Desensitizing Arousal Spots

After much experimentation, I come upon a realisation that I was able to climax by stimulating just a specific arousal spot on my penis without involving the organ in it’s entirety. In other words, I was able to consciously ejaculate by applying constant stimulation to a pea sized spot just below the glans on the under side, a location which if I’m not mistaken would be described as a trigger point. Repeating this technique in other locations of my penis did not garner the same result. Yet, applying motion to that aforementioned pea sized position not only made me ejaculate, but it also and most importantly, gave me the most intense feeling I’ve ever felt when ejaculating, even more so than when inside a woman. It actually made me gasp which is not something I am forced to do in other climaxing circumstances. Personally, I concluded that it’s not jerking of the entire penis that caused one to ejaculate, but rather stimulation of those specific points which is what led one to the promised land. Correct me if I’m wrong with my layman understanding. Now I read a thread a while back regarding trigger points and how one was able to desensitise them, which is essentially what I intend to do. Having realised the above, I’m intending on simply desensitising those specific trigger points so as to gain better control. Am I talking rubbish here, or is this something viable that I am asking to learn more about?

Speaking as someone who has difficulty reaching climax, I would carefully consider what you are about to do. You may find yourself in a situation where you can not regain the sensitivity you once had. If premature ejaculation is the problem you are trying to solve, there are already a number of safe techniques developed that you can apply.

Yes, I’ve noticed those spots;

Yes, I’ve thought about “desensitizing them”;

NOPE, I’m not sharing here because I do think someone is insane enough to try and end up ruining their dicks forever.

It’s called your frenulum and I am the same way my friend, I need not stimulate anything else to splash off.

I am the same way as well, so does that mean we should be edging by just using that area? Would that be how we can work on desensitizing that spot?

I know you advise against it sleepy, but if you were on our side of the spectrum, you’d be wanting to do anything possible to last long enough to please a woman. I’ll take it being more work for me to be able to ejaculate so that I can please any woman I come in contact with any day.

See what I mean !!

PS: I am on your side.

Well you may not say it, but I will lol. I’ve actually had my problem break up a 2 year relationship for me, so I’m gung ho for trying anything it takes.

You should definitely share these desensitizing methods. If people abuse them it’s their own fault, just like any of the other techniques discussed on thunders. Or at least pm them to me. :)

Start going commando It should desensitize the frenulum.

I can rub my frenulum without going to point of no return. even 40 minutes straight and nothing happened…
There was some involuntary kegel though at the 15 minutes mark but it stopped after a minute or two.

Sensitivity is unchanged no loss that I know of.

If you want to last longer with a woman, it would be interesting to take some numbing creme like Anbusol (for gum and tooth pain) just put a small dab on the sensitive spot and give it a few minutes to kick in…then wash it off very thoroughly.

It should allow you to feel a lot of pleasurable sensations, but still last longer…theoretically. AND it will wear off after some time so no permanent changes are made.

Having used a penis numbing spray for quite sometime, I’ve had the mis/fortune of experiencing both ends of the spectrum. Suffice to say, ejaculating beats not ejaculating every single day of the week. The worst aspect of the latter was that the longer I went on, the reduced the strength of my erection became, resulting in me pounding away 10 minutes into the act with pretty much a limp erection. Something which you really don’t want to experience. I think it is a delicate balance to attain, because on one hand, you do not want sex to become less enjoyable and you run that risk if you were to shut down your most sensitive spots. Having said that, it is imperative that one is able to experience such pleasure, and still retain control as to when and where one was to ejaculate. In my opinion, I’ve always felt that the key to control lied in the mind, as opposed to the penis itself. My thoughts and state of arousal seemed to play a bigger factor in my premature-ejaculation, rather than the speed or tempo of my thrusting/jerking. I’ve often wondered whether it was the mind that needed retraining.

Thank you. Ditto.

When I had my frenum pierced, it was way more sensitive for a couple months, then, once the scar tissue took hold, I could last quite a bit longer than I used to. I don’t even notice it there anymore (I’ve had it 6 years).

I used to finish during sex in 5 minutes or less, now I can go for about 20 minutes on average (120 minutes after 6 beer :) ) and it feels just as good, if not better, because of the enjoyment time. (On non-beer days, beer days are frustrating).

so I should probably go get my frenulum pierced and wait for the scar tissue to form…

I’m not suggesting it, just relating experience.