When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

In response to Charlie Dog’s question about my length goal—

At this time I think that my main goal is to continue working towards improved EQ. This is something which I seem to be slowly achieving. Every day things seem to be getting a bit harder, ha ha. Yes!

I am not looking for pity, not at all. I am just simply posting my experiences in how things were hindered in ms tnt’s and my marriage went on after the surpassing the goal
we agreed on. Your last sentence is exactly how it happened. Read my thread in my signature. After reaching just over 7.5 X 5.5 I mention I may try for 8, and I did. After
that, hard times for both ms tnt and myself, but care has to be taken on both our part. It almost ended our marriage. Most of the vets know what we were going through.

Yes, I would say that 7.5 X 5.5 is the ideal size, in fact, that size looked bigger to me than my current size of approx 8.375 X 6.375. That size is so well proportioned.
It is an awesome look.

Why did I not stop when I was there. Well I have that in my thread as well. I started to gain so quickly after ms tnt found our niche. After our clamping session it was so huge
that I did get consumed. She asked me to stop, but I continued. She stopped helping me, once I realize it was causing problems in our sex life it was too late. I gained to fast
in a short period of time. ms tnt said that I did it for my ego and not for the both of us. If I can turn back the hands of time. That size was so much fun yet it was sorta crossing
the line that it was a bit much.

Hey guys, this is my life and my wife, it does not necessarily mean that size (7.5 X 5.5) is good for everybody, it is simply my opinion and I was once at that size to experience it.
Look at Titleist, he has a 9 inch monster and his wife loves it to death. Everybody is different.

Hey Renholder, once you get to that size, you will question yourself wheather you want to continue, because that size looks awesome and you may think a bigger size may be a better
fit for you.

I have evrything documented mi my thread where I even mentioned that my wife asked me to stop and remarked that I may shoot for 8.

What about those few of us who have been blessed with the “magical” 8x6 or greater?

I remember when I first got engaged, way back when, my dad said that it was just like buying a pair of shoes. “You need to try it on first.” Needless to say I ignored his advice. Things did work out favorably for me anyway. I ended with a woman who was a virgin, who was able to accept my entire length and thickness, although not directly at first. It took some doing. Which I might add added the the excitement of exploration. We had a very good life and sex life until she sickened several decades later and eventually died.

Would I change thing from back then, “NOT ON YOUR LIFE!”

I am happy that you had great times with your wife and saddened for you that she has passed. My dad told me the same thing.

It is all about looking for the exact size. Everyone of us should look for that but not when you get really big like more than 7.5 inches in length and 5.5 of girth. What I am trying to explain is that you should grow and then quickly try that size with your partner. Then if it does not give any problems then grow a little bit more and try it again. What really helps in this PE thing and when to stop is your patner. They should give us the more or less exact size we should get. At least thats what I am doing. I know that not everybody has a partner and it could be difficult to do this but if you do have one then try the experiment. Dont grow a lot without first knowing your partners limit.

As for opinions. I am not big yet I am only 6.25 ( 6.3 at best EQ) and 5.5 of girth. For now my girlfriend does not show any real pain because of the size or discomfort. She only tells me that I should take it slow because she has a little problem getting lubricated. Who can really talk about this are the ones that have a good length and girth. Im just giving an opinion of a possible way to know when to stop ( at least for now ).

But, you are single, I am not. Single guys can grow as much as they want, But if you are married or in a serious relationship, you MUST consider your partner. You may find the most perfect right girl that you want to spend the rest of your life with and all of a suudden, SEX happens and things slow down. C’mon guys, shit can happen. I am not giving anybody adice on this thread, just simply telling you ms tnt and my experience. We had great and one of the best times of our life PEing together until I fucked up. PE can become addicting.

If I were to give advice, I would say, customize your cock and think of the future as you gain.

I totally agree with tnt. Even though I had no problems except the one incident I have mentioned elsewhere. That is about the one, when I was younger, who refused to accommodate me because of my size. There was only one such time.

