Fleshlight Success

This is interesting. How are you using the device to delay ejaculation? Are you reaching the point just before orgasm and then stopping? How would this be different than doing the same thing edging?

I like my Fleshlight, but find I’m using my TENGA 3D more at the moment. Would love to try a TENGA Fliphole, but I’m not laying out that sort of cash when I’ve already got a Fleshlight, despite the fact it’s easy-cleanability does appeal! :D

Because a flashlight warmed up to body temp feels more like pussy than your hand does.

ecto, its basicly the same but the fleshlight is much more intense. while more intense then most pussy its still more to the real thing.

I suspect you are training the brain body connection here. So you are getting used to the feelings and the inbetweens. A little stroke with the fleshlight is already very intense.

So yo ucan trai nfrom day to day to do one more stroke..This then translates to the ral thing - pussy.

I see. So it duplicates real event sensations so that you can mentally adapt to it. If that is correct, does it mean you take it up to the level of orgasm and stop assuming that if done enough times you become mentally deconditioned to the exploding point?

Im not sure whee you getting at but its more similar to a tickling sensation.
Meaning you train yourself to not giggle when getting tickled. The treshold gets higher.
I guess its the nervous system who does it and adapts body brain connection.

But if you like you can give into it. Fuck harder push yourself to cumming and you cum..Thats how it works for me.
Im aware of my sensations and pelvic floor. Of course you dont need a fleshlight for that. Edging is similar.

I stop right before orgasm. The first time I almost blew after 10 slow strokes and I’m not even that fast during real sex. It is intense and it’s something that you just can’t mimic with your hand. Your hand feels like a hand and nothing similar to real pussy. Now I can thrust away for 20+ mins before I decide it’s time to fantasize to try and get to the PONR. If jacking off with your hand on a scale from 1 - 10 it would be a 2. Fleshlight would be a 9. Real pussy of course would be a 10. It is definitely your nervous system making adaptation and not just something mental. You condition your dick to get used to higher sensations of pleasure without having the urge to cum.

Very Interesting. So you are not cumming at all? What about if you are having sex?
Do you use porn or something when using the fleshlight?

Fleshlight alternatives made with true vaginal canals are out there. Look up Onaho or Onhaoles. I get mine from nls japan but there are some American suppliers too.

I only cum during sex. I edge and don’t cum because I want to train my body not to associate pleasure with orgasm. It increases my self control and I like the feeling of being horny. Porn is not good for the brain so I don’t watch it. I watch TV sometimes so I won’t be so bored while training.

I had three different Fleshlights until about 8 months ago. In thought that the sensation was quite intense. When I got my first on I was unable to last very long before there was a very strong urge to cum. This was probably not more than a dozen strokes. In time with practice I was able to stroke for 45 minutes without going over the edge.

When you go that long without reaching the edge is it ok to just keep doing sessions where you don’t reach the PONR? I go about 20mins before I try to fantasize in attempt to reach the edge.

When I was younger I would usually end up getting “blue balls” or “lover’s nuts.” This is an aching in the testicles. The only way to eliminate the ache was to go on to completion.

Now that I am older I do not have that problem much at all.

Sometimes my balls ache but it’s like hours later.

I guess its also a training but I cant then hold much longer then 24 hours if I ways already at the edge.

But its a good pusher to interact horny. Pussy smells that edge as in reacting different to you.

Just not too much or its again the fleshlight today lol

Sed26, you offer a very comprehendible explanation. Well said. I also concur with your position on porn. An excellent perspective. I don’t have a problem with premature ejaculation just when the wife reaches orgasm point, could be 20 min or an hour, it makes me lose control. I’d like to train to get through that so I can give her multiples. I’ve tried counting backwards, kegel, reverse kegel, pondered Einstein’s theory of relativity. No good. Maybe I’ll look into your method.