Hi I'm newbie and have a lot of fears

Hi to everybody, please excuse my English I NEED BIG HELPS..

I’m 21 years old and 3 years ago I tried to grew up my penis with jelqing but I’ve been disappointed and I noticed that my glans became “soft”. So last year I tried with a penis pump and it seemed to me that I regained a little bit of hardness and growth.

Now I’ve throwed away my penis pump because I noticed that my glans is violet .This is really making me feel sad because also my girlfriend noticed the change of colour and asked me I f I was doing something to my penis.I said of course not! ( This embarrass me a lot) .

I would like to have a larger penis,not longer but LARGER, not too big because I don’t want to hurt my gf or any girl.My objective is 6.3 inches of circumference and 8 in length (if I have to grow in lenght) . Now I’m quite 5.7 in circumference and 6.9 in lenght. But I don’t want a violet penis so I’m waiting to see if in one year I will return to my normal colour.

What method should I try? I’ve seen in some pics that fastsize gived big result, but mostly in length
Or should I prefer the bathmate for the circumference? Why is it better of a penis pump? Or maybe I should prefer natural exercises like jelqing and clamping ec..

PS: I have a natural curve which I want to correct even if I’m afraid of the exercises of stretching and a little bit skeptical.

Thanks to everyone who answer, any helps about what to do and the routine and time are good But please tell me why my glans is violet

Clamping. But be careful.

NEWBIES SHOULD NOT CLAMP

It is a very advanced exercise, and it is easy to injure yourself unless you have a very good idea of how your penis responds to PE. Newbies do not have that knowledge.

The story of your soft glans worries me. I am glad that that was corrected. However maybe you are too sensitive, perhaps you should not do PE. Or proceed very very carefully.

Do you realize that 6.9x5.7 is a very big dick? Well, it is. You are very blessed. Great length, excellent girth. I would thrilled if I had your size!

If you have not seen these threads, worth looking at:

Read This First: Warning To Newbies

Before You PE: A Penis Inventory

Best of luck and take care of yourself.

I totally agree.

Newbies shouldn’t pump either, but he’s been doing that for the past year. Also Leonida, discoloration is part of PE, especially with girth exercises.

Will this discoloration expire with time?

I’ve just red about the venous leakage.I’m terrified.. I’m really worried because it happened also to some who were doing correctly the PE.

Discoloration should subside. Take it easy, don’t clamp, and follow the newbie routine.

Leonida — don’t be terrified, just relax, take some time off and give your penis a vacation from PE.

For what it is worth sometimes my glans is violet too when I have an erection.

It sounds to me like your penis is fully functional. Your girlfriend is enjoying it, right?

Take some time off from PE. If you decide to start back up, do something like this gentler newbie routine:

NEW newbie + advanced routine

Like I said before, you have a big dick already. Enjoy yourself!

Like everyone else said; clamping, hanging, pumping etc. are really advanced exercises that should only be performed by the most experienced PEer who know and can read the signs of their dicks.

Take it easy and do the newbie routine. When you feel like you can increase the intensity, do it, but do it gradually! Not go from 300 jelqs to 600 in one go.

I am one of those who have received good results when taking the easy approach instead of the hard approach, it might work for you as well. Good luck!

I’ll take the easy approach and I don’t think I will ever do more than 100 jelqs even after years..

I would like to know how to do stretching safely and why do it.

No dick pictures allowed in the newbie forum. I split the thread and posted the pictures in the appropriate forum:

Hi I’m newbie and have a lot of fears

Hate to break this to you, but what you have looks like the beginning phase of HPV. I have never seen this kind of discoloration done from PE. Please be advised and visit a urologist.

What the kitty wrote.

Get it looked at by a doctor if at all possible.

The situation that you see in the picture doesn’t seem to be new and I thought it was a result of a wrong use of the pump.
My partner take the pill so we do sex without the condom. If it really was the HPV she would have some diseases.am I wrong?

I’ve posted new pictures this morning thatcat ;)

Hi I’m newbie and have a lot of fears