Length vs. Girth: The True Debate

Geesh, I’m sorry to hear that about your wife. I love women too much to be tied down to one. Nothing like catching those eyes looking at your package. There’s nothing they can say when you catch them either lol.

I have noticed. They love looking. And like I said, I even get offers. But have to turn them down.

I think women do prefer girth as it “fills” them up, but they’d also like some length for aesthetic purposes. More length also allows for more thrusting and movement and the ability to perform in different positions (reverse cowgirl with a big booty).

That being said, a good mix of both is probably the best, and proportioned. A 6x6” would be nice but might look short, a 8x5 would work but might look skinny. So I think my goal of 7.5x5.5 would be ideal for both parties of sexy time. Long enough to look big and thick enough to “fill” them up.

Very valid point. Nothing like trying to perform porno stunts, and falling out.

I think girth is more important for women while they are getting stuffed. That being said length is important when they are looking at it. And playing with it. There is a length threshold that is important but it probably doesn’t require 9”.

My goals are set up for just that. 6”meg is a thick babe pleaser. And 7.5” true bpel is undeniably a long cock for confidence blowjobs positions etc. Though it is not the most massive cock in the world, a 7.5x6 is a valiant unit that checks both boxes and let’s you let’s you confidently move on to really important things in sex (like being a good attentive lover!)

Length and girth are important. Remember a woman’s clitoris is like a wishbone. The bump at the top of the opening and the rest goes down the sides of the vagina internally. Sufficient girth to apply pressure and the longer the penis the more friction with each stroke. That said, the average penis is more than enough to create both of those dynamics.

I can understand that perspective too. Guess the real question here is, what exactly is needed to give women the ultimate orgasm? Being that the G-spot is located right above entry in missionary, average with a slight increase in girth could rock her world. Then again, I’m guessing it’s about preference. I’ve had women ask me, “What are you going to do with that?”, as if I was some king sized monster out here knowing they were just catering to my ego, lol.

There are some women who refuse to sleep with some men due to them being too big. I know, crazy right?

In the end, it’s just one of those things that will never have a definitive answer.

This….

Again, no point in having a huge cock, and then not knowing how to use it.

“With great power comes great responsibility” :chuckle:

There are far more things to work on in conjunction to PE.

What if it varies from women to women?

Compared to many others, I haven’t been with that many women. Close to 20.

With some, it’s been like sticking my dick in a bucket of water, i.e., too little girth. A few, including my current girl friend have been VERY tight, but could take more length.

Not considering girth, I’ve been able to bottom out most without any problems, but there have been a few complaints and actually one girl had the most shallow vagina I’ve ever experienced. I think I had 1/3 of my dick outside of her. I didn’t realize what happened at first.

FWIW, my girth is just at 5” or maybe a little below. Length is roughly 7 ” BPEL.

Wow. That comment made a lot of sense to me. Exactly how I feel it in my first relationship (which might be ending).

Lol. I remember I freaked out when I fucked a girl last year. At the first 2 minutes I was genuinely asking myself whether I was in or not. Didn’t talk to her about it but she was WIDE. I don’t know about her but I didn’t enjoy it at all.

Funny. Interestingly though, I’ve had the same happen to me with tight girls, that is, not being sure if I’m actually inside.

At 20, and I’m sure some would disagree, but I say go out there and have fun. Explore, and have fun. Someone once told me that I shouldn’t even consider getting married until I had 8 stamps on my passport. Fast forward to 34, and I still don’t have one stamp on my passport lol.

In all seriousness though, the one thing you should be focusing on now is advancing your career, and having fun.

Girth for her, length for ego

I think it’s important to have both.