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Based on my experience of CCOs, there’s no ambiguity about whether one is experiencing one or not. I’ve described the sensations that occur when I have them…suffice it to say, they grab your attention, ALL of your attention. Accordingly, I’d have to say that you haven’t experienced one.
Regarding the instinctiveness of third-eye (6th) chakra orgasms for men, I have to disagree with you. Given my understanding and experience, I have to think that third-eye (6th) chakra orgasms aren’t instinctual for men, or people in general for that matter. Here’s why: I understand and experience that one has to move sexual chi, and sufficient quantities of it, from the gonads (Sperm Palace) all the way up the Governor Channel of the MO to the crown (Pai-Hui) before it can be brought to the third-eye (Pituitary Gland) center in order to experience an orgasm there. I’ve never experienced an orgasm there even though I’ve moved lots of chi through my third-eye center. While I now find the process of moving sexual chi instinctual, its only after 20 years of trying, with the last 10 being the period during which, through repetition, I’ve MADE it instinctual. It certainly wasn’t instinctual before putting in the work to make it so. If it were instinctual, it wouldn’t require so much repetition. And like I said, I’ve not experienced a third-eye orgasm.
More to the point, controlling sexual chi is not instinctual. That’s why ejaculatory orgasms are so easy, they’re instinctual, letting sexual chi go out the out door in accordance with eons of design refinement is by definition easy, IOW, instinctual. It’s like letting water run downhill. Capturing that chi and directing it to places where it wasn’t designed to go is by definition, against design, how can that be instinctual? I say it can’t be. And my experience tells me it isn’t. It’s like trying to make water run uphill. That ain’t easy.
My mind is open on this subject however. Comments solicited.
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