Penis permanetly damaged after 1 month of PE, Rubbery feeling

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I just realized I have hard flaccid sometimes. When I hold a deep squat position, I notice my flaccid dick becoming longer and the sides (CC) becomes softer. As soon as I stand up, my dick becomes shorter and the sides harder. I’m not sure how long I had this for. My injury happened almost 3 weeks ago. In the first few days, I remember my flaccid dick was constantly very small, but I don’t know if it was hard on the sides since I never touched it to check. But this week, my flaccid dick alternated between very small, and long+soft, so I guess that’s improvement.

BugsBunny, do your symptoms get worse after sex or masturbation?

I’m 10 days into no fap. I got to say it got easier the last couple days not to fap. Still can’t achieve an erection during the day. But I get morning wood and sometimes it even curves upwards which is good.

The last 2 days, sometimes the area called the frenulum () right under the glans, has a slight discomfort and very very slight pain. The area of concern for me is slightly to the right of the frenulum, so it’s not the center. Does anyone have this?

Wanted to give an update:

I realized I do have hard flaccid sometimes. When I stand up, my flaccid dick sometimes becomes shorter and becomes harder. Assuming I caused nerve damage in my penis from my jelqing injury, why does it go into hard flaccid? Does anyone know what’s the science behind that? Why does nerve damage cause hard flaccid?

I’ve been having morning wood the past few mornings with 90% EQ, and angle upward which is good. This morning I was able to maintain my boner in bed for over 1 minute, but as soon as I stood up I lost it. The same happened yesterday. I’m unable to maintain my boner if I stand up.

What concerns me, is the past 2 mornings, I woke up with a numb dick, especially the glans. This is after my morning wood, and I fall asleep again. When I wake up again, it’s flaccid and numb. It felt rubbery and could barely sense any touch. It was very scary. Is it because I tried to maintain my morning wood boner and try not to lose it? Seems to get a tiny bit better after a warm bath, but during the day my dick temperature is cold, especially the glans.

Do not stress yourself with this kind of tests, this is not good for anxiety trust me.

I was almost completely unable to achieve erection for like 3 weeks..

I had sex at week 4 or 5, but Glans was paining but I did it anyway.. I probably mess up there because glans was getting harder in the past 2 weeks.

Now I can have sex and no problem, I just feel somewhat discomfort and pain, and I try to slow down. But no difference after. It just seem “harder” softer after sex so it seems good to me. But for me no masturbation, I just have low testosterone and so low desire. Try to masturbate gently.

Do some test like the one with squat but try not to feed you anxiety, I know how you feel

You are probably ponching your nerves. You need reverse kegles and hindi squats. You need to relax. Try taking a cialis for more blood flow if you have that oppurtunity.

Sorry to kind of ”interrupt” the thread but i just read this and got thinking. I usually have to kegel to fill up my head, and just one second after cumming or losing erection the head deflates, the shaft can stay hard much longer. Could i have the same problem as you guys but lighter?

My main concern and also the reason that i stopped PE about a year ago is that my glans has completwly changed in look. It used to be smooth and shiny but now it is wrinkled and cracked and like i said, deflates easily. At first i thought this was a skin issue but i have tried everything - and when hard and kegeled the cracks sort of fills out.

I am going to try to recover like you did. Being light on it, barely fapping etc. Did your glans also become wrinkly/dry/cracked?

The reason why kegeling works is because during an erection your pelvic muscle contracts to stop blood flowing out of your dick, increasing pressure. You can increase this pressure by contracting the muscle even more. For the glans to fill up, the dick must be under maximum possible pressure. I can also make the glans bigger by doing that. The problem is that if you have to do it consciously, you will be very weak and only able to hold it at maximum contraction for a short time. It should be doing it by itself without you thinking about it.

One possible reason for our troubles is a weak or unbalanced pelvic floor which is unable to contract fully on its own to keep a perfect erection. Going to a physiotherapist could help you strengthen that muscle so it could hold a strong contraction on its own.