I have some thought on this issue. Now my personal experience has been a double edged sword. Since my size increase my wife cums way faster and WAY harder than she used to, to the point where she just has to lay there without moving for about ten minutes after sex which is awesome!

However lately I have only been able to go balls deep in two positions her in top, or her laying flat on her stomach and me behind her. In these positions I can pretty much get All the way in however, if I try to go too far or push really hard (which I like to do) it hurts her.

So last night when we had sex she came very very very hard so I figured she was really warmed up and rolled her onto her back putting her legs in many different positions (in the air, wrapped around me, curled up to her chest etc…) now when doing this I could barely get 1/2 to 3/4 of my cock in her no way in hell I was going all the way in. Had her switch to doggy in which the same situation took place. When I came I pushed in as deep as I could go and I could tell it was a bit painful for her.

Every time I have grown she has had way better, harder, longer, wetter orgasms than ever before but it has been slightly detrimental to me just being able to fuck her super hard….

Also another important issue that I don’t think has been discussed is the women’s state of mind. My wife’s overall sex drive has been pretty dismal as of late. (Think its becaus of birth control) but it seems as if she is holding herself back from really letting go and just enjoying sex, as she does have some fairly bad anxiety issues and was raised in a very anti-sexual household. I think if she was able to just let go I could go balls deep no problem, but she seems to tense up and is almost “expecting” it to hurt… Hmmm maybe I should start a different thread for this topic haha.

What’s your size, Ironhead?

As mentioned earlier somewhere, I’m a member of a Norwegian forum dominated by female members. There’s been a lot of discussion on penis size throughout the years, and while there are a few size queens, a large majority claim to prefer a ‘normal’ or ‘average’ penis.

Here’s the latest report from a female member that caught my attention:

“I got a new boyfriend this summer and he’s great, but the problem is he’s too big. Yes, it’s a problem. I never thought I would think so, but it’s truly become a problem.

Of course, we’ve measured. His girth is about 7” and his length is just over 8”. We’ve tried using padding at the base (don’t laugh) so that he does not come to deep, but the girth is simply too much. I know the pussy can accomodate in time, but it still feels like I’m being split by a baseball bat. And yes, I’m wet and horny with plenty of foreplay. No problems there. He’s simply too big! And I who once enjoyed anal sex. That’s impossible now.

His cock is ultra sexy! I love playing with it, making it big, being proud of it, teasing it on the beach and stuff like that. I’m in love with it! But it just don’t work for intercourse. I need that…:( “

Hey charliedog what happened with that 60yo babe giving you a massage? Did you find out if 7-8inch is truly the average God forbid?

Interesting post Renholder.

Maybe the boyfriend can get a reduction?

I know what my reponse would be if my partner should ask.;)

I have decided not to measure during this 6 week routine just cause its too much of a mind fuck for me. But I know my BPEL is about 7.75” and my girth is about 5.3-5.5” when rock hard about 6” at base.

I have another story!! But first, I backed out of receiving an erotic massage from that 60 yr old. I got spooked. Why would she want to come over to my house, have dinner, & give me a hand job? It had been her part-time occupation, and we had virtually no chemistry. She was a bit upset with me, but after a few texts, told me we should get together again and play some pool. So, basically, I can continue hanging out with her to make sure she’s for real, and then possibly try again.

On a separate note, I met this 24 yr old gal and we’ve been having sex together. The first night we had sex she said, “Boy did I need that! :) And it’s the first time during intercourse I’ve had an orgasm.” I’m like seriously?? She goes on to say she has been with 13 guys and thought the average size was 7-8 inches. I’m like WTF!! SERIOUSLY?? Ha Ha!! I have to hear this again??… She said the biggest guy was about 13 inches, very uncomfortable, & kept having to twist her hips to find a comfortable position & he could not fully insert it. Basically, she hated it! I will say this, there’s no way he could have been 13 inches. Maybe 10” in my mind. I mean, what are the odds? She said she had also been with some guys around 4 inches. Finally, she gave me the answer we all wanted to hear, & that is, for her, 7-8 inches is perfect in her book. She said, “the bigger the better” is ridiculous and wondered why girls even say this.