Banding My Penis

No banding. Period.

I also am not recommending this to anyone. Again I am sorry that you had this happen . Good luck .

It’s also used for ‘docking’ lambs tails in the UK - i.e. it cuts off the bloodflow and makes the tail die and fall off.

This needs to be in big red letters on the homepage.

NO BANDING.

7 months😞😭😠, still not that easy but managing.

I read through all 10 pages of this before responding.

I have no words for how much I wish this had never happened to you. I have seen, on tumblr and dominatrix advertisments, and so much of the material makes light of permanent mutilation that I was sick to my stomach. That there are fetishes and kinks based around penectomy and various ways to mutilate a vagina seemed outside of reality to me. But seeing this thread…

I truly worry for your mental state. This is all I can say. And I hope your message reaches far and wide as it can…people do not understand this danger and the ramifications fully if this is a fetish ANYWHERE or ANYTIME.

My deepest sorrows, sir. I can say nothing more.

Oh god I just read this thread - even though it made me feel absolutely awful - I forced myself to read it all and I’m so glad I did - thank you for posting this, very unselfish of you to do that. Probably saved a whole load of folk doing similar and showing the very real dangers of extended clamping. I wish you the all the best recovery and adjustment to life.

for the record I didn’t use a clamp, but a band that is used for castrations. Please there is a difference yet there is also dangers with clamping if your not familiar with what to do.

Hi N41

Yes - I meant clamping as a general thing - encompassing any kind of blood flow restriction. People tell you that but your thread really hits it home how
Dangerous it can be.

The reason he makes the distinction is because a band is extremely difficult to remove and constricts more than 10 times tighter than a clamp can ever be. A band is designed to castrate, doing permanent physical damage and this thread highlights that he was unaware of this fact.

Clamping is no comparison as it can typically be easily removed before permanent damage can occur and no clamping session lasts hours and hours due to an inability to remove it.

His experience is not comparable to clamping because burst blood vessels and nerve damage are not the same as necrotic tissue and penile loss. It would be best not to compare the two. Especially out of respect to the Original Poster. This was an extremely traumatic event and I doubt he wants his experience to be compared to something else.

Currently chemically castrated, it has helped with frustrations of my circumstances. This has been a very long hard past 10 months. I have been volunteering at a local VA and I talk with any veterans who have lost limbs. It sorta helps both of us. I don’t openly explain my situation, only when and after I hear that I don’t know what it’s like to lose use of. Then I break down and explain that indeed I do. And almost 100% does it break down the shield.

Spreading a positive message and helping those who don’t often receive empathy is a hard task for some and it’s a good thing to do. I am glad you help out and have some relief from your frustrations.

I just read all pages in this thread. Like someone else said, I felt 10 different emotions at a time. I’m so sorry and I’m glad the people on this forum are so helpful and thoughtful to you. I’m also glad you’re dealing with it by talking to people in real life and in here.

As someone who never did PE but wants to begin, I feel scared and will probably never use anything other than my hands, and go very slowly.

As they said, wait a few years and always stay alert to news about penile surgery/reconstruction. Technology advances fast and if given enough time and studying, very few things are impossible.

I’m very impressed with the quality in this community - it’s so unlike other internet forums where everyone is a jerk/makes fun of other people as much as possible. This community should be proud of its members. Other places would throw shit at the guy and laugh it off. Places like these give hope to the internet.

Stay well.

First thing they say is how sorry they feel for him as if they’re better than him . Thats belittling bros believe it or not. I guess no one got why he said they were “so perfect”. Those guys are probably very sheltered and never experienced pain. People who are crippled always feel the same thing , that everyone feels sorry for them and see them as lesser but unless they’re dead and in hell then you shouldn’t feel sorry for anyone like you would for a dog. Empathy is understanding not looking from the outside.

I always read peoples comments on here and I can tell they think they’re perfect now that they have gains. That doesn’t last forever though, one day we’ll all kneel before the the highest one

You would do better not to interpret what everyone thinks about a catastrophic injury in one badly punctuated paragraph. We did what we could as far as offering solutions and our sympathy to the OP. Empathy is derived from similar experiences, as none of us have this for an experience personally then empathy would be a foolish thing to portray. None of us can truly understand what he has gone through nor would be pretend such. That would be insulting.

Perfect? Once again you project how you think we feel as your reality. I try hard daily to help people with my knowledge and experience. You, on the other hand, are trolling pretty much every time you post if not asking questions about rashes.

Stop judging us.