Does PE cause problems with sex or anal or BJs as your lengthgirth increases?

Possible issues:

- Being too long that you hit cervix and cause pain

- Being too thick that sex hurts for girl after a while

- Being too thick to fit inside mouth/anal

- Toothy BJ/unable to deepthroat

I am interested in PE but am afraid that it will cause problems having sex as I get bigger.

I am curious if any of you have run into problems with any of these at larger sizes, or know around which general length or girth area these kinds of issues occur?

I’m not big enough to cause these problems with my wife, but I am right at the edge length-wise, and sometimes I can see her cross the threshold between pleasure and pain as I’m brushing up against her cervix.

There have been members who have had issues. There was at least one member who almost ruined his marriage by continuing PE in secret after his wife told him he had gotten so big that he was hurting her and asked him to stop trying to increase it further.

There are guys with girth such that anal is out of the question with most partners, and bjs are not very practical or very pleasurable.

This all depends on the woman. As well as, warm up technique and how giving the man is to make it a pleasurable experience for the women.

Anal was never on the menu here, tried a couple of times with starting (base) girth of 5.5” , BPEL 5.25-5.5” over a decade ago, out of the question now. Doing PE off and on over the years the wife has adapted extremely well in the oral department though, teeth are an occasional issue but she can still work up to a few seconds of deepthroat! BPEL is 6.5-6.6, girth 5.75 at circ scar, 6.5-6.6 at base currently.

I’ve never had anal so you can’t miss what you’ve never had. Oral and intercourse has never been an issue.

Titleist, as your length has grown has your curve increased or decreased? I just started with pump and sizegenetics. I’m not nearly as curved as you but it’s a definite left turn that I’d like to straighten out. The sizegenetics is often prescribed for this so I’m hopeful it’ll help.

Also, When you’re Jelqing are you squeezing the base and keeping it constricted the whole time? Is this integral to the Jelqing?

My base is the narrowest part of my shaft so that’s where I’m trying to Jelq the most and I can’t do that if I have my off hand applying pressure there. I wonder if a cock ring would accomplish the same thing?

Any pointers would be greatly appreciated.

I have pictures of my penis in my thread.

I don’t constrict the base when I jelq.

I just checked out your thread and notice you have one ball that isn’t fully dropped. My right ball has never hung as far as the left and it feels tight often. I wonder if that is why mine curves. I have been trying to gently stretch it several times a day. Definitely before I do any PE work because it has to be stretched before I can use Bathmate. The base of the sizegenetics device often presses against the right ball. The stretching seems to be helping but I am still new to all this.

The ball dropped but never grew. It causes my penis to roll over on it size making the curve which is upward seem extreme.

One ball is supposed to hang lower.

It’s thay way for almost all of us.

If one ball did not hang lower, when you sat down, they would tend to be crunched together in a rather uncomfortable way. With one lower, they sit one roughly one on top of the other when you sit down making it far more comfortable.

I too suffer from a curved cock. My curve starts midshaft and curves 20 degrees to the left.

There does not appear to

be scar tissue, I have had it as long as I renember and I do not recall any injuries so I can only conclude that my curve is genetic and not Peyronie’s disease. From the reseach that I have done on this issue, if your curve is congenital, traction will likely not help with the curve. The only solution appears to be surgery. Personally, I don’t care for the look but it does not hamper performance in any way and so I will probably just live with it. If I were a porn star, I might get it fixed but even a few porn stars are curved and don’t fix it. It’s not that bad unless you have a gf who calls you “crooked dick” like I had 🙁.

If you’re married or in a long-term relationship think carefully on your PE goals. You can get big enough to cause problems. This is a possibility you have to embrace if you want to get bigger. There is no world without possible consequences for our actions.

My wife thought that anal was too painful with my original equipment, so getting bigger won’t hurt anything since she won’t do it anyway.

As far as the other activities are concerned: She doesn’t do BJs either because she hates the taste of cum (too salty and she hates the taste of salt). BJs never did that much for me anyway, so no biggie. I can live without.

I would like to try out my enhanced, thicker cock, however. She says that she will let me know when she wants to mess around. It’s been a couple of months…… still waiting……

Worrying about being “too big” kind of makes me laugh. It’s like worrying about being too rich, too muscular or too handsome.

Which reminds me of a line from Fiddler on the Roof: “May God curse me with it (wealth) and may I never recover” LOL.

That being said, if your woman gives you enough nookie to make you care about her input -and she strongly objects to your developing a larger manhood - by all means, listen to her concerns.

The thing that really put our sex life in gear after almost 30 years of once per week is the “New Eve” product line; suppositories and most importantly vulva cream. Even with hormone replacement my wife often had discomfort before trying this stuff (we buy on Amazon). Now both of us feel like she’s half her age in that regard, usually no other lube needed for the first 15 minutes or so. That along with her taking early retirement so no job to worry about took us from 1 x week to 3-4 x week. Your mileage may vary of course.

Best of luck!