How To Use It

We focus so much on the size of our cocks but how about how we use it to fuck??

I thought it would be cool if we had a thread to share some of the things we do in bed technique-wise.

Anything goes. Mechanics. Holds. Tricks. Rythm. Style. Position. Forplay. Use of size. Flexibility. Strength. All good.

There was a user who started a thread and linked a cool video from a guy who talked thrusting mechanics. Can’t find it now.

Matress Bounce

One think I really like is this bed bounce motion. Basically I bounce my girl on the bed by pushing down into the matress, and bouncing her back up while thrusting into her. Think about the motion of bouncing a seated person on a trampoline by depressing the trampoline are around them.

The benafit of this is that it concerves alot if energy and let’s me go hard for a long time without breaking a sweat. (I’m a sweaty yo) I’ve used this in missionary and in the prone doggy or basically any position where her body core is on the bed and can be bounced.

I would love to see that. You know, everybody has sex right? But it’s such a taboo thing and the way they fuck in porn is for the camera that we don’t have this ’ next level’ high quality nuanced skill.

Lol, this thread is a GREAT idea.

(Congrats on the weight loss too Kave)

I’m trying to think of my best moves as I don’t mind sharing. I have a curve to the left. As we all know, if we’re going to have a curve, the ultimate curve is the upward curve. Why? Of course the G-spot is right there upon entry. There was a video of a guy giving this lady a massage, and he started to finger her. Guess it was his version of a happy ending. It was very instructional, and she started squirting like crazy. She had this mind blowing orgasm. I wish I could find it for you guys.

Anyways, as far as oral, I mastered it early when I was 15 due to me being a virgin. My gf at the time, who was 3 years older, kept my head between her legs for 6 years. I used Mangos and peaches to gain a better understanding on how to please women. Even bought books on the subject lol. I’m sure there are videos on youtube explaining how to do it right. This is important because before I knew about PE, I had to compensate somehow.

Stroke:

The curve to the left that I spoke of. While they’re laying on their right side, you want to have them lift the left leg so you can get between them while still being over the top of them; this allows you to split the cheeks. Not only does this allow you to get in deeper, but you’re maintaining constant contact with her, and women love to be touched throughout. Multi-tasking is key.

Loosen those hips. Women love men who can dance for that reason. Rhythm, or “The motion of the ocean”. Learn to keep the beat with the thrust. In other words, learn to stroke on rhythm.

Then, the finisher:

Doggy style…. put her head on the pillow, tell her to lift her ass up and arch that back. Her arms should be laying parallel by her knees. Grab onto her hands or wrists, and start going deep. Again, rhythm is your friend. After 3-5 minutes, have her sit back onto your thighs giving her a chance to rest, place her back in front of you with her palms down so her torso is horizontal to the bed on all 4’s, and start again. I occasionally throw in a slight choke to keep it interesting.

The result = splash city

If you haven’t tried it. A pillow or two under the hips can work wonders for your lady.

I do this from time to time, but I can’t help but wonder how it must feel from her side. I’ll have her legs in the air, hands grabbing right where butt cheeks become thighs, and basically push her in to mattress and let mattress recoil her into me. Sometimes I look at the response it causes in her body and head and wonder if I’m just making her seasick lol. On a side note, when I use this technique it ends up being more of an up and down motion on my dick. She really seems to enjoy it when I change it up and use more of a parallel thrust at the same time my hands are shoving her down into the bed. And I like it too.. Which is why I can’t do it too long 😠

I’ve been doing a very similar one to this for years before I knew it was a thing. You are almost guaranteed to rock her world each time, and it’s also great for lasting longer.

Give Her the Big O

Excellent thread by the way, kave!

That’s some in-depth reading right there lol.

Appreciate the link M.G.

Holds

Another thing I like to do is vary up my holds. Changing holds changes the way that power is transferred into your girl. Some holds produce a bouncy effect in my opinion and others that sledgehammer hitting home hard type feeling.

Here are some

Doggy on my knees:

1. Hands on butt (classic)…
2. Hands low and thumbs spreading cheeks
3. Hands high on waist
4. Butt / waist combo
5. Hands on shoulder/neck
6. Shoulder/waist combo ( I love this one as it’s let’s me really drive hard and I can feel her whole body shake with my pounding)
7. Gently gripping and holding down her neck/shoulder into the bed.
8. Pulling her arms back
9. Arm behind the back + variations
10. Pull her back and play with her tits.

Missionary
1. Double underhooks lol
2. Hands under but
3. Gorrilla fists into bed