Edging 101

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If I kegel real hard at the PONR I get no orgasm/ejaculate at all and my erection/horniness fades away as if I have orgasmed. I don’t think this is normal? Am I kegelling too hard? Though when I reverse kegel I get a slight orgasm feeling and very little ejaculate may come out slowly.

Why stop at the point of no return start stroking it again.

Don’t stop stroking it, that is hard to do. Guys tend to stop stroking it to avoid ejaculation.And certainly you want to stop at the PONR when your a beginner. After some practice you can learn to control the orgasm and ride the edge longer and longer.

The erect kegel factor. This exercise enhances your edging routine and is good for guys who can’t get the ballooning concept down. Here are some simmple instructiuons.

Edge your wood to full hickory, hehehe!
Place your thumb at the joint line up against the top of your penis,at the base. (Dorsal vein)
Kegel and stroke it at the same time count for a 100 then release for awhile. Repeat in about 2-5 minutes.
If you can master a BC/PC kegel at the same time this would be great. (Better yet if you can hold the kegel throughout the entire edging session)

You will notice a larger glans.
Thicker shaft.
A bit less sensitive this will help with the urge to cum to soon.

Does edging give you a loss of sensitivity?

Great post. Very specific. I never knew you could have a dry orgasm.

In the beginning once I had started having dry orgasms I had up to 10 per session. Now it seems the entire edge is a dry orgasm. My hand tires faster than my dick does and I have to force myself to cum.

Lets say it teaches you to delay gratification. Gets your mind off of the ejaculation and back on the entire experience.

Hi Kingpole… Something you said here got me to do some thinking…

You said to hold a kegel while masturbating? what should we do this for?

(reason this got me confused is because I know that whenver I try to do a kegel during masturbation it just makes me want to cum way faster) plus ive never hold a kegel past 20 seconds don’t think I could do it anyways =P

How hard is the kegel your holding? It is easier to hold a moderate BC kegel. A lot of guys do it and don’t know it, I think.

Kingpole my question here is if you could hold a kegel all the time during stroking… Im not able to do this and I cant hold a kegel for longer than 20sec..

I’m confused now about the PONR, There is a point that if i keep stroking i will cum, usually it takes around 15 secs. If i go until the last second then this is where I cum If I don’t hold a strong kegel.

My brain sometimes triggers this by visualization, or by imagination (example… my girl fucking me in some positions heh)

What I’ve been practicing these days, is get to the PONR but not fully stopping… slow motion stroking then picking pace again… my trouble here is that when reaching ponr my dick does involuntary minin kegels sort to say… contractions, but if slow stroking I can keep going for a while.

Also no strong kegels at PONR, I’m trying not to kegel at all, the involuntary contractions those I cant stop. (it is like a mini orgasm but without fully eliminating the need to cum)

I think I’m doing something wrong, maybe I don’t have patience…

No you not doing anything wrong, your doing great Edging takes practice.

Stroke it slow
Those many orgasms you described are dry orgasms you are already multiple, congrats!
I think at this time you need to completely stop stroking when you reach the PONR.
Once you have stopped let the penis rest at bit.
You may lose your erection somewhat.
So then start all over again, no harm in this.
After the PONR and you stop stroking do something else massage your scrotum until the sensation of ejaculation wares off.
As you get use to edging you may have only one PONR at the end of a 45 minutes session, Or no PONR at all.
This happens to me I sometimes have to force myself to have a ejaculation.

Ahh thank you for reply this is a bit of a relief to me hehe.

Yes it could be dry orgasms because my dick just does these contractions that feel like the contractions when cumming but without cumming.

So I’ll stop a bit more after these then, or no, wait I misunderstood… I don’t stop after these contractions … I’ll stop earlier, when I feel the PONR phase start correct?

Right now what I’m trying NOT to stop at all throughout my masturbation…. get the point of cumming but relaxing as much as I can so the cum doesn’t come out by using slow strokes, but from what you are saying I should stop way earlier before the feeling of “dry orgasm”. Right now I think I get over 20 PONR per session.

ps: PONR this phase can go from 1-15sec, you can cum on the 2seconds if u wish for, but most people just rush and hard fast stroke dick lasting as long as possible to get a more pleasant ejaculation, correct? Because sometimes I think i got this wrong.

And sorry if I bother a bit with all my doubts… I really want to surprise my girl when she comes back in 2 months… sometimes when we have sex and I don’t last long I get stressed… because she isn’t the kind of girl that likes stopping (like me cumming, then starting sex again). It really turns her off.

You only want to stop before the wet ejaculations, dry ones you keep on keeping on. Make the ejaculation process last longer by stroking slower not rushing the climax. Orgasm and ejaculation are two separate things. The number of dry orgasms will increase the closer you get to ejaculation. Remember ejaculation is the end game. Keep your mind off of ejaculation and more on lasting longer and giving and receiving pleasure.

Will try, thanks for everything. I’ll post in about a week tell you how I’m doing.

Take care =P