Fleshlight

Has anyone ever used one of these things? I think using my hand is a little rough and I’m usually always a little sore after masturbation. I don’t do anything weird, fyi. I just think the fleshlight would be better for my member, provide less friction maybe. Plus, it looks like it probably feels good. Why not masturbate with a Fleshlight instead of your bony hand? Has anyone tried it?

I actually went ahead and bought one, and it’s alright. It’s cooler than using your hand, but it’s not as good as some of the reviews that make it out to be a mind blowing experience. It’s definitely not mind blowing. To me, it actually seems easier to control orgasm with the Fleshlight, because it takes more effort to try and pump really fast. Idk. It’s just okay. Better than hands but definitely not mind blowing.

Which model did you buy?

I had the STU. It was amazing!

Hi, I had one made ​​in the USA, vortex model. It gave me some good feelings. They said to use it with specific lubricants, I used olive oil and I was comfortable, easy to clean. I found it in a sexy shop, a little bit expensive in Italy.

It could be dangerous if you are alone and it is in a drawer next to your bed. :)

If I had It now, I would use to do edging \ no cumming. Or something like a masturbation\no cumming propaedeutics to sex. A Fleslight is not like a real woman. :)

Oh, I forgot. I prefer to use my hands and a good lubricant for that purpose, now. They give me a good genitals feeling and have a cost of zero. Helped by a good imagination.

I think it’s a little bit better than using your hands. Your hands are bony and not very soft. Masturbating a lot can cause chaffing and bruising.

I bought the lotus. It is pretty fun. Again, better than your hand, but definitely not mind blowing.

I had one. I used it for an edging/training device. I’m not really into masturbation for masturbation sake.

It does feel better than a hand, and easier. Plus, you can use it in more natural orientations.

I got rid of it because I could not live with the ‘perv’ factor of a single guy owning a simulated vagina. I did not want the risk of someone finding it, and saying, “Geez, are you that pathetic and desperate?”.

I feel going back and forth over buying one or not…probably pick one up in the next few months (likely STU), as anything that can increase stamina is a good thing imo.

I’m not sure if girls have that same impression. That is, that it’s pathetic to own a Fleshlight. Do you think a girl is pathetic for owning a dildo? Either way you’re going to be masturbating. Why is it pathetic to use a Fleshlight, but not pathetic to use your hand? I’m not sure why there’s a double standard, but it would be mighty embarrassing if the roommate found it.

Probably, again given double standards around these topics. I’d have to figure a girl who found out a guy had one would see it as he couldn’t bring home a real girl anytime he wants, and that would make him ‘less of a man’. For a girl, owning a dildo and using that vs bringing home a guy all the time would be seen more ‘pure’.

The sad joke of the above too is arguably the girl could easily pull more guys than the guy pull girls. If any reasonably attractive girl was to stand up in a bar and say she needed to get screwed that night, there would be a line forming. If a guy did the same, he’d just get laughed at by every girl in the bar.

You got to heat that think. Fill it up with warm water for 10 min…

It’s waaaaaaay better

So how much better is the fleshlight than jagging off with your hand? I was told by many conservative PE’ers that the sensation comes incredibly close to real vagina and it can be tough not to blow your load.

It’s just like the real thing!

Can’t remember what model mine is (think it’s a Vortex), but it’s very good indeed.