Some of you guys really need to get out and get lives. Mine includes porn, sometimes alone, sometimes shared, and plenty of healthy “normal” ol’ sex. Your problems aren’t with porn and masturbation, IMO.
Of course porn and masturbation aren’t the problems. They are the solution to problems. Like some people turn to drugs and alcohol, initially for fun and escape then for some they become addictions and they can’t do without. It becomes an addiction because the pleasure of porn and masturbation takes the pain away from troubles in your life for some. In my case, I moved to Uni and lost all friends and became isolated and lonely. I didn’t have the choice or was personally unable to meet and socialise and do things like go to pub/club initially so used to get a bit relief from porn maybe once a week or so or after a hard nights studying at first. Thinking that it would only be a matter of time before I make good friends and get busy going out and doing stuff. BUT it never happened I also got into Bodybuilding for something to do. This made me even hornier, thinking off sex all the time, meanwhile the porn built up and up and it became the case were I’d be taking pleasure breaks in between writing up projects just to wank off for 20-30mins or so then back to studying. Eventually, I was missing lectures and never sleeping at night because I’d be up til 5-6 in the morning wanking off. Sometimes, I’d go 3 4 nights without even cumming but wanking 7hrs each night then explode LOL. Others I’d cum 5 times a night. Anytime I stepped outside my house and had to talk to people I felt like a zombie. Chances of making friends were even less as my head was wasted with images and thoughts of only sex. Well, anyway this is all a bit perosnal stuff so nevermind but just showing how these things can happen.
I don”t watch it as much now though and feel I have better control but that’s because I’ve been having more sex and aint as fit/horny as I used to be. Plus it takes a lot to get me visually stimualted now due to all the shit I’ve seen plus I’m trying to change my focus to touch so I can enjoy sex more. THough I sometimes go thorugh huge one day-one week relapses. NON-stop porn and cumming then get a grip.
Last edited by kingdong69 : 02-08-2008 at .