My main problem right now is not getting a full erection anymore, erection quality is pretty good but I still suffer from slightly decreased sensitivity in certain areas and an inability to keep an erection in positions like on my knees, standing up, while trying to push it into a pussy, etc. My girlfriend is tight so it is painful to put it in with my condition and the pain instantly kills the erection and desensitizes it for a while again. This is a fucking nightmare and I am still nowhere near fully healed. I wish you luck!

P:S. A dry/cracked glans is most likely the symptom of not having a foreskin around the glans to keep it moisturized or having dry skin and not moisturizing it. A cream/penis oil could keep it in better condition and restore some sensation if you have lost any.

I believe a lot of guys refuse to face the seriousnessn of their condition.

The problem you describe is very unlikely the result of a weak pelvic floor. It sounds like real erectile dysfunction. Probably caused by damaged venous valves which is called venous leakage.

Thank you for the detailed answer! So you dont think a more ”rough” apperance of glans is something to worry about? Just keep it moisturized? Do you have any tips for moisturizers?

What you are suggesting is possible but to me it seems unlikely. The original injury came from nerve damage. I was unable to get hard at all for like a month until sensation improved. Hard and full erections are now pretty much possible and they can last for a long time when I am on my back or sitting down. Morning and night wood are decent and sometimes can last for an hour or so if I don’t get out of bed. However, when I get on my knees it immediately loses pressure.

It could be venous leakage or it could be a pelvic floor which is unable to contract in more difficult positions. During random moments my erectile function improved radically so I was once again easily able to get it up while standing, etc. I doubt that venous leakage would heal spontaneously and then come back again in a few days.

It is a fact that I now have serious issues with my pelvic floor like pudental neuralgia. Pain and numbness are also present in the pelvis and anal area, sometimes it radiates to the abdomen. Dysfunctional nerves there could also contribute to the lack of control in the pelvic muscles, causing blood to flow out of the dick. Either way, I should definitely go back to my andrologist again and possibly an orthopedist to have some comprehensive tests done to see what the hell is going on. I am not embarrassed by anything anymore, constant failure in the bedroom has desensitized me to that now.

It happens commonly as you age, especially if you are circumcised. A rougher appearance is not usually very serious and should not be related to it not filling up properly. Keep it moisturized. I have heard that Man1 Man oil is good but many reviews are obviously biased and it seems expensive. I guess a lotion for sensitive areas could also work.

Im very sorry about your unfortunate circumstances. I do however believe that regardless of the exact cause behind it, it does sound like a venous leak that you have to compensate for with excessive kegeling and that only helps so much. No erections for a month could be the cause for scarring and disease in the venous valves.

I do have a history of no full erections for around a three year period which I think has caused a slight venous leak where my glans doesnt stay hard. From my reading a possible cure of erectile function can come from injecting alprostadil into the penis repeated times and having maximum hardness erections for long periods. Somehow this restores function to such a degree oral ED drugs will be enough to maintain a 100% erection.

If it is a venous leak, then operation can often fix it. I was able to force semi soft erections during the first month so there was never a prolonged period of no erections at all. Erectile function is dependent on many things.

For me clearly the neurological connection between my brain and dick was injured either somewhere in the penis or pelvic floor area. When the nerves are unable to send strong enough impulses, not enough nitric oxide will be produced for a reliable erection + the pelvic floor will not close the veins properly by contracting. I know for sure that I have nerve damage and pelvic floor dysfunction. People have had severe ED from just nerve damage and/or pelvic floor dysfunction.

It IS possible that I also have venous leakage on top of those two but it is not necessary to explain the symptoms because sometimes when pleasure improved back close to 100%, erectile function went back to almost perfect temporarily (hardening within seconds and staying hard). That is why I must visit a doctor again to rule out various possibilities. I will ask for a test for that too.

Do you also sometimes feel numb in your sphincter? Sorry for asking but that has actually happened to me after intense PE, kind of scary.

Okay mate! Thanks for the input really. The thing is just that i am uncut and still very young, so maybe i should be a bit concerned.