Originally Posted by bugasman
Hey Guys. We need to see the mental part of libido. The psychology plays a BIGGER role in sex than hormones and chemicals. I’m 21 and suffering from libido problems. I know that is pure psy, i suffered some traumas and stress situations in the past. I got addicted to some drugs and the worst of the drugs since my 11 old, PORNOGRAPHY. Don’t came with bullshits saying pornography is healthy. So Formula1 start doing meditation, search for some hypnotic tapes. The best one: Personal Ecology For Men - Major Mark. He is a great trance inductor, is very easy to find. Stop porn. Get celibacy for some weeks, do aerobics sports and live a healthy life.I want to thank you big Bori for this information. I will try this stuff. Can you post again your exactly dosage, do you only use this stuff? What is the brand you are using. Can i find it online? I live in Brazil, where i find it?
This link has good scientific information about dopamine and sex: http://www.reun iting.info/scie … x_and_addiction
Maybe some people have problems dealing with porn, but I don’t think it is generally a problem for most people. My natural libido is off the scales but I have been masturbating to porn at least once every day since i was 11 ( i used to "borrow" my Dad’s porno mags when I was a kid). Other than the fact that soft core doesn’t do a thing for me, I have never noticed any libido or performance problems related to it.
I guess it could be a low libido issue but, perhaps, those who do have problems are experiencing separation of fantasy from reality issues. For instance, I like the fantasy of a chick being fucked by multiple guys at once. My GF does too, so we often use that fantasy during foreplay.( Realizing that some things are better as a fantasy , we’ve never gone there.) But, I know that is a fantasy and my mind processes it like one. I’m just thinking out loud, here, but is it possible that a person who develops problems getting turned on without porn ( or because of porn) is not successfully keeping fantasy in the fantasy file folder? That happens to some people in other aspects of life, why not sexually? I would think that the same psychological solutions for the one would work for the other.
One other possibility would be that you experienced some sort of emotional or mental trauma at the time of your " collapse". The mind is the biggest sex organ. Porn offers an emotionally "safe" avenue of sexual experience. Fantasy lacks any emotional risk , since it is not real and doesn’t involve other real people.
As I said, i’m a big porn fan ( I own a few hundred movies and boxes of magazines- I save them instead of throwing them out) , but have had absolutely no adverse effects from it.