Fleshlight Success

Yeah its cool to hold an edge for some time. But initialy the fleshlight will make your edge sharper and you will loose it more often :P . Takes some training.

If you are trained in edging already then its easier.

I’m just going to update here from time to time. My base stamina is increasing noticeable. I can go longer before I get the urge to cum with her on top and in doggy style. When you buy a fleshlight that is hard to edge in due to reaching the PONR too often that I’d a good thing because not only does your confidence go up but you slightly desensitize your dick so your dick is not super sensitive while you are having sex. It still feels good but now I can actually enjoy the moment more instead of trying not to cum too fast during sex.

I’m not a marathon man but being able to have unprotected sex for 5-10 consecutive mins without having to pause is a success to me. One day I will be able to go 20mins nonstop as long as I keep up the edging sessions. One thing that had always bugged me was that I would cum too fast after about 1 week of no sex. My stamina would go to shit but now I can last even after a break.

I really want to get one but I’m not sure what the best/most realistic one is, there are so many.

The wonder wave is textured more like a real vagina. That’s why I got it but my next one I will look for intensity.

Wonderwave is the most realistic in my opinion as well. And I will say again, the orgasms I get are the closest to “real sex” orgasms I can get with masturbating. Real ball drainers/knee tremblers.

Of the ones I have “super-ribbed” is the most intense. In general I have a lot of ejaculatory control, but cum in that thing in less than 5 minutes. It works the hell out of your ridge corona and honestly the intensity is borderline painful, at least to me. I hardly ever use it.

I bought a fleshlight a few months ago and I have to say it’s really great. I originally bought one because I had become so used to the sensations of my hands that I couldn’t feel anything during sex with my girlfriend. It got so bad I started to avoid getting intimate with her with excuses like “I’m tired” or “maybe some other time” just to protect her feelings so she wouldn’t blame herself when after a couple strokes I would go soft inside. The only way I could get off was with my hands, and I hated it.

I did a bit of research and found an article talking about using a fleshlight to ‘retrain’ your nerve endings to enjoy the sensations of sex again and/or build your stamina to last longer. I ordered one the next week, and ever since not once have I ever used my hand to get myself off. The first couple times took a while to get used to it, but after the adjustment phase it feels great and I can thoroughly enjoy sex again! Well, I would be able to if we hadn’t broken up lol.

I don’t have any extensive experience with types/brands/models, just that in general it’s worth it if you had/have a problem like mine.

Ermagerd: Yes I had that issue too - to much rough hand masturbation made penis less responsive to more subtle stimulation. And flashlight helped me turn that around. When I first got the wonderwave I really couldn’t feel the ridged texture in it very well. I vowed to only masturbate with the fleshlight. After time I could feel every damn ridge!

I appreciate you posting this, it reminds me that I should go back to avoiding hand masturbation and go fleshlight only again. Am doing manual PE these days and I am getting back to that place where I can’t feel subtle sensations.

I’m thinking about getting the STU. Do I need to purchase their lube and cleaner or can I use anything?

Any water based lube will do. Astroglide, etc. Don’t use oil based or silicone lubes

I clean mine out by running warm water thru it. I hang it up on the towel rack and let it dry.

The forum guys also say water. Some use alcohol occasionally but they specify a certain purity which I can’t remember right now. If you don’t use the right purity, it will destroy the fleshlight. You can find the flashlight forum off the main flashlight website.

But again, I just put the faucet mouth into the “pussy” entrance and run water through it. Works great.

Also remember to look for Fleshlight coupons on the net before you order. They usually have some discount codes active.

Thanks.

Hi, I have never tried using a Fleshlight before, but I keep hearing that the Pink Lady Wonder Wave is the most realistic and perhaps best to start with. It seems it is often sold out on the Fleshlight website. :P

Are there other online stores that sell it and perhaps at a discount?

Hello all mate!
Its an interasting discussion going on. I cum in few minutes and Im 23years old. 1st time started reguler sex a year befor and stoped after three months. Im still not active sexually but hopefull going to be active sexually weekly. I want to imorove my timing too now. Im on a newbie routine for 3months.

A friend on this forum adviced to use fleshlight to train for lasting longer. But I thought I will start edging 1st for a couple of months few times a day and they buy a fleshlight.

One question: When edging with your hands and with flesh light, how hard are your strokes?? slow or fast?

A question for you.
1st congratulation on your progress and wish you luck for more gains.
Q: You said you can last about 20minutes during sex continousely, During thus time how hard are your strokes?? fast or slow? or faster and slow both and depends on the feelings and the urg to.cum you you slower your strokes??

One of the touted fleshlight advantages is its supposed to restore sensitivity. What percentage of sensativity is restored?

I’ve bought the Alexis Texas Outlaw and I find it awesome! My stamina is increased in few weeks even if I don’t use it daily because my hanging routines, now I last 1 or 2 minutes longer in thrusting, I find it helpful to get better my reverse kegel too.