When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

tntjockey,

At what size did you lose all of your benefits?

1. Deepthroat
2. Anal
3. Sex with out alot of muss and fuss, able to just pop it in.

Did you experience some loss in gains after you stopped chasing them? I know for one where the hassle factor exceeds the rewards, they won’t mind losing some at all.

After I passed 7.5 BPEL X 5.5 EG ( which in my opinion is the ideal size). I am aproxximately 8.375 BPEL X 6.375 EG. No I never lost any gains and I did hope to loose them, but did not.
I feel I cemented almost immediately.

Your last sentence has so much meaning and some here may never know until it is too late.

Tntjockey- thanks for your wisdom. So often we let our egos and its insecurities destroy so much of our lives.

Can’t un-cement those gains?! BooHoo…

I was just kidding in that last post. Still though you’ll have a hard time finding pity for your 8”+er. I think so many of us refuse to believe it for ourselves. It flies in the face of what we all believe that PE is about. Wish I had at least 7”…..then I would want 7.5”…..then 8”…..i guess I’d need to walk a mile in your shoes (or foreskin) to believe it.

Guys, there is nothing in it between tnt’s ideal size, and mine (which has been linked for years in my sig line).

Once you factor out all the ego and porn watching etc. I think most guys with lots of experience would come to about the same size decision. And I know from experience that our partners/gf’s/wives would agree that for regular excellent sex, it’s a great size to be.

That does not of course rule out that they may enjoy a monster cock once in a while (just like we all enjoy going out to a good restaurant and getting absolutely stuffed to bursting once in a while!), but it wouldn’t be so enjoyable if it was the only option and we had to do it every time. :)

True. In my opinion most women like big dicks but not huge huge dicks for everyday of their lives. They like 6.5 to 7.5 inches on a normal basis. But having 8 or more inches is something they can enjoy but not every single day. At least that is how I have seen it in society. Its like men. We like big boobs and big butts but most of us would not like to have a size T of bra every single day and a woman with an ass bigger than a car. That’s the way I see it.

Here is one who can speak from years of experience who also possesses a natural 8+ x 6+ penis. I was married for several decades to a woman who was able to adapt to my size. Our sex life was great from my prospective. She was a virgin when we got married. I had to take things very easy at first. I had to be very gentle and use lots of lubrication.

As I remember, within a week of our marriage she was capable of accommodating me rather easily. I do not remember of her complaining about my size. Of course the oral thing was few and far between and there was never any anal, but that was fine with me.

In my time I have been with only 10 women. That is not counting one who refused my penetration because of my size. The first woman I was with sexually made several comments about my size. When I met her I was a virgin. She was “for hire”, if you get my drift. It was an experience I will never forget. I was 20 years old at the time. I was in college as many of you here are. A woman I knew at the time fixed me up with the woman I am referring to. She was very gentle with me. She did not rush things.

As I recall I was very nervous and sexually excited, which is an understatement. One of the most memorable things of this encounter was the sexual foreplay. Of course I was a hot, eager young buck at the time. She broke a chocolate covered cherry over my erect cock. She proceeded to give me a blowjob by licking the juices from the cherry. One could say that she literally “ate my cherry.” Of course this increased my level of excitement even further, but as I said she was gentle with me. She taught me to edge, which was something which was extremely difficult for me at this point in my sexual experience. Remember I mentioned that I was a 20 something virgin. As a matter of fact I had just turned 20. I was eager to have my first sexual experience.

She did not rush things with me.

Later I returned to my place of residence which was my fraternity house. I will tell you that that experience had me excited for quite some time after that. Yes, I was definitely turned onto sex.

In the ensuring years I have been with 9 other women.

Another series of events which I recall was my experiences in Puerto Rico while in the Navy. I was with three hot Puerto Rican women while stationed there. One of them in particular was hot after me. She came onto me whenever I would see her when I was on shore leave. There was one young, hot gal who refused me penetration. Her comment, as I remember, was that I was too big. When she saw my erection she quickly left the room. Of course I, needlessly say, I did not get a refund. HA!HA!

She is the only one that ever refused to accept penetration by my unit.

