Banding My Penis

Thank you, last few weeks have been very difficult. I slumped into a depression, counseling mtgs are starting to help. It is very difficult to life style change. The healing process is up and down, physically is much easier than mentally. I tried to type something start then just lost and erased what I was gonna post. A motto I am trying to sue is live today to the fully not to worry what tomorrow is until tomorrow. Thank you for being supportive, it’s a boost for me psychologically

I’ve seen and done things that I have regretted although to a much lesser extent. Those things have left indelible imprints on my psyche. It affects your way of life and destroys your confidence. Those pieces have to be picked up and reassembled or they will be swept out with the trash. I’m glad you are seeking counseling. It will definitely help. Finding happiness again will be another milestone.

Life is harsh and people lose things. When I was a police officer, I saw how people reacted to loss. Most of us think about how actors portray those feeling through screaming and crying but the first emotion to severe loss is shock. For those who are concerned with the authenticity of OP’s post, bear in mind that shock and numbness (applicable name) are prevalent during the first few days, weeks or months. The emotions come tumbling in later like a tidal wave.

I would not want to bear your burden, Numbness. My heart and prayers go out to you.

By the way, you are a man whether you have a penis or not. You are strong and you matter. You can do everything that any of us can do even if it has to be done differently. You might even do them better because you have to do it differently. Don’t devalue yourself because of an accident. You deserve that girl you have. She’s a keeper. Don’t let her go.

Extremely heartwarming. This touched me , numbness, he’s right, every word.

Hi Numbness41

I have just read about what has happened to you. We all have made mistake in our life and its how we deal with them that makes us who we are today. It saddens me that you have lost a part of you that will change your life. In society if you lose a limb or finger you can still carry on with a change , and still have a normal sexual relationship. When you lose a penis it will be extremely hard and it sounds like your girlfriend is there for you, supporting you.

Remember that Love is not just sexual. You can still please her with your hands, fingers, and orally, she still loves you and wants to be with you. I can not imagine what your going through and the feelings that you are having but do not give up, there are many toys out there that are realistic, talk to her and be honest. I believe she loves you and will be there for you.

This is going to be a healing period for you and the physical part will be the easiest but the psychological part may take longer. Everyone is different in how they take a bad situation and turn it around. I have read the posts and the replies you have given, you are incredible strong on how you are handling this, I commend you for telling us your story and what has happened. Remember your attributes and values that you have, do not underestimate what you have to give, do not sell yourself short.

A penis does not define who you are. There are men in this world that are born with micro penis or smaller, they do the best they can with women who have been with bigger penises but they are still with them, they are with them for more than their penis size. There is a guy by the name of Andrew Wardle who was born with out a penis has slept with over a 100 women.

You have a lot to give do not forget that Numbness, you have suffered a tragedy and you are dealing with it in your own way, do not push your girlfriend away, she is there for you. You are strong ,you can do it, just telling us your story and what has happened tells me you are strong, not having a penis will make you better in other ways with your girlfriend.

I can not comprehend what you are going through but I feel for you and try to stay positive, be with people that are there for you. Only you can decide your future, healing will take time .

Thank you, your all a great bunch, very supportive. I appreciate this, it helps me extremely. Your comments encouraged me, I feel I should let you know how helpful you all been to me. Thanks

Mixed emotions for tomorrow, catheter comes out and no more bag. Excited of not having that bag strapped to my leg but not wanting the burning sensation that’s gonna follow for a few days. Another huge step forward in trying to live as normal as a life I can

You’ll do just fine.

Hope it all goes well.

More comfortable with myself out in public now that I’m free of not having fear of someone noticing that I had a bag on my leg. Getting retrained on paperwork after my business is done. Never really knew of a right way and a wrong way, just wipe clean was the object. So I’m doing better wow those moist towelettes are the bomb. On another note tried for the first time with lots of help from my girlfriend but was able to pleased her. I wanna thank for the idea of a ejaculating dildo we have ordered now waiting for its arrival. Thank you for offering support and some ideas they are greatly appreciated

South Africans perform first ‘successful’ penis transplant - BBC News

The world’s first successful penis transplant has been accomplished in South Africa within the last year or so. It is claimed by the medical personnel that it is now a fully functioning penis. It was a young guy, approximately 21yrs old who had his penis amputated after a circumcision that caused a serious infection. Now they are saying that less than a year after the transplant he and his woman are having a baby. Yes, he fathered a baby with his transplanted penis.

There is more nerve sensation that is slated to return. The recovery is ongoing, but he can currently function normally in all four processes of urination, erection, orgasm, and ejaculation.

I haven’t scoured all of the information yet - I am still scratching my head over this. Although his identity is being withheld I believe he is a tribal black African. They have rather cavalier methods for these types of coming of age ceremonies. You can see photos on the internet of Africans wearing their own circumcision razor blade clearly displayed in a necklace.

At any rate, they have many "botched" circumcisions in SA, so the doctors have had plenty of opportunities to work on their transplant surgery techniques. I guess they got it right this time.

Although he will probably have to wait longer than he wants to wait, my guess is that our OP will eventually have a new penis.

This was quite a story

First attempt with wearing strap-on last night, oh boy lil akward but seemed to be OK going on. But tried to actually go through the motion too much pressure not healed enough internally yet. Pain and discomfort, ruined the moment. I don’t want to risk so I’ll be patient. I kinda want to say I felt like a pre teen boy for the first time trying to have sex

Outstanding progress!

I’m hoping to be ready when the injectable dildo arrives I can be able to use and be able to give her that filled feeling. I figured it might not be me but it’s with me and not some one else. Thanks for the encouragement

Don’t forget your hands, fingers and mouth.