When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

I see a penis about 5” long, not sure if hard flaccid stretched or what.

Your penis is definitely too big & counterproductive if this happens when you go for a pee at your favourite watering hole: ouch!

I think that your comment is interesting. It is not had nor is it stretched in the first photo. The photo of my glans is erect and not clamped. I have larger than average balls also. I have a photo of my glans beside a door knob which I will post when I have the time to resize it.

Great. The world is waiting for this event. The CNN will have a special on that.

Curious, are you always this caustic. No disrespect ment.

No, it’s the bragging that elicit my caustic side. Expecially when there isn’t much to brag about.

All I can say then is that you are judging from site unseen.

I have seen many who post on here who get very positive comments from many others who post. Sometimes I wonder how some get the positive comments and others elicit negative comments.

I do not brag. I have no reason to be bragging. I know what I have. I know what those who have met me in person have to say. So I guess that is what is important from my standpoint. I will continue to be an active contributor at Thunders. As I said previously, I have meant no disrespect to anyone here.

I have high regard for anyone here who is here for self improvement.

That being said Imwill move on and encourage others.

Don’t take it so hard restored 91!

In my point of seeing it, it was just a sarcastic joke with some ironic flavor 😃

Ok, I will just laught it off. Have a good day.

Cheeky croc…

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Thank You Restored91

I had sex again a couple days with that petite gal I wrote about earlier in this thread. Our first night together it took four times to enter her, and I could only get it in about 75%.

This time she was way more relaxed, and I was able to enter her the first time. Although it took a little while before I could get it most the way in, actually damn near all the way. She was very wet and it actually felt amazing! So in just a few times of having sex with her, she’s already adjusting to accommodate me, I’m happy to say. I would say that if I was much bigger, that my size would probably be counterproductive, meaning less pleasurable for her. I must concede that the one variable I don’t know, is how much she could actually accommodate with time. Even so, my guess it would be pushing to 100% of her limits.

Someone in this thread wrote that approximately 70-80% of what a female can accommodate may just provide the optimum pleasure for her. I thought about that, and it makes sense. I’m thinking the issue is that women have various vagina sizes, just like men’s penises, and then of course there are extreme sizes. I’m after the penis size & shape that will provide maximum pleasure to the lady I’m with. If I’m having sex with multiple partners, then my goal is shooting for optimal size for the majority of women (ignoring the extremes). With that in mind, I’m thinking 7-8” EL X 5-6” MSEG should be decent goals to strive for. I think that once we start shooting for greater than 8” EL or 6” MSEG, we are starting to make it less pleasurable for woman on the lower end of vagina size scale, however more pleasurable for women on the higher end of vagina size scale.

this question should be made to every single woman on earth to get questions sufficiently accurate to answer your question. Honestly, having myself asked a similar question in the Italian section of the forum, I tell you that more than 8 “long you begin to touch the cervix if you are not careful. Instead about the circumference, over 6” you might find it difficult.

Then there are women who enjoy being penetrated with one arm, women who take easily a 6 “wide, women who go with men of color, a broad category! :)

I think 100% of her limits are when she gives birth. There are no cocks that big anyway!
Without going into detail, my only experience was with a very petite lady as well she was more than one foot shorter than me and had a very tiny pussy and an ultra tight vag.
My cock is 9”x 7” and we had amazing vaginal and oral sex where I successfully, stretched out her vag to the max with only 1/3 of my length, was all I could fit in her, making her complain that my cock shaft was pressing hard against her clit while my glans would hit little cervix repeatedly and give her multiple orgasms within minutes!
I would constantly ask her if I was hurting her and if she wanted me to stop but she would always assure me that I wasn’t and she’d be letting me know if I was and that I should keep fucking her until she told me to stop. So I just kept her pinned down with my cock exactly the way that she had instructed me.

She also, had a very little mouth that we spent a lot of time together successfully, stuffing it completely full of cock stretching her jaws to the limit making her teeth dig into my shaft. She complained that she could barely get my dick in her mouth! She successfully took it all the way down her throat too, But it made her gag and made me thrust uncontrollably so that my balls slapped of her cheeks and chin! She had to keep coming back up for air. This would keep happening but she could do it for as long as she felt like it or until it made me ejaculate. It was a big contest to see who will win and we both could not have enjoyed it more. It was like playing, and we had a lot of fun!

There were some issues but nothing that could not be worked around. I didn’t mind if she wanted me to stop and just masturbate together. Or stop altogether and do it another time. I am good at edging and have been able to masturbate for 8 hours and not ejaculate. Blowing my load isn’t that important.

I don’t think having a big penis can be counterproductive unless you are an asshole who purposely tries to hurt girls with it.

The main thing is, I think anyway, is to listen to the girl and do exactly what she wants you do do and the rest will just fall into place. It worked for me.

The way I see it, if she wants to let me give my cock to her, I will and if she wants me to stop giving it to her, I’ll stop. 50%, 80%, 100%, I couldn’t care less, if she’s enjoying it!

I don’t lose anything when I get to stuff my fat cock into a super tight pussy because I can’t lose unless she says no.

7inchesSoft — I get your point. You described how it is for you to be very large and working with a gal with a very tiny pussy, quite well. I get it. You have a very large member, and of course if you get around you are apt to run into smaller than average woman, and you will need to figure out how to make it work with her. It could be a wonderful sexual experience.

Take that same gal you spoke of, and now let her be open and honest with you, and have her tell you that if she could have her wish come true without being judged, how big would she have preferred? I’m not saying sex with you wasn’t great, but that if she had a choice.

It seems to me that when a girl is complaining about your shaft pressing hard against her clit, and that you felt you needed to keep asking her if it hurt too much, or if you had to stop penetration all together and masturbate together, your penis is counterproductive. Again, I’m not saying sex wasn’t great with her and you. You worked things out together, and that’s all cool.