Over the ensuing years I had sex with several others, but was never again refused to be able to penetrate. I learned early on that I had to take my time to achieve total penetration however. That was never a problem for me as I always enjoyed the foreplay involved.

The last woman I was with was quite apprehensive about my size, but I was able to convince her that I would take it easy. Her comments later were to the effect that I was the largest which she had ever had. This was in a 3-way which included another man who was just over 7 inches long and about 5.5 inches in girth. She had been with him many times since they were in high school together. She had commented to him that she would like to have sex with someone larger that him. He contacted me, and made the arrangements.

Oh Ok. Sorry, I missed that.

Hey restored91, First off, great stories. Are you still shooting for an NBPEL goal of 9.0 according to your stats? LoL What possessed you to set that goal based on your past 10 women you’ve slept with? I swear I think we just want to be huge for the visual value, and for the Wow!! comments. Plus women tend to spread the word and stroke our egos, right?

When I was going to college, and in a Frat also, there was a circumstance that a couple frat brothers had a double date. One of them pissed off his date, and eventually, my other frat brother brought in both girls to my room. This girl had big TITS, and she pulled my pants down & tried to excite me with her bazoongas. My buddy & his girl were on the couch watching from a couple feet away. His girl giggles,”you have a small dick” to me. I was nervous with them there, and so I wasn’t able to get hard. The girl with the big tits was super nice & said, “Don’t mind her.” She was really sweet. So that experience stuck with me. At the same time, I’m a grower. So, I just wanted to get a raging hard-on & stick it in her face, and say, “small dick, huh? try to get your mouth around it bitch!” Ha Ha! Even so, since then, I always thought I had a small to average dick. In my late 20’s, I was in the Navy also, I was taking a piss, & a buddy of mine looked over as I was peeing. It was one of those days that my penis was flaccid, but partly engorged, hanging low & thick. A couple weeks later, in the shop we worked at, one of the gals mentions, “Hey, I heard you have a big dick.” Turns out my buddy told her. So I have a story that I’m told I have a small dick & then 5 years later I’m told I have a big dick. I was confused! So any ways, I decided I’d do PE for about 3 years & now I guess I have a Big Dick!! Ha Ha. I thought I wanted a HUGE dick, but as you can tell from this thread I started, I’m just not sure. I think I should stop & focus on PEQ, but what could it hurt to add just a tiny bit more. LOL

Lol, what a weird (but nice) thing to mention like that. What was she trying to achieve by bringing that up? Was she being purposefully cheeky and flirty, or did she just blurt it out like “Hey, way to go!”

Well I was caught off guard of course. I was married at the time, and brushed it off. Howeverrrrr, if I was single, I would have taken a different approach, and given her an opportunity to experience it. LOL :)

I also recall a couple situations when in boot camp. At that time there was no such thing as private showers. The showers were along the Wall in a rather large room. There were probably 8 or so shower heads there. When we showered all was out so every body could see what kind of package each one was carrying. A couple of times I was approached by some fellow recruits. They inquired if I would be willing to go into the drying room in the laundry, and while there get hard so that the could see what my cock looked like erect.

Then there was a time in Puerto Rico when a couple of my shipmates spied on me when I was with one of the local prostitutes. They reported to some of the others in my division what they had observed. It was at this time when on of the others in my division approached me about shacking up with him on shore. This bothered me very much. I was a 3rd Class and he was a seaman. It wasn’t long after that that he was assigned as my watch messenger. This made me very uncomfortable. After about 3 months I received transfer orders to a ship in Norfolk.

I breathed much easier after that.

Thanks, man. From what I’ve read here, only a select few actually gain any decent length from clamping, so that’s interesting. I know there were some intense pulling involved in your routine and piss pulls as well, so that probably contributed.

Based on your last post, would you say that 7.5 * 5.5 is the ideal size?

Why did you not stop there? Were you not aware of it at the time or were you simply too consumed by your goal of becoming huge?

I’m glad to hear that I can stop at 7,5. I’m almost there. :)

Maybe thats what he means. I am around 5.5 girth in 100% erection and I havent got any complain. It is all about the different types of women. I think you can be 5.5 to 6 and that should be enough. In length I think as a maximum you should have an 8 but that is the top no more. I am aiming for a 7~7.5 X 5.75~6. top.