Confidence Issues.

I’m Gf has recently told me most of her former partners have had bigger penises then me all 7+ and half of them really large girthes.2 penises Being extra large. She already had a naturally larger vagina so I just feel this raging inadequacy during sex. I’m really honestly devastated.

My size-Nb6.5 EG5.0

Goal-Nb7.5 EG6.5

Can I get to 6.5 on a year or half by any chance?

Statistically I find it hard to believe exactly what she is telling you.

Did you bring this conversation up as seems a destructive topic for her to raise.

Does she credit you with doing a great job and being fulfilled though?

She says I do an excellent job but no she’s not a lier hasn’t lied to me in 2 years just brutally honest. She’s had sex with a literally porn star. Long story but rather not get into her past.

Clarity and Plain Speaking: Insecurity, goals, and Women

You are not the first person to claim that their girlfriend has had no smaller than 7 inches. That boogeyman is certainly a very common one. It is up to you to battle it.

Well man I’ll be honest with you.. That’s a shitty move on her part to even tell you what she did unless you pressed her on the issue , if so that’s in you.. Many times though a woman will use this as leverage over a man.. Women are controlling creatures now days.. What she told you may or may not be true..

I can tell you however from working corrections for 15 years in the past I’ve literally saw hundreds upon hundreds of dicks, asses etc as part of the job.. One thing is for certain, most all men seemed to fall within the average looking phalus.. Rare was it to see the horse hung dude, so unless your girlfriend got lucky a lot or has been with dozens of dudes I’d call BS on her story.

The average sizes are average for a reason. I used to let it get me down. Now I know better. I don’t think women say things like that to be evil. I don’t think they now what seven inches looks like. Most often, they are repeating what the guy told them.

I’m curious about that do you have a large hand.

I see in your progress picture you can wrap your hand around your penis.

True story.. Many guys who are under 6” claim to be 6”, most who claim to be 8” are obviously not.. Women are not the best at visual metrics true story.. My Gf thought I was at least 8.5 or more when we first engaged in coitus.. But there are in fact women who do try to knock a guy down by mentioning the toxic crap that happend in the original post.. Women arent stupid, they know where to hit a guy where it hurts..
#radical feminism.

If we could know who´s the porn actor, we can have a better idea of what your GF have in mind as a 7 inch and a big one.

Did you meant get to 7.5”?
6.5 is what you said you have already

Gaining 1 inch in 1 year is posible. But i think 0.5 inch is more realistic for most men.
I certainly gained 0.5 inch in 3 months. But I started PE in september 15 2018, I´ve been a year trying, and until I found what works, I mostly wasted my time.
Same could happen to you… but if time is well invested, that inch can be yours in a year or even much less.

However I tend to think even if the ruler say you gained that 1 “size, it may be not a very mature achievement so to say… needing more development, girth, and some more time under PE.
My peak measurements could be a EQ peak, reading a length that I may not be able to repeat the following week, or under normal sex circumstances, where maybe during a 3 hour intercourse session, EQ may be 90-95%, most of the time.
So eventually i may have my log read i gained 1 or 2 cm , but visually and effectively that´s only true when the optimal circumstances happen.

Bottomline: deadlines are deadly to PE.
Your progress should feel fun, encouraging when you gain 0.2 inch.
But if you expect to get a huge dick soon, you will reap discouragement and anxiety.

I would send the GF away… doesnt sound good to me.

I wear a men’s large glove. Not small but not large.

Best orgasms I’ve given women are with either my fingers or tongue. P in V orgasms are generally weaker in my experience.

I did a Tantra festival recently where a sex therapist said men search online for penis size comparisons. Guilty. Women search tit size butt size etc. So classic insecurities for each sex. When women do seach on penis size it is usually because it is too big.

When I mentioned this to my instructor she said she had never googled penis size and seemed confused that men would.

Your dick is fine. Now all you need to do is convince yourself.

SB

To be honest 6.5nbp is what most pornstars have, be happy with that id be happy to have 6.5nbp but I’m stuck with ~6bp.. :D

Worst thing we can do before a sexual encounter is, worry about the size of our cock.

Worst thing we can do during a sexual encounter is, worry about the size of our cock.

Worst thing we can do after a sexual encounter is, worry about the size of our cock.

We are what we are, the challenge is making the most of that in the moment.

Very true.
problem comes when partner confess she´d want to feel Danny D in her slit