Gains finally, but feel discouraged. help?

Hello everyone,

So I’ve finally gained almost 0.25 inches EL from several months of ADS usage.

I feel good about my routine and look forward to more gains but I feel disheartened.

I feel like my penis looks smaller than ever but the ruler doesn’t lie. I may have lost a millimeter in girth but that’s not supposed to happen so I might be imagining it.

Current stats:
6.7 NBPEL
5.25 MSEG
5.5 BEG

4.25-4.5 FL
4.5 FL

Has anyone else experienced this emotion after making gains?

I feel like even if I reach my goal of 7.5 x 5.5, I’ll still be unimpressive.

Now to be clear, I can feel the extra length when I have sex with my GF, but I feel like I look small. I know statistically I’m not small but I feel like I look it (I’m only 5’10” 175lbs, so I’m don’t have a giant body).

Can anyone please give me some perspective?

As always, any help is much appreciated.

Great you have gained anyway keep working ,change ur routine ,do newbie routine or some hanging light weight good luck

After five years, I have gained an inch in girth and an inch in length and it still looks the same to me. However, it is starting to feel bigger in my hand. Your ruler is your friend.

While it can be seen and felt etc. Its still only an inch or what. Comparable to lets say growing a plant its miniscule. Espacially if grown over time gradually. there isnt much reference.

Also it might be that your penis serves as an example for a deeper belief that you are “not enough”.

You could be right about me my friend. Makes me wonder, could it ever be enough for me?

Also, I feel like what looks big and what feels big are two different things.

Like an enormous 8.5x6 cock might look awesome, but when you try to stick that inside a vagina you realize it might be overkill. Talk about your eyes being larger than your vagina.

Thanks for all your help everyone, good advice all around. This is why I keep coming back to this place : )

Further comments are welcome.

It’s just another shade of penis dysmorphic disorder: the bigger it gets, the smaller it looks. It may be that a bigger cock is not going to settle your mind. You have to explore the foundations of your insecurities.

I would like to think that if I could reach a BPEL of 8.5 and a girth of even 5.5, then I would be a happy man and I’d never give cock insecurity another thought. The reality is that, even then, I still might experience just the same inhibitions as I do currently.

I guess the only answer is to search within…

…for more inner cock to pull out.

Haha nice one, Olive.

You’re right. I just feel like the more gains I make, the more I realize how far I have to go before I reach my goals. I may even reach my goals and still feel small.

Gotta keep on truckin, I guess.

Gaining from just an ADS ? Which one and how many hours? I think it is time to add some other lengthening method.

I gained 1 year ago half an inch and to me is like nothing.. Maybe is because I am freaking tall mate. I don’t really get were you disheartening comes from. You are gaining and many aren’t and haven’t ever.

YES! Try to look at it as if a girls is kneeing before it. Try pictures with objects in it.

Don’t worry yourself over the small things. You should be really happy that you have gained. It may look smaller to you but that is the case for everyone, so do not be discouraged.

We all perceive things in different ways. You look at your penis in a 2D kind of way. From that birds eye angle it can appear to be smaller when in fact it is not. Your penis is a 3D object and we normally do not look at it in that way. It may not look as big on the top but it could later achieve a greater depth.

I believe there is a thread somewhere that speaks about the volume of the penis rather than just measuring it. If you think in volume you will not have any issues or insecurities.

As dtwarren1942 said “Your ruler is your friend.” As long as you are measuring correctly, the ruler doesn’t lie.

Just keep going nice and slow and good luck.

Thanks for the bitch slap of truth quim. And you too weenie. I appreciate everyone’s wisdom and encouragement

As for your question quim, I’ve been using an ESL40 ADS. Honestly it has taken me a year of fooling around with no gains to find the right routine, supplements, and dedication to see results.

When I got it all dialed in I started to see real results though. About 1/4th inch in a couple months.

I think that taking evening primrose oil and borage oil to increase pge1 production has helped boost me from being a non gainer to a gainer at all.

The thing about the ADS is that I sit at a desk all day, and have to adjust the tension just right, and then sit in a certain position and then NOT F*CKING MOVE for hours. All just to create the constant tension necessary to create growth. If you move around or don’t keep absolute constant tension without ups and downs, growth ain’t gonna happen. I wish I could just use a regular extender for this reason, but never got a feel for them and also I’m in stealth mode because my girlfriend doesn’t know. I suppose when I gain another quarter inch she will start to suspect : )

If I gain an inch and she doesn’t notice I will be pissed lol.

That ADS sounds like Egobooster, a friend gave me the standard size and I can’t really use. Too large, other than a slight pull makes it come out so I can’t really pull it to the knee. It is nice you can mate

Quim,

The ESL40 has regular, small and large cup sizes so you might give it a try. It’s probably not the most effective devise but it works well for my situation with work and home life.