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Originally Posted by Ph33rme
At risk of sounding like a cultist. Ever since starting crossfit and eating right I’ve had much more testosterone and aggression. I actually feel like i did back when i was in college sports.

I can’t recommend enough a good explosive workout program and a diet.

I’m married but for a single guy there are a lot of fit women who do crossfit…

To be honest I have been put off cross fit because of the cult reputation.

The plan at the moment is yoga and weights. And Pilates if it suits me. I already do a brisk walk for 30 at lunch.

Originally Posted by Nudgetracker
Yours, high estrogen could make you feel more emotional and vulnerable. It also makes you brood on things.
The guy who wrote “men are from Mars and women from Venus” actually has some interesting things to say about this and strategies to fix without taking supplements.

Thanks. Sound advice. Probably good for the wife to get bloods done as well as she is mild 40s.

Originally Posted by Buckfever
Have you clearly defined what success would look like?

For me yes. A growing intimate friend and sexual lover relationship with my wife. The subtle point is obvious to me. Have I expressed this to my wife?

You guys are good.

Originally Posted by Don Logan
I keep reading this thread, SB, with a feeling of familiarity. It’s an untenable position. On the one hand, you’re not allowed (as in most monogamous relationships) to have sex and intimacy on the side. On the other hand, she won’t give it to you. It’s the plight of so many guys. The members who say to double-down on sex and intimacy with your wife have only the best intentions, and this is not a criticism because that can work in some shorter-term relationships. But you can get to a point in a long-term relationship when those actions have no effect (in fact, SB has tried already). So, you double down on her with sex and intimacy or…you do the opposite and withdraw from her…whatever you do, you find that it’s not working.

Her comment that implied “if you do the ironing, you will get sex” (or whatever the hell the chore was), hit me hard. It’s a counterfeit coin that so many modern women believe to be real. It’s one of those comments that allow the man no avenue. If you did the laundry, you might (just might) get some duty sex. Yet you’ve cast yourself in that begging role that one of the members mentioned.

I don’t envy you, and I’ve been exactly where you are. Keep us updated. A man needs to think for himself eventually, and it sounds like you’re doing this.

Thanks Don, more wisdom from the TP community.

I’ve tried withdraw and not touched her for a month. Nothing. Now I cuddle her in bed but get nothing back. I now cuddle because it feels good to me, nothing more. After this did blow up I got one or two small cuddles in the morning. More lip service if you ask me. I.e. I did it because I had to.

I’ll keep you posted, as I am positive I am not alone.

SB

Originally Posted by EnjoythePeace
So many beautiful stories Shaunbaby. I really hope you will keep finding positive things in life. You are on the right path :)

This is one of the nicest comment I have received. Maybe I do need my estrogen checked. (Reaches for tissues)

Thank you.

As for the tissues, I now try not to repress my emotions. There is enough sexual repression without including my emotions.

A psychologist once said to me: Why do you comfort a crying person? It’s because you feel bad and want them to stop, social conditioning. Be there for them and allow them to process the emotion.

The switch flipped.

I think the journey, that is not complete and maybe just starting, has reached a tipping point.

Yesterday I decided to work on me.

It started with a dancer last July, yes there is illusion and connection. That led to the awakening that started this post. That led to Tantra and the Goddess. That led to another awakening that I didn’t think was possible. That lead to expanding this post and receiving your wisdom.

Last night on the way home my habbit would be to pick up some vodka, relax do dinner and fall asleep. Yesterday I didn’t. I came home did my homework as set by the Goddest and sipped on diet lemonade. I did have some valium as I am/was a reasonable heavy drinker. I made dinner, read my Tantra book in bed and took a small amount of quatrapine to help with sleep, which i have always struggled with. Did she notice, probably not. I did the experiment some time ago and didn’t drink on a few days in a week. I asked her to tell me which days and she couldn’t. Sad really.

Today we try out the gym.

Thanks guys.

I don’t want to mix serious posts with fun ones.

At the gym I am looking at there was a woman who had two tattoos of hand prints on her shoulders. One hand on each side with fingers towards the front.

When asked what they meant she replied, that is so the guy know where to put his hand during doggie style.

Have a great day . I plan to.

SB

Originally Posted by Shaunbaby
To be honest I have been put off cross fit because of the cult reputation.

The plan at the moment is yoga and weights. And Pilates if it suits me. I already do a brisk walk for 30 at lunch.

I wouldn’t throw the baby out with the bath water. I’m not saying to joun a crossfit gym. Rather look at how they program their workouts. I’ve seen massive testosterone and lean muscle gains with explosive high intensity weight lifting and cardio.

It’s not for everyone but I am a firm believer that men benefit from lifting heavy weights with complex lifts like the squat, deadlift, and clean.

Starting: 9/1/18 NBPEL 5.0 BPEL 6.5 EG 5.0 Current: 3/8/19 NBPEL 6.25 BPEL 7.25 EG 5.5

Goal: NBPEL 8.0 BPEL 8.5 EG 6.5

My progress pictures thread.

Well this will be interesting. Just got lip from daughter. Funily enough similar to her mother. So i got dressed and when asked where i was going i said im sick of being treated like shit and im going out for dinner. Not just by the daughter all of them treat me like shirt and an ATM. I got asked what about our dinner. Not my problem I replied. Then I got told I can’t do this. To which I replied yes I can just watch me. And walked out.

Frosty reception now I am home, so I have packed my gym bag and lunch and about to go to bed. Will give the daughter a cuddle before bedtime.

Originally Posted by Shaunbaby
Well this will be interesting. Just got lip from daughter. Funily enough similar to her mother. So i got dressed and when asked where i was going i said im sick of being treated like shit and im going out for dinner. Not just by the daughter all of them treat me like shirt and an ATM. I got asked what about our dinner. Not my problem I replied. Then I got told I can’t do this. To which I replied yes I can just watch me. And walked out.

Frosty reception now I am home, so I have packed my gym bag and lunch and about to go to bed. Will give the daughter a cuddle before bedtime.

Nicely done. Hold the line, insist on what you want, but be a gentleman.

Originally Posted by Shaunbaby

Not just by the daughter all of them treat me like shirt and an ATM.

Been there brother

Originally Posted by Shaunbaby
This is one of the nicest comment I have received. Maybe I do need my estrogen checked. (Reaches for tissues)

Thank you.

As for the tissues, I now try not to repress my emotions. There is enough sexual repression without including my emotions.

A psychologist once said to me: Why do you comfort a crying person? It’s because you feel bad and want them to stop, social conditioning. Be there for them and allow them to process the emotion.


I know what you mean man. But emotions are good. They make space for other sexual/positive energy to come .

Originally Posted by Buckfever
Nicely done. Hold the line, insist on what you want, but be a gentleman.

Agreed. I stopped the conversation last night before it became in gentleman like.

Originally Posted by EnjoythePeace
I know what you mean man. But emotions are good. They make space for other sexual/positive energy to come .

Agreed and thanks for your support.

You guys rock!!!

Guess who’s is trying to cuddle me and politely getting knock backs.

SB

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