Holy Grail of Cum Load Increase

Unfortunately, your boyfriend is 50ish. You lose a lot starting around 30 years old and it slowly decreases from there. The only way back it to eat a proper diet with plenty of fluids, exercise regularly to maintain a good weight, hit the gym to gain muscle back and work the muscles in his pelvic floor. The supplements will help support these activities. Kegel exercises help to strengthen the muscles the ejaculate semen. The stronger your PC/GC muscles are, the harder you will expel your cum and intensify your orgasmic effect. Of course, you are going to want to work on relaxing the pelvic floor by doing an equal amount of reverse kegels.

Another method that several member on here suggest is tapping the scrotum. Most guys have extremely sensitive testicles so they don’t do much with them but let them hang. Tight underwear or jeans keeps them strapped to the body but they were intended to hang freely and slap against a man’s thigh while working. Some studies have shown the tapping (slapping when you work up to it) the testicles causes them to produce more testosterone thereby increasing sexual desire and possibly more cum. It is worth a try in my opinion. His testicles will be very tender a first so some light messaging would be the best thing to start with. As they become more accustomed to this, start tapping them with your fingers. This will likely be unpleasant in the beginning but should yield good results with time. If nothing else, it will increase his testicular health.

(Blushing) Thank you Seneca 32. I love my man and knowing that he is satisfied is not only my goal, but it’s a huge turn on for me too. To be honest I have NEVER done oral with any one else. I always thought it was nasty and gross. But I really love doing it for my boyfriend. He didn’t ask for it, I just wanted to. I have to take his word for it but apparently he says that I am a natural pro and that I am the best at it.. That no one else has even come close to satisfying him orally like I do. Anyway, thanks for the advice. He is following the 5 ( M-F)days jelqing with 2 (Sat and sun)days off routine so today is a off day. I am encouraging him to drink more water for hydration.. He usually only drinks several can of coke each day. He wants me to get some of the celery seed to see if it does help increase his ejaculate. Dumb question.. Does increased volume mean more spurts of cum? He really seems fixated on the number of spurts. He and I both would love for him to be able to get close to Peter North’s performance on ejaculate volume, spurts, and distance. I will be honest and admit that I really enjoyed it when he cums on my face and breasts, so I want it to last really longer too. Lately we’re both constantly horny. Another goal is to increase the length and frequency of our sexual activity. So again, all tips are more than welcome.

Yeah we’re well aware that our age plays a big role in all this. I will definitely try to the tapping on his testicle and massaging. He loves me to play with them and pull them when I am giving him oral, so hopefully it will help with your tapping/massage tip.

I’m in my mid-forties so I know what he is going through. Make sure you give him adequate time to ‘build up’ his semen. If you have sex five times a day, he won’t be able to produce that much cum. Alternately, giving him a couple of days off will help (if you can ;) ).

I saw in the message above that he drinks cokes. He needs to eliminate that and drink at least a gallon or more clean, clear water a day. Make cokes a treat to be enjoyed seldomly. At first, it will make him need to urinate constantly but that will fade as his body becomes used to it.

Purple Rose, How Lack has given you some great advice about diet, exercise, hydration, etc. He’s also correct that things just aren’t the same for most guys in the bedroom as age starts to kick in.

From my own experience, I’m 58 and I’ve been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for over two years. When we started dating, I noticed that my EQ wasn’t what it used to be. I had some occasional trouble getting it up and at times I had difficulty cumming, just like your boyfriend. I didn’t want to start taking drugs, did some research and I found this site.

I’ve been PEing now for over a year and a half and I have vastly improved my EQ, which has done wonders for my confidence. I’ve also gained nearly an inch in length and over a half inch in girth. For the last six months or so I’ve been cycling on and off the recommended stack, except I never took Pygeum. I generate a lot of pre-cum naturally so I don’t think I need it.

The results kicked in for me within a couple of weeks. My girlfriend gave me a blowjob around this time to completion and while I was cumming she started gagging pretty bad, then she ran to the bathroom. I asked her what was wrong and she said there was so much cum she couldn’t swallow it all. This never happened before. I realized then I was onto something.

After that, in the summer, we went to the shore for a vacation for a few days. We had sex first thing in the morning, I came inside her, and an hour or so later we went to the beach. I noticed after she got up from lying in the sun that she had a wet spot on her crotch the size of a quarter where she was still leaking cum out of her more than an hour later! She was a little embarrassed when I pointed it out to her but she gave me a sexy smile and a nice kiss right after which made me feel great.

