Jelqing has destroyed my life A warning.

I haven’t read the whole thread as I’m at work currently, but damn! I couldn’t believe all the people that thought you were a troll, lying, not trying, that the problem is mental or any other thing that would throw your concerns to the side. To all those people, you can all go get royally screwed, and I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

This is real, it happened to me, not instantly though, I had good success with PE in the beginning, but it is a massive risk.

I did it a couple of years ago and have had the exact same problems and difficulties. This is NOT a mental problem. I’ve been to a pelvis specialist and she could tell instantly that my pelvic floor and surrounds are not right.

Your general doctor can’t help you, they will send you to a urologist, they can’t help you. No scan or test will show anything.

The problem is from what I can tell, nerve pain and dysfunction primarily, with muscle and mental problems as a secondary. Anxiety prone people will have a worse time here, but it’s not the primary problem 100%. I get that people saying it’s mental are well meaning, but it hasn’t happened to you. You simply don’t get it.

I think that jelqing either significantly moves or affects nerves or muscles in a way that puts pressure on the nerves in the pelvic area. My instinct is telling me either pudendal or ilioinguinal, but there are some other nerves in the area that may be affected. It’s possible that jelqing in a certain fashion could remedy it to a degree, but the chances of that I find slim as no one knows the exact cause. I don’t think anyone with this injury wants to risk a trial either.

I have found some help from osteopaths, acupuncture and physiotherapy, but I doubt my penis will ever work properly again, at this point I’m most interested in pain reduction. Sufferers might also benefit from supplements that promote muscle growth, blood flow, anti inflammation, nerve pain reduction and calming of the nervous system. You’re best off doing your own research on this but here are some suggestions. Magnesium (citrate, phosphate 600mg a day is safe), turmeric, st johns wort, vitamin b, passionflower. Again I’m no expert, so look it up. Prescription anti-inflammatory drugs will help in cases where muscles are a big factor, ask your doctor. For people in real pain, you can try nerve pain drugs like endep, lyrica and gabapentin (these will come in different names and things, again ask your doctor, you may need to be specific). Muscle relaxant drugs like valium (benzos) could also be a big help for relaxing pelvic muscles and reducing pain but probably won’t solve anything.

I am soon about to try a supplement called pharmagaba which is a inhibitory neurotransmitter which can cross the blood-brain barrier to make actual positive changes to the nervous system and should help with erectile problems.

I wish this was not real, but it’s happened to me, it’s happened to OP, it’s happened to others and will continue to happen. We as men owe it to other men to tell the truth and not shy from it. PE has risks, this is one, it is terrible, it will destroy you. I am not the man I was, I never will be again.

Sounds like even rough sex is out of the question for people who have this issue

I don’t believe it. 20 jelqs and boom broken penis. It sounds fake. But why don’t you try a ballzinger, there is nothing to lose. Probably it will help and it’s better than waiting another 7 years without even trying it. Have you kegeled that’s a good option for erection problems, you should do it gradually. How about pumping? That’s another option, you can try it if you don’t see results from kegels and ballzinger. You have to be careful with pumping. There is a lot information about pumping here, you must read it before if you consider pumping.

I don’t believe even rough sex would be needed would cause this. Several studies have been done to measure the pound/force of a woman’s vaginal strength (PC muscle) and various results came back. The force as measure in PSI, or Pounds per Square Inch, were reported from 3 PSI up to the likes of Tatyana Koshevnikova who supposedly can hold up 31 lbs using the muscles of her vagina. Jelqing is no different that what a woman’s orgasm would do during sex.

The penis is design to handle these forces on a regular basis so anyone who states that jelqing broke their penis should seriously stay away from women with a strong kegal response during sex.

People don’t gain up to an inch and a half of length and a half inch of girth from rough sex like they do from jelqing though do they? Jelqing puts pressure on the penis in a totally different way, which isn’t understood through medical studies.

You know this for a fact? Try having sex 5 days a week, have your girl squeeze as hard as she can while you pull out slowly for five seconds. Rinse and repeat up to 500 sets for 3 years straight. Doesn’t sound very erotic? People don’t have sex that way but a vagina squeezing the penis is actual fact.

Maybe this will be the next big PE method that will get my name immortalized forever on Thunders. We’ll call it the Lackluster technique.

Jelqing definitely isn’t the same pressures as rough sex. Jelqing puts pressure on the outside of the penis like rough sex, but it also puts tremendous pressure on the inside of the penis, like our body isn’t used to. I think jelqing is capable of doing a lot of damage to the penis if overdone, but I really doubt this guy broke his penis from 20 semi-erect jelqs.

You’ve been waiting to use that.

This is why we recommend starting with low hand pressure and less than 75% erect. The average hand strength at full pressure is around 30 psi which would cause significant injury in my opinion. However, OP stated he performed 20 jelqs at 2/3 erection level with mild pressure. He either has extremely strong hands or something else caused the injury. The only other issue I read is that he said he had a couple of beers before doing this. If he was intoxicated, his judgement might have been impaired causing him to use more pressure than he intended or not remember everything he did.

Jelqing isn’t done with a full erection though, and there are people who have gained an inch and a half in under two months without a particularly intense routine.

The fact that he had some alcohol in his system likely contributed to this injury. Alcohol is a blood thinner with notable effects on the penis and libido. There was someone else with an extremely serious injury from overuse of a bathmate and extender who reported that anytime that they drank any alcohol since the injury, their symptoms got permanently worse afterwards.

Still, I wouldn’t discount the fact that jelqing is very unique, causing such drastic results in a relatively short time for some without even being fully erect, and this is how negative side effects work. Many people are OK, some aren’t.

How did you guess? Ugggh. That pun even bothered me. Lol.

I meant if his boy broke with 20 jelqs then even having rough sex might damage his apprently very fragile penis

Did you read my above posts at all? Some people have added significant size to their penises from jelqing in a fairly short period of time.

How many people do you know that have added significant size to their penises from rough sex?

It’s not the same at all. Jelqing puts completely unique pressure on the penis compared to rough sex or masturbation, which is why jelqing isn’t safe to do erect or over the glans, and why it can cause significant enlargement, and in a fairly short period of time for those more sensitive to it.

The OP had alcohol in his system (it wasn’t much and he wasn’t drunk, as he stated) but it is a blood thinner with notable effects on the penis and libido, perhaps it makes one more susceptible to injury from jelqing.

I’m new to this forum but what WW is saying is totally true the damage he is describing is exactly what I’m going through and yes it pretty much ruins your life. Jelking or Jelqing is NOT safe if members want me to go into detail about why it’s not safe I will. On this forum it’s seems like a lot of members do not want to admit it’s unsafe for reasons far beond me. It’s ironic Willy Wonka is being called a “troll” when in fact the only trolling I seem to have come across is the people who 1.keep saying he’s lying an 2.people who mock and belittle him. This is a very odd community indeed and to be honest id be interested to know what some members are actually like in person because frankly it seems like a lot of weird people with a inferiority complex

Why have you joined ?