“So what do you think of the commonly cited disadvantages of going beyond 8x6? For example bottoming out, no longer being able to grind, bumping into the cervix, not being able to go rough or fast, too thick for quickies, being unable to fit girth in smaller women, so thick unable to hit specific spots, certain positions off limits etc?”
All of that is true. All of that is good. Bottoming out is simply a place for her to stretch, expand, and open. A clearing of the way, so to speak, of the all important birth canal. Essentially this is what you are doing, which I think is one of the things, perhaps only on an instinctual level, that is so appealing and enjoyable, if done right, for the woman.
As far as not being able to fit one’s girth into a lover’s vagina, I think that can be turned into a good thing. I didn’t get a chance to try, but I think it would have been very possible. She, I think even thought so, or probably even would like to have tried if she wasn’t already engaged to be married. I said to her that in two weeks time she would be loving it. She said “more like two year” but she was smiling. And I have to say, even though I couldn’t penetrate that beautiful, tiny, asian vagina, I had one of the most erotic experiences of my life that left me glowing for a month. I think she did to, or maybe she was just so fucking grateful that i wasn’t going to force it in her that she reciprocated with the best show ever. Hard to know for sure, but she seemed to be coming non stop just rubbing her wet snatch against it, and she did have a nice glow about her afterward.
As for the idea that girth can prevent one from “hitting” certain spots. I think that’s silly. You hit all spots, weather you want to or not. This is why that with a large, stiff tool, if you wish to achieve maximum penetration with minimum pain, position is critical. The absolute best is, and I can’t think what it’s called but basically the classic khama sutra position, face to face, man beneath, unable to thrust, the woman in charge of depth control. In this position is where the beauty of a long, ever thickening tool shines most. It provides the possibility for continued expansion, or you could even say fulfillment. And it’s just good fun.
“I’ve always thought it strange that women go ga-ga for a 6x6 bulge that corresponds to a 9x7 BPEL. They love a huge one for eye candy, but there is all this anecdotal evidence on the site that they prefer a 7.5 x 5.5 for intercourse.”
Well, I don’t really know. I haven’t been with all that many woman since having achieved what I thought was a pretty dam big dick. I didn’t really understand it at first. A couple of woman I wanted to be with for more than just a fling ended up not liking it much. Both had periods of soreness that they complained about, but now I think it was because we didn’t have a good understanding of what we were doing. Since those experiences I’ve hooked up with a woman, and the approach taken has been way more satisfactory. Very good in fact. Though I’m not with her now,(I’ll hook up with her again) I’ve no doubt she would say it has been the best sexual experience of her life.
” Basically the argument goes that as long as a penis is neither too small, nor too big, that the relative importance of size is negligible. Therefore get the largest penis that is not too big. And apparently 7.5 BP and 5.5 EG is where some women start having issues with it being too big. “
I suppose that is true. But the way I see it with a potential lover is that we have as much time as we need for penetration, and taking it slow only adds to the romance. I don’t think most woman are expecting intercourse to be pain free. It’s simply a matter of how that pain is going to be applied, and over what duration of time will it be applied. There is a fine line between pleasure and pain, and with a large tool the line is felt more easily. There’s no anxiousness to create it either, like when I was much smaller. I felt like like I really needed to give a pounding, or something like it, or get into all manner of positions to keep it interesting. Not any more.
“I could live with some negatives if there are positives to cancel it out. Of the women who prefer beyond 8x6 - the men who actually have it are a rare treat. And even the women who can’t handle beyond 8x6 still think it looks amazing, so there’s a kind of attractive sexual dominance in play - they want it but can’t have it. Which then gives a huge status boost, sexual confidence, etc.”
The positives are too numerous to tell. I’ve talked about it before, and I don’t think many have taken it seriously, but it’s still true, at least in my experience. The pleasure my sex organ has been able to produce in me has increased with development. Development which has led to a much larger erect organ. I would say that tripling my size has also tripled the pleasure factor. Now just getting an erection is practically a psychedelic experience.
I don’t know about the dominance thing so much. I know a big bulge upon first glance gets attention from some woman, especially young ones. It can be cool but not so cool sometimes too like when men I notice men checking it out. I’ve learned that with first time gazers at my naked hanger a major reaction is to be expected. Generally it has been a sort of giddy excitement. Of course I love that. And yes it is great for your confidence. I was confident enough when hooking up with my last girlfriend that i simply told her I probably had the biggest cock she had ever seen, and I wanted her to know so that we might avoid any problems that it could cause, as it had caused some for me in the past. She told me latter that this really got her going, not because she was so excited to try out a big one but rather that I had confidently and honestly spoken on such a personal subject that related to both of us. She was only just a little curious about the size. But even after we had discussed it, and I showed her a selfie, she was quite taken aback when presented with the real thing. She, of course, got used to it. She does say she doesn’t want me to get any bigger.
“Then there’s women who enjoy CDS stimulation, supposedly a small percent of women. And there’s the point that a lot of the so called negatives of huge girth - actually turn into positives once a woman is fully aroused.”
What I’ve noticed is that when a woman is truly fully aroused, (and there are many levels that need to be gone through) is that she becomes a frothing mess of wetness, and she continually want’s to stretch herself to breaking, to the point where she could seriously hurt herself if some restraint isn’t applied. Like I said, I didn’t always understand this, but now it doesn’t become an issue mostly because we always engage in this khama sutra position, which allows me to tilt my hips back so that my thighs become a limiting factor as to how far my lover can descend onto my tool. I can sense the edge of the envelope an easily pull back when I feel it’s prudent. This practice has led to better and better intercourse for us both. And over the last few years she has stretched out a lot. I don’t think she will ever be able to take it all, unless somehow cervical penetration is possible. I hope so. Does anyone know anything about this? I thought one time with another girlfriend that I was starting to do this. Felt like it. She said so too. She wasn’t willing to keep trying however, and we stopped having sex altogether. She was never very thrilled about the physical sensations that intercourse provided her. She was always about the emotional connection it provided. She finally came right out and said my dick was too big. It was already pretty big when we first hooked up about twenty years ago, but as time went on it got bigger and bigger. For years she said she didn’t mind, even thought I was kind of cool for achieving such a thing. but the day came when it wouldn’t fit in her mouth, and she began crying. No kidding. Here’s the thing though, were still together. Not all the time, but a lot. We just don’t have sex, though we do lots of cuddling and engage in all manner of intimate contact. It just isn’t sexual anymore. She suggested to me many years ago that I get another lover who would be for me what I needed sexually. This, one wouldn’t think could work out so well, but because of my life style does actually work. I live two different lives, but only at separate times in separate places. It’s a long story. Long and short of it is that I am lucky enough to have two women in my life that I love, and love me back, in their different ways. I don’t want to possess either of them, and they don’t want to possess me.
“Some guys over 8 say they bottom out on everyone they’re with. Other guys say they almost never bottom out even with 9.”
I’ve had 8.5 or longer for maybe ten years now, and have always bottomed out on all of the twenty or so lovers I’ve had in that time. In these last ten years the vast majority of gains have come in girth, especially base girth, an this has definitely added to the bottoming out factor. To the point, like I said, that the bottom can come even before penetration. But man I’ll say it one more time, it is totally worth it.
One last thing, BD, if you wouldn’t mind telling me your understanding of what cds stimulation is I’d be glad to hear it.
