First Step of My Journey

Right off the bat I’m gonna let you know this is gonna be a little long. Please enjoy the read as I explain the past year to you.

First off I’d like to thank everyone who participates on this site. I’ve been lurking for a while and found that I’m not alone in my quest and there thousands of people out there, just like me, who have made this place feel like a family to me.

I’ve never really thought a lot about my size before. I’ve always heard that there’s nothing you can do about it and it just is what it is. Luckily the few girls that I’ve been with always seemed surprise on how “big” it was to them so I always thought I was doing well. Wouldn’t you know it though that my luck finally ran out.

I finally met a girl who I can see spending the rest of my life with and I’ve never been happier. The only problem is recently we’ve had a talk about previous sexual encounters and I asked the most stupid question any man could ask a woman about her history. I’m smaller. When I asked her that question and I saw her face, I’ve never felt such an emotion of disappointment, jealousy, rage, inadequacy, hopelessness, and depression all at the same time. I felt like my heart was breaking. Along with the previous stupid question of “Am I the biggest?”, I also asked if she would like it more if I was bigger. She didn’t answer with her mouth, but her eyes told me. I know, I know! I set myself up for this kinda hurt. I thought I would have to live the rest of my life knowing I “lost” to a drunken hook up during a period of her life where she was going through depression. I lost to a guy who never loved her, will never love her, and will never see her again. I wanted to be everything that she’s ever wanted and now I know how she really feels. Somebody that doesn’t care about her satisfied her more sexually than I can.

It has consumed my every waking thought.

This is when I became interested in PE. Through this website and all of your testimonies I have decided to change. I will not be less than everything my future wife needs to be completely happy. I’ve started weight lifting and eating right. I’ve also just started my first week of PE through a forum from here. The Newbie.
I know that this will take time and I have taken all safety precautions and have read multiple threads on how to do the exercises correctly and safely. I am eager but not rushed. I will be posting updates regularly with my progress.

My Routine
5 min warmup with hot towel
2 min manual stretches (you,d,l,r, circular) 2 sets @ 30 seconds
10 min light (and I mean light) wet jelq (roughly 3 seconds)
Warm down (I just jump in the shower)
50 kegels (5 second hold)
Sleep

If anybody has any comments, tips, advice (on any aspect of the above) please don’t hesitate!
TL;DR
I’m starting PE because my future wife was with some bigger and I feel inadequate.

Hi INeedthis.

Advice. Well you’ve probably read START HERE ——-> NEWBIE ROUTINE <——- Important Newbie Info and all the linked pages, so

Get good consistent measurements (standing against a wall with the penis held at 90° is good for length and always with your best erection level)
Take lots of pictures
Be consistent
If it isn’t working quickly, 1-2 months reevaluate what you are doing.
Start with minimal force
Ramp up as slowly as possible whilst continuing to gain.

I’m starting for the exact same reason as you, can you share your starting stats if it’s not a problem?

Im sure a bunch of us here have been there. Stay consistent to a program and you will get results. In the mean time do let this lingering thought ruin your sex life with this woman you love. Focus on her and how to make her feel good and get off and you will forget about yourself. Welcome to the quest

I’m still researching how to measure properly. I know what the acronyms stand for, I’m just confused on how to do some of them like BPFSL. I will get on them ASAP though and update when I get home. Thanks for reading.

Thank you for the wisdom friend! I’m trying to turn it into motivation.

Started the exact same reason. I’ve gain a little penis size from PE, but most of all, I’ve become confident and sure in what I have. I wish you luck in your gains, but most of all, I hope you’ll get to a place where you’re good with yourself.

Thats a normal reaction. Its also a good motivation if translated into positive action.

Still, if the emotional bond is already right then maximizing your skills in bed is even more important.
And thats very possible with an average dick.
Size often works even if you have no knowledge cause you hit pleasure zones on accident(but thus can also hurt)
Then woman think a huge dick is better.
But any knowledgable average size lover can beat every unknowledgable big dick fucker.

I know that cause I often ask woman and they almost all tell me that men simply cant fuck properly independent of size.
Some had just the one or two guys who knew how to do it properly. I know how to fuck and drive them crazy independent of my size.

Of course having a big dick and knowing how to fuck is unbeatable :D
So jelq and stretch until you hit your gain zone and your size goal.