Banding My Penis

I was going to just leave it at that but I’ve changed my mind. You’ve had a bunch of guys giving you pure empathy regarding your situation. BH was not attacking you numbness, he was simply inferring that he wishes this whole thing was not real. Please do not attack other members and put them down because you are hurt. If you like venting on this forum that behavior should be avoided at all costs.

And I believe I have said thank you to them and it means a lot but twice I had sick joke, not real pulling leg. It happened others doubted a claim to post a pic I thought about it then decided yes I will. Then o think most realize this is serious not wishful thinking. Well enjoy your pleasures cause I’ll never get to enjoy that again o cost myself this I’m not blaming no one but myself, I’ll live with this for the rest of my life now. Again I thank those who show concern and they/you are helpful and greatly appreciated

Who says you are not going to enjoy your pleasures again mate?

Aren’t you getting a new penis?

I am not helpful or empathising you, I am practical.

Get a new penis. No matter what. Focus on that. You get to choose too. That’s something possitive.

Getting a penis transplant is in its infancy and extremely rare to say the least. There have been only a few performed worldwide and I do not know how successful those were. This option is a doubtful solution.

I know the chance of myself are its not happening I accepted this. I asked found out the % of risks and where I would have to go, and decided its not worth the extreme cost and risks of not setting myself up for more traumatic let down

I just finished reading…I can’t express how I feel right now.

I’m extremely saddened by this.

I hope the best for you. I’m glad knowing you are surrounded by people who cares.

Seems like you’re handling having your penis amputated better than I’ve been handling a minor injury. You’re stronger than I’ll ever be, and I really hope everything goes well for you. I’m sorry for your loss.

One more thing. Sure BH wasn’t attacking numbness, but he was doubting his story after numbness was brave enough to post pictures and talk about his experience to try and prevent other people from having to go through the same thing. It would piss me off if I was in numbness’ situation and someone was doubting me after showing evidence. All he did was make a little joke about someone who was being insensitive. This man lost his penis, give him a break and let him vent.

Unfortunately I have gone into a defensive mode towards things. It seems according to phycologist that my insecurity of not having a penis I feel everyone looks and acts differently toward me. This is gonna be a little challenging to get myself over this. I apologize for getting defensive and have no right to attack another.

Get a new penis mate. Take the risk. Act. If I were you I would do it.

This is the last post you are gonna see from me in this thread.

Thank you for your time. Just think about it.

When you’re recovered enough for strenuous activity, have you thought about getting a strap-on dildo? You seem like you enjoy pleasing your girlfriend since you went to these lengths for her in the first place. Maybe you can get some pleasure out of sex with your girl using a strap-on.

No young man; this guy is strong but you can be as strong as you want to be. You have come a long way in 2 days. Well done.

this was discussed but I didn’t mention that I’m worried my girl she loves to be filled I’ll never be able to cum in her I’m afraid she will seek other. I know already that I can pleasure to orgasm orrally and with her toy she had before she met me. It’s that not filling her that is in my back of my mind. This is still weeks away from any activity.

Many people spend a huge proportion of their lives focusing on sex. There are other deep meaningful life experiences you can have without a penis. You’ve been through a massive change, it will take time to adjust.

As a side note you said your girlfriend likes to "be filled". You can buy dildos that squirt, after a quick google I found this as an example: http://www.love … duct.cfm?p=8657

I was watching embarrassing bodies(program name) on tv, its A long shot but maybe reaching out to a sympathetic public broadcast like this could yield a result.
The main reason I mention this is that I saw them install a pumping device through a guys penis. The pump was placed in his sack and tubes inside the shaft, hey presto he gets artificial erections. Try find this and check it out. So my train of thought is a hybrid of both this surgery and the transplant.
Don’t give up bro.
And keep the girl happy.
Show her, even the world, the strength you have to pull through.

Ps I read this thread a while ago before I got my account. I hope this is still relevant. Even more so I hope these events are not true, I dare not look at the picture if there is one and I would not like to speculate on the legitimacy of this thread,. I just want to help.