Anyway, I attribute this increase in semen production partially due to the stack, but also due to my PE efforts. Kegels especially are important. After doing kegels for a while I noticed more contractions, they are more intense, and I’m sometimes shooting ropes three or four feet in front of me, like I did thirty years ago. And yes with more contractions comes a larger volume of semen, which is what you both are looking for.

Be patient with your boyfriend. It took me a while to improve my EQ and get bigger loads, it’s not going to happen overnight. Stay with it Purple Rose and you’ll both be rewarded.

Good luck on your journey.

Thanks for all the wonderful advice. This is definitely a wonderful journey my boyfriend and I are on and working together to achieve the goals. He has been doing this kegels each day along with the jelqing 5 days a week for about a week now. Plus the lecithin, zinc, and maca. We added a tablespoon of the celery seed last night. We’re looking forward to seeing if the celery seed helps. He has increased his water intake as well. He has actually kept in pretty good shape and had been doing a lot of weight lifting, the perfect push ups ( the one where you use the things that twist as you do the push ups), with other stuff but has been side railed for a few months due to really bad tennis elbow. Getting cortisone injections to help with that. He’s bummed about not being able to work out lately. When we started dating almost 2 years ago he was very buff (I am talking very noticeable muscular arms and such).. And he is still in better shape than most men his age. He is looking forward to being able to get back to working out. I got him a weight bench and such. May I ask a dumb question.. What is PE? Is there a glossary of terms that I can reference? Again thank you and everyone for the great advice. We do understand that it’s a journey that we will work on together. While we know that you can’t turn back time and be young again.. He just wants to do whatever is possible to his dreams and goals. I am dedicated to helping him achieve them because I love him. Eventually we do plan to be married. So I am not going anywhere.

Here you go.

Glossary

I hate to be a pain in the ass, but it there a more recent update on this thread where everything is sort of reorganised, users experiences, improvements to the original formula etc.

It’s 139 pages of reading right now, that’s a lot of clicking when you can’t select see all to just skim the highlights.

Hi sricardo, I read what you said about pygeum, and using it only if its bark, Do you have any experience with it? I have been trying for sometime now to produce precum and have little luck. I’m using a standardized extract from piping rock right now.. I think at one time I did use a bark one as well. If you have used what brand was it and what sort of results did you get?

After 6 months of experimenting and research, I’d like to share my current stack:

L-Arginine (Libido Max)
L-Lysine
L-Carnitine

Amino acids are greatly concentrated in the heads of sperm. Studies have shown amino acids increase sperm count. Your body will increase semen volume to supplement this.

Zinc
Folic Acid

These two work hand in hand. Folic Acid helps your body absorb and process Zinc. Zinc has been shown to be beneficial to men’s reproductive systems, with the effect of increasing volume.

Damiana
Maca
Tongkat Ali

These herbs are aphrodisiacs and also stimulate testosterone production, which can lead to increased volume. There are other benefits but I would consider these three optional.

Libido Max

This blend has L-Arginine and more herbs like Ashwagandha, Tribulus, Horny Goat Weed, Yohimbe and Asian Ginseng. Also contains Bioperine, which helps your body absorb supplements and herbs. I take it more for sexual response and blood flow, but it does increase volume. This blend is optional.

Sunflower Lecithin

Lecithin is where a bulk of your volume increase will come from. It is the backbone of volume stacking. A couple notes though:

As stated by other members, drinking plenty of fluids is a must if you want to see gains. Fluid increase has the biggest impact on volume increase. I try and aim for 80-120 FL oz. A day. How does this tie into Lecithin? Without enough fluids, Lecithin will make your semen thick and clumpy.

That’s it for now. As stated in the beginning, this stack is based on half a year of experimenting and research online. My cycle time is:

3 weeks ON
1 week OFF

Welcome Purple Rose! Glad to see another lady here!

Yes, it’s definitely nice to have women’s perspectives on these matters. I find it not only entertaining, but helpful as well.

Hi, new guy here, I got some questions, Which is better Saw Palmetto or Pygeum? What is the most beneficial of both? Are these the same products?

Pygeum/ Saw palmetto can really mess up your libido.. The first day I took it it was great! But by day two penis felt like a still birth lol took about a week for my normal erections to come back. I just take a ultra man multivitamin and maca root and I pump out about 6 pumps per sex session of a hefty load.

Pygeum may work differently for others but bear in mind it’s for prostate health and if already healthy it’s unnecessary stimulus for it which could lead to loss of libido. I saw keep away from pygeum/ saw palmetto. Maca is where it’s at!

Is it just Maca powder or will pills do the thing also?