Ejaculation Process

An update,I spoke to my mother and it looks like I am alone on this one, my father had no such problem as I do.It makes no difference the goal remains the same a solution will be found even if it takes considerable time.

Try using a Fleshlight for masturbation. At the very least you need to resensitize your penis, using a gentler stroke. See here for some resensitization techniques.

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Zaneblue thank you for your feedback and this will be something I will look into,however let me be honest with you I have never been able to reach the point of ejaculation through stroking my member.Although this may sound somewhat strange however I have used a method of actually squeezing my unit with my inner thighs ‘n a lot of mental imagery.I know very strange but heck I had to come up with a “solution” I mean I went through my bloody teens right through to age 21 until I was able to reach an orgasm through actual stimulation. Although my challenge may not exactly be TMS, I am almost very certain that these method suggested in the link you provided may actually work for this case. I have been thinking around similar lines in line with re-sensitizing my unit.Zaneblue thank you for you input, it has been a great help and I know that in less a year from now I will be reporting some good news. I think I may start a thread pertaining to this because I think a lot of others could be faced with a similar challenge and I think the advice I have received from you Zaneblue and Avocet8 has been “golden”.

Oh, I thought when you said squeezing you meant squeezing with your hand. I think you do have a variant of TMS, in that case. I will be very interested in your results. Good luck!

I will be back to give a more detailed post but I think that success has been experienced and I thank Avocet8 and Zaneblue for their input.

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Of course detailed descriptions always appreciated.

I am sorry folks, I have been inundated with a great amount of exam preparation.Retarded ejaculation has been a derivative of a challenge which I am yet to fully iron out but I have a life to figure it out.I do not think that I have come up with a solution but rather a means around my challenge with many thanks to Avocet 8 and Zaneblue.I think that my failure to ejaculate through “normal” stimulation is also a derivative of this challenge which I am yet to diagnose.

Well a few weekends ago I finally achieved ejaculation as a result of intercourse.This was a owing lots tom Avocet8’s advise and reference to an article which discussed challenges similar to mine and ways in which the concerned parties were advised to work around this.Although my penis has been one which has needed a fair amount of stimulation I think that over the years it has become an even harder nut to crack owing to my method of masturbation as previously described. I have still not bought the flesh light but I am going to buy that, Zaneblue also pointed out some excellent reference to a great article and I will continue to refer to this as I try educate my penis or actually learn more about myself.

Thank you to Avocet8 and Zaneblue for the advice and guidance, I am glad that I do not have to go see the urologist or some therapist because some of the “experts” are here. It may be a long while before until I “fully” understand my body and especially the unit I have been blessed with hoever this path of discovery is one I will enjoy. I will continue to share and if ever I can lend a hand to someone with the same or similar challenges/ anything for that matter I will be glad to do so. Thank you for Thunders Place.

p.s. Although this year my sex drive has gone up and down I still have a very healthy drive but I think hat I have come to the place where I have begun to realise the disadvantages of porn I am mean look all of us are unique and thus our varied reactions to various things but I think that some ways I have to ease off on it as I am going through with this process.

I have failed to mention that owing to my left curve even at 7.2” BP doggy style is a little difficult because my curve is lower down my shaft almost near the ” point of origin” .And thus my lady and I tried the adjusted version with me lying on top of her while she lay on her front and I entered her as she lay down and occasionally thrusted upwards, I have found that in my case this gives me the greatest stimulation but boy did we have to work it.She was so over joyed with me cumming that she wanted to get at it again when we woke up. For some strange reason this left curve seems to make her come with ease when she rides me.

Glad to hear you’re making good progress on delayed ejaculation. This is a difficult condition to treat. On the drug front there has not been a whole lot of pharmaceutical interest because premature ejaculation gets far more attention.

Keep playing around with different positions - you may have to experiment with some of the more gymnastic and exotic ones :) to find several that usually work for you and for her, too.

There is a lot of concern about curves and bends but you’ve lucked out to have an advantageous one for women.

Thank you Avocet8 with folk like yourself on the advisory panel I am sure that I am going to find the “right combo” or a solution of some sort for now I am enjoying the learning phase.

I will be schooling myself with a few interesting positions and see what results, I guess this is some of the beauty in being a student we learn so much.( its owing to some of the advice you gave that I actually tried varied positions.)

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I would like to hear how that conversation went with your mother.

I smile danb1875, it was actually a very interesting conversation which had to be conducted over a few days as my old lady is rather on the more conservative side of the scale so matters related to sex especially her own sex life are taboo. Either way to get to the point it looks like my old man must have been firing blanks or something at the time. My testosterone levels came back on the lower end of normal however they are still unable to answer why it is that my testosterone levels vary so much. I think every case on Retarded Ejaculation is different and mine seems to contain some mental aspects too ( I am not that crazy). However over this last year I have actually come through manual stimulation thanks to the many principles shared by Avocet 8 who has been like a mentor during my quest. However things are still far from over…I am still yet to come from hand jobs, oral stimulation and intercourse…I get so close to the edge but never seem to be able to get over it, this actually ticked my former sex partner off quite a lot because she felt the problem was with her. I think the next step is retraining my brain and unit with the aid of a flesh-light as suggested by Zaneblue, but in this case to actually come within 20min. What I have learnt is that my ability to come is a function highly dependent on my libido levels at the time in question something which has evened out over the months but can still be quite erratic. Thank you Advocet8 and Zaneblue.

I remember your problem, Phenyo, and it is a very stubborn one. I think you are on the right track in trying to re-wire your brain. All of us come to these sort-of habits through a long process of initial training we aren’t even aware of at the time.

If I come across anything else that might be helpful, I’ll post it here.

Your problem is not one that is very often studied in medical research, most guys in the world trying to find ways to prolong the time to ejaculation.

Thank you Avocet 8 , you are king. If I am blessed with continued life / an ongoing future in terms of years to come( something I hope I am) my wife will one day be most grateful to you too it will make her happy and make reproduction an easier process :-) .

Great stuff man!