Retarded ejaculation

I was similar when I was young. I could not cum with a condom or a super lubricated vagina. Condoms back then came in “one size fits” all size. They were too tight to allow any slippage. With no direct stimulation from her inside skin and no slippage in the condom I felt little but the thrill of doing a hot girl. After it began to get painful to the girl, and she’d start to dry and some of my lube in the condom there was enough friction for me to ejaculate. I never thought of it as a problem, just natural. The problem was with the girls, it made them sore and i would be cut off for a few days.

The “problem” subsided as I grew older to an average of 10 minutes now but as I think of it, i haven’t used a condom since I was in Japan in ‘69.With my Japanese girl, the condom would break anyhow so she allowed me to forgo them after a few frustrating (for her) weeks.

Have fun, stop worrying, make her orgasm a few times and tell her you want to cum on her face, breasts etc, then stimulate yourself.

I must add that when I was young my penis’ name was 6x6.

I have looked into everything, well almost and I have exhausted other factors and I think that the only avenues which hold greater probability for success are the flesh-light method and libido enhancement but my focal point will be flesh light method. I just need to find a decent source here. My libido levels have stabilised a lot since playing up a lot two years ago. I can not wait for sex to prove a rather different experience than that which it currently proves to be, either way while on my way there I will continue to please.

Could be LOW histamine.

Spot on mate.

As a fellow sufferer (more so with condoms) I find this approach the best solution.

Twatteaser, what can I say but thank you very very much. I did some research and in some of the material I found some relation to and this could potentially be an area I have not looked into yet. I actually think you may be onto something.

wiki results

“Sexual response

Research has shown that histamine is released as part of the human orgasm from mast cells in the genitals. If this response is lacking this may be a sign of histapenia (histamine deficiency). In such cases, a doctor may prescribe diet supplements with folic acid and niacin (which used in conjunction can increase blood histamine levels and histamine release), or L-histidine. Conversely, men with high histamine levels may suffer from premature ejaculations.”

Have you tried the Niacin test yet to see if it fits you yet? Cheap test and easy. Make sure it is NOT delayed released Niacin, but ordinary Joe Blow standard Niacin.

Twatteaser, no I have actually never herd of a Niacin test, I have done a google search to see if its one of those I can buy and self test but no definite results. I will have to do some more search. Is it a test I can buy and self test of is it one of those I actually have to go see the doctor for? Thank you for the feedback; I think you have opened up a window for a potential cure. It was somewhat interesting to see how accurate some of those symptons were. Thank you for your contributions.

Niacin is a b-vitamin you can buy it at the grocery store. I have personally been using it and it hasn’t been my panacea, same with L-arginine. I really think its the conditioning of the penis, also about 90% of the time I’m drunk while having sex so that doesn’t help a bit. This histamine thing is interesting though maybe i’ll get some folic acid to go with the niacin.

Niacin - Wikipedia

The idea is to do a test yourself with Niacin before you go and get an expensive blood test for it. It is available at supermarket’s in the vitamin isle, as well as chemist/drug/pharmacy shops or whatever you call them in your area.

If you wind up showing you have low histamine levels, which should be a decent indicator of difficult orgasms, there is a protocol to follow. I have a script written for a "food drug" called Deplin.

Folate - Wikipedia

It is claimed some people don’t process folic acid just right, so they made a supercharged food drug out of in Deplin.

Add the Missing Peace | DEPLIN®
Levomefolic acid - Wikipedia
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Kind of like deplin

METANX® | Prescription Medical Food Product

I read where there might be some degree of correlation between low histamine and PGE1 levels. That is how I found out about histamines lately.

Unavailability of Prostaglandin E1 and Depression
Another biochemical cause of depression is a genetic inability to manufacture enough prostaglandin E1 (PGE1), an important brain metabolite derived from essential fatty acids (EFAs). The problem is the result of an inborn deficiency in omega-6 essential fatty acid. Alcohol stimulates temporary production of PGE1 and lifts the depression.

Do You Have an EFA Deficiency?In his book "Essential Fatty Acids and Immunity in Mental Health, Charles Bates, Ph.D., provides a list of factors that suggest an essential fatty acid deficiency:

* Ancestry that is one-quarter or more Celtic, Irish, Scandinavian, native American, Welsh, or Scottish.
* A tendency to abuse alcohol or feel that it affects you differently from others; trouble with alcohol in your teenage years.
* Anxiety or depression during hangovers
* Depression among close relatives
* A family history of alcoholism, depression, suicide, schizophrenia, or other mental illness.
* Depression that persists while you are abstinent from alcohol.
* A personal or family history of Crohn’s disease, hepatic cirrhosis, cystic fibrosis, Sjogren-Larsson syndrome, atopic eczema.
* A personal or family history of ulcerative colitis, irritable bowel syndrome, premenstrual syndrome, scleroderma, diabetes, or benign breast disease.
* Experiencing an emotional lift from certain foods or vitamins.
* Winter depressions that lighten in the spring.

Formula for Depression due to EFA Deficiency

Nutrient Dose Directions
Efamol (Evening primrose oil) 500 mg 3 capsules, 3 times per day with meals (9 per day); can be reduced to 6 per day after 1 month
Zinc picolinate 20 mg 1 capsule with food
Vitamin B6 50 mg 1 capsule 3 times per day
Vitamin C 1000 mg 1 capsule per day
Niacin 100 mg 1 capsule with food daily

Dr. TT, thank you ever so kindly for the links, I am going to read through them a little later as I have loads of books awaiting my attention and I will get back to you with a better versed response once I have figure what my “stance” is here. Thank you for all the help its dearly appreciated.

I am not a doctor, but I did drink in a Holiday Inn Bar once.

I am going down to the local chemist and I will pick up a test there.Twatteaser I do not think I have EFA deficiency; but I am not saying that with absolute certainty but based on my current knowledge and an observation of the potential factors, I will say no. Although my old man does suffer from depression a lot. I have my moments but always try to iron the problem and see what I can do about it. However I would not rate myself as one very prone to depression but like I say I have my moments and try exercises some control over things. One definite sign is my pain tolerance levels,insomnia if you may call it that and whole range. I think best thing is do the test and see where I stand, however it looks like my diet is already geared to aiding a lot.

I put the PGE1 note in there to explain how I started to find out about histamines. Where I found out about PGE1, I was looking around and found about histamines and it said often Low histamines and low PGE1 follow the same pathway. That is why I started reading more and more. Don’t know if you have that, but I do.

68.5% Irish, but who is counting, my grandmother had postpartum depression, my great grandfather was a classical binge drinker (Low histamine symptom), I have eczema, ulcerative colitis, a lift from vitamins, and get real low during the winter, my aunt has ABS, and my mom is diabetic.

Twatteaser I was rather disappointed went to boots, and thought they would have the test and the rather unhelpful did not have it and had no suggestion to offer me. However not to worry I will be headed to another pharamist and he will know what I am looking for and surely help me out. Yes I was doing a read up on low PGE1 and how it has some correlation with low histamine levels. I do not really drink but my father is a drinker and in all honesty he is far more pleasant when having drunk. However in his older age he cut down on those drinking binges.

I was really frustrated last week, went to see the lady and we were at it for about 2 hours or so. She came three times and I none; I mean to a great extent I still enjoyed myself but the greatest frustration was that I knew that I was not really feeling as much as I could especially when I was fucking her. The best I can say is that there is almost some disconnect between my brain and my cock, in terms that there are occasions when I can barely feel anything. Its then when I decided that to hell with it I really need to press on and sort things challenge out.

Smoothoperator could be right about the conditioning being a factor but this case is ratehr strange one. Although my libido levels were erractic in the last 3 years they have settled on th higher end since last year June. I feeling much better and less prone to depression like feelings. You know I am very confident that this challenge will be ironed out and I look forward to giving advice and helping others with similar problems. Thanks for your help thus far Twatteaser.

Niacin is B3, a simple vitamin, it is not like toothpaste over there. They should have it.:) Don’t even worry about PGE1 angle, just see what histamine level you have.

Conditioning plays a part, nothing exists in a vacuum with this, but if you can rub one out in 90 seconds or less and nothing but air comes out of your dick during sex, I would think histamine.