing. So we’re still at the bar, she reaches in her purse for some lotion & squirts some into her hands, and proceeds to give me a sensual hand massage (you guys were thinking hand job right? Perverts!! HA HA! I wish!!), & then works the lotion into my shoulders & neck. Holy crap!! I could tell she has a way & knows what a man wants!!! :) Ok, so the evening winds down, & she says that she really likes me & hopes I like her. I said, well I’m very confused because in one respect I’m so curious about these sensual massages you give, and yet, here we are on a date seeing if there’s a connection. I said, “Where do we go from here?” She says, “Well why don’t you invite me over for a candlelight dinner, and then you can strip all your clothes off, and I’ll send you to the 2nd Heaven?” She said with complete confidence, you will never experience what I have to offer ever, and when we’re done, you will literally be bouncing off the ceiling. She’s older, overweight, semi-attractive face, & SUPER SENSUAL!! What do you guys think, do I have her over for dinner? LOL I’m thinking YES!!!

Ok, so as this pertains to this thread, we also talked about penis size. She had a guy 6’5”, very large man, & then showed me the tip of her pinky. That’s all the bigger he was. And she had a guy who’s cock was as thick as a pint glass & by the looks of her spread hands, 12 inches long!!! Holy Crap that’s Gi-Normous!! She’s been doing this with hundreds of men, & she said that she thinks, now GET THIS!!!!, that the average size penis is around 7-8 inches. WTF!!! Seriously?!!! That just can’t be right. I’m sure she hasn’t measured, & must not have any sense of measurement. By her calculations, I’m average. What’s the point of this thread? I guess I need to make new, much bigger goals. HA HA!! So, I think I need to test her visual perspective. I’ve read countless times about girls that think their boyfriend’s dick is 9-10-12 inches, when in fact it’s only 7-8”. So I think I’m going to have her over, & work on my 8” (at full mast) cock and ask her how big she thinks it is. If she says, 7-8”, we’re fucked!! HA HA!! If she says 9”+, then after a BIG SIGH of RELIEF, it’ll show how inaccurate women can be who think they can measure visually without using an actual ruler. I’m also curious what she has to say about my thickness! God I hope she doesn’t say anything that’ll just piss me off! LOL ;)

great story! Keep us posted! lol!

Very good thinking.
I also think that for a dick that is longer then what she can take its very beneficial to have a much bigger base.
This can act as a sort of “stopper”. while providing good stretch and friction at her sensitive opening and clit.

I posted a thread about wrapped head shaft busters over at mos(same nick).
Basicly you wrap your head thightly and do your exercises which enlarges your shaft more then with the head taking all the blood/expansion.

Hanging is said to enlarge the base too.

Any other ideas to achieve that form?

A smaller tip? I have large glans and it certainly helps when rubbing it against the clitoral/vaginal area in foreplay. My meg is 6” and my glans can measure up to 6.5” if erection quality is 10 out of 10 and I can tell you my Wife and previous partners love both the overall girth & large head (glans)

I do have to take care upon entry, foreplay is a must, even with quickies, however I wouldn’t give away my girth and length for love nor money. I’m looking to add an inch MINIMUM to both stats and don’t see it being a problem whatsoever for my Wife. Incidentally, she was a virgin when I married her and we both had to be very patient for her to accommodate me but now she’s well adjusted and enjoying intercourse with me. At least that’s what her orgasms tell me.

Btw, my length is currently 7.75” BPEL after a long break from PE. Girth is 6” meg.

Go for your dreams and don’t sell yourself short just know with size comes added responsibility when having intercourse. Once your partner knows you care he/she will more than open up to you in all ways possible ;)

Wow you are huge man jeje. Go for it man. The teach us how to do it.