How bad is it to take Viagra at 19?

Well i’ve been having problems. I was a ”bed-humper” (masturbating prone; https://www.healthystrokes.com for more details) for many years (4 years), and have noticed very poor erections and the inability to orgasm whilst masturbating using my hand. More often than not due to my really, really poor erections I cannot have sex with my girlfriend because it seems I cannot hold an erection for more than a couple seconds (which is really frustrating I may add). I was wondering if I should use viagra (I plan to only use this on a temporary basis until I am cured of my condition) or any other supplements (l-arginine).

The couple of times I have managed to get it in I cummed quite quickly which is weird because I thought people in my condition wouldn’t be able to orgasm (shes asian with a really, really, tight pussy - almost too tight if that makes any sense and she recently told me she does female kegels which to my knowledge makes it even tighter).

Any help?

PS- I have a theory (not saying its true or false but just something I thought about). I have recently noticed that my penis is the same size it was when I was 15 (I am now 19). This was the age I started my ”bed-humping”. This according to healthystrokes puts a lot of pressure on the penis. Doesn’t putting pressure on the penis prevent growth just like during penis enlarging excercises. Could this be the reason I stopped growing?

I’ll appreciate any input from people and any help.

Thanks in advance.

Take care.

How long has it been since you stopped “bed humping”? Have your erections been better since then?

Personally, I had problems awhile ago due to performance anxiety and maybe too much porn. I would focus so hard on staying erect that I would come fast, and that was even if I got hard at all. It’s a little more common than you think, and a lot of it is probably in your head.

I did use Viagra, and it helped a lot. I lasted much longer, and it worked great. When I got used to having sex with her, I slowly weened myself of of it by taking lower and lower doses (just in case), and I was fine. It wasn’t quite as fun not having those diamond cutter erections, but you really don’t want to get accustomed to using it that often or it can cause more psychological problems than you started with.

First, what are you planning to do to cure yourself of your condition? A big part of it for me was that it was all in my head (might be the same thing for you too), so after I proved to myself that I could perform like I wanted to and that it was all in my head, I was much better. I know exactly how you feel man, so good luck with whatever you decide to do.

There are a couple of threads here dealing with bed humping.

If you are having erection problems when you attempt sex, talk to your doctor about it. He’ll suggest something, and it will be a short haul solution.

I seriously doubt that bed humping stops penis growth. I mean, during a day, how long can you hump a mattress? Other spontaneous erections would give you good erectile exercise.

I haven’t bed humped for a week but I used to do it at least once a day. I found out that this was bad a couple months ago and I cut down a lot. Very little spontanteous erections/if any.

I’m going to see a urologist on Tuesday and hopefully he’ll be able to help me.

I really think viagra could help me out significantly though because I generally cant keep hard whilst masturbating (or when my girlfriend jerks me).

Never hump another bed as long as you live, and you might start getting better erections fairly soon.

So when you used to bed hump, you had good erections? Just wondering if your plumbing is ok.

Well I thought I did. But then I started trying to jelq and I couldn’t get hard with just hands. I then bed-humped and tried again but erections didn’t last too long. Even my girlfriend noticed this.

I also bought a fleshlight but I can’t fit my dick all the way in. I’m not big by any means so i’m a little lost here.

You may need more lube with the Fleshlight.

Ok, I would say no PE until you have this handled. What percentage of maximum hardness can you achieve now?

Yeah I stopped penis enlarging because I think I need to sort this out. I’ll get back to you on what percentage erection quality I get tomorrow morning.

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More lube and unscrew the cap on the other end so you are not fighting air pressure.

I used to be a major beadhumper but stopped about a year ago. It never resulted in a loss of sensitivity for me though. In many ways I cannot relate to your problem. If bed humping never caused you any real pain, then how might it have caused so much damage? I like to think that ED at such a young age is a psychological condition, which ultimately means that your brain/thoughts/doubts are causing the problems you are experiencing, rather than your penis. Is it really impossibly for you to ejaculate using your hands?

Yes. I cannot seem to ejaculate with my hands or my girlfriends hands.

And I also agree that the problems i’m having COULD be down to phychological problems which I have to deal with. But to be honest its hard to differentiate what could be the problem..the nerves or the bed-humping and trying to become sensitive to new stimuli.

I was thinking about asking my urologist to prescribe me viagra (or another supplement to allow me to get erect) and use it when I have sex with my girlfriend. I will not masturbate with my hands in this time. Hopefully I can re-sensitize my penis in this time and hopefully erections get better.

I’m just a bit lost as to why I can still orgasm during sex and not with my hands (I do worry about my penis popping out and losing my erection so this may be it but I guess there could be million other reasons).

Seemed to have decent wood this morning but it can be better to be honest. Doesn’t really last as long as I would like. I;m not an expert in % erectness but i’d have to say 70-80.

Thanks to everyone for their responses and some informative help and advice.

Do I have anorgasmia?
Unable to orgasm with her

Basically cut yourself off cold turkey from porn and bed-humping. Additionally, don’t even masturbate for 2 weeks. If you’re serious about your problem you’ll do this. At the end of the 2 weeks, you should want to hump anything that moves. Resist the urge long enough and you’ll come from anything. Trust me, I worked hard on this problem a couple years ago.

I’ve had some people here whine that they can’t go that long or they can’t give up porn or their girlfriend won’t want to do that. If that’s the case, only have your girlfriend touch you, otherwise don’t break the rules.

Yeah, no more bed humping ever again :)

I’m not an expert and I’m still trying to figure out my own confusing ED, but here are few things that could help.

1+ tsp Cocoa to decrease the expression of arginase 2 which leads to more nitric oxide (look for one that hasn’t been ‘dutch’ processed, because you want it for the flavanols)

2 x 600mg Alpha lipoic acid and 1g vitamin C to reduce reactive oxygen species

<10g Inositol for PI3K (I’m going to try this now. Had some good effects in the past)

10-30ml Coconut oil for testosterone

2000iu Vitamin D3 and 1g calcium to get a bit more calcium, if you don’t get much sun

Try one thing at a time. You may only need one of the above. Alternatively, you could just take nothing and give yourself time to heal. That might work too.