How to get an unbiased opinion about your size

I recently discovered a way to know what people think about your size or any size. I went on Amazon and found a dildo with similar measurements to myself and read the reviews. Completely eye-opening! The women are just comparing pieces of rubber so there’s no reason for them to lie (as both an ex or current SO might).

Have a goal? 8X6? Find a dildo and see what reviews say.

I hope this is helpful for those of you wanting to know how you stack up.

By the way, you have to look for insertable length in the description, the title usually reports total length (may include balls and a suction cup). For example I’m a little under 7” but to find a dildo with 7” insertable length I had to find one advertised as 9”.

It will also report diameter instead of girth (circumference). If math isn’t your strong suit just google diameter-to-circumference calculator and you’re good.

Any flaws with this? Useful?

I can’t find enough reviews to really see what they think. Maybe a sex toy website would be better.

There’s plenty of threads about this here. I think that black rose started one.

It is better to find a dildo site. You can filter them and some have filters that include “insertable length.”

Now that I’m looking I am seeing reviews of 8”x6.5 insertable length dildos with people even saying they use them for anal. These sites will show you that any size can and will be enjoyed by many. But it seems that guys here would rather fit any and every girl instead of filtering out some that can’t take a big one.

But aren’t people going to buy the size that they want? Unless the dildo was gifted, the reviews on a 8x6 are going to be from chicks who wanted a 8x6 dildo.. My point is that it isn’t going to be a “random selection” of women commenting on a specific size.

It was interesting to find a dildo thinner than my unit and seeing several women referring to it as girthy, though.. XD

I have noticed that trend as well. But I got a strong theory with correlation I think is causation.

Most of us here are single or in non-monogamous setups. The “swinging bachelor” is less likely to want to miss any ass for any reason.

The married or long-term relationship sorts here are typically bigger. Incidental or not…

Titleist, Ganesh10in, and xenolith…are the 3 largest here on Thunders (Titleist being recently retired still gets honorable mention) that come to mind…and some others my sleepy brain isn’t recalling this second. But I’ll say…those guys aren’t worried about limits in PE. The rest of us are