Dribbling vs shooting
I see a lot of people confused here, as I was before. My view after a few years of research and experimentation is this:
If you’re a dribbler, you’ll always be a dribbler. It is, unfortunately, the gene lottery. I know this not the answer most people are looking for, but it is the case as far as I can gather. Let me tell you why.
A bit of background: 32, good health and athletic/healthy lifestyle. I’ve always wanted to shoot my loads as in porn since I started beating the bishop. A few years ago I took it to the Internet and just like most guys ended up here. I tried the stack, then variations of the stack, on and off over the past 3-4 years.
Does the stack increase load size? It most definitely does! At least for some people in some sense or form. I found my loads increase most with celery.
But an important distinction needs to be made in our discussion. Bigger loads vs shooting your load (farther/more force or just shooting/gushing any of it).
If you’ve always been a dribbler, will the stack make you shoot/rope/spurt cum all of a sudden? My view is no, for the following reasons:
- While I can see how a “bigger” load should theoretically make shooting easier, it doesn’t explain how for most of us when we were horny teenagers and had huge loads to begin with, we never shot cum even at the prime of our sexual drive. So clearly just making loads bigger couldn’t be the answer.
- It can’t be kegels only too. Some of the people here have strengthened their PC muscles to incredible levels, where virtually you can clench your PC muscles more or less as long as you want, starting from almost no strength at all. They still didn’t shoot (as I didn’t), while most born shooters may not even know of the kegel exercises to begin with.
- As far as I could gather, for the majority of people who came here and had great results shooting after the stack and kegels are people who have always been shooters, they just saw their loads getting smaller and weaker with age, bad diets, lack of exercise etc. This observation holds true across all other discussions of this matter I saw elsewhere on the web.
- If it was indeed possible to transform a dribbler into a shooter, then you’d expect famous male porn stars who dribble become shooters down their career when they learn the “secret” holy grail. If this exists, then you can be sure that the porn industry knows about it.
- People who shoot, virtually always shoot, and virtually always in the same way. People who dribble, virtually always dribble, and virtually always in the same way. Have you noticed that in porn/personal experience? This makes me think that it is intrinsic to the manner in which the orgasm and ejaculation process happens in each one of us (the way and the timing of the different contractions and the timing of when the different ejaculate fluids from the seminal vesicle/testicles/prostate gland get released along the contractions into the urethra etc), a process that is not fully understood by doctors as of yet, and certainly not to a satisfactory level of detail. And the fact that we cum in almost the same fashion every time we orgasm makes me think this is something buried deeply in our genes.
So that’s my opinion lads. There are still many benefits to the stack and kegels obviously (e.g. Kegels help erection quality, so does Arginine in my experience), and you can still use it to increase your load to dump it on the missus’ face, but at least you know you’re not wasting time and effort thinking you’ll be able to sit across the room and unleash ropes into her forehead all of a sudden.
The only thing that I discovered makes me shoot (albeit one spurt) is the reverse glans pinching technique I mentioned on page 123. Funnily enough, nobody picked up on it which makes me think it doesn’t work for most people either!