Originally Posted by refresh9
So I did some research, asked some doctors, read some articles on the two subjects and figured I’d share the knowledge.Masturbation: If in a relationship it should almost never be done. It takes away from what you two have together. Although not bad, it’s not helpful either to masturbate much. If you masturbate too much, you’ll want your partner less, have lower libido, have lower quality (not really hard) erections, and might even get prostatitis (temporary pain in the perineum/prostate). If one were to lay off masturbation for a week or even two, they’d notice harder erections, more delight in pleasure, and no prostate pain. Your body does this as a defense mechanism if you masturbate too much, telling you to stop with bodily warnings. So keep it to a minimum, your body, yourself, and your partner (whomever it may be) will thank you.
Pornography: Pornography is similar to drugs, even worse if masturbation is involved. Chemicals in the body get stimulated at seeing porn, and of course more chemicals get stimulated if orgasming. Masturbation and porn if done sparingly will not cause much harm, but both together and a lot, and you’re on your way to an addiciton. Porn has different intensities, ranging from soft core to hard core. The soft core is like a soft drug, it’s stimulating but lower case of becoming desensitized. However a hard drug, quickly you become desensitized and need more exciting, crazy, insane pornography, to the point real life doesn’t suffice. And it gets worse if it is Video porn as opposed to Picture porn. As the video, takes away any mental arousal and leaves it all to the visual. If one would want to subject themselves to porn, with minimal bad side effects of an addition, one should stick to soft core Picture porn. Otherwise one day real life may just not do it for you. Further more watching hard core porn such as banging wives, cheating girlfriends, or bestiality, just as example, makes a man turn paranoid into thinking all girls are like this. The very material, changes a man’s personality towards himself, his friends, and especially girls into thinking they are nothing but cheating filthy whores. True story. It happens. So be careful.
If ever you feel your libido is dropped, you have no respect for women, find certain pornography hysterical while others look at you weird; look at your frequency of orgasms, further more watch your frequency of porn watching and it’s intensity. Take a week or two, or months off from it, and benefits will follow. Trust me on this. I’ve done my research. Good luck.
Everything single thing you wrote here about massturbation and porrnography holds true for me.
I have lost concept of the ‘real world’. It’s just one big porno show. I’m fucked for life. I’ve moved on from porn to hookers and sex tourism. and I’m only in my 20’s. That’s really going to the next stage.
Then again at least I never turned to heroin or alcohol to make life better. I’d prob be in a worse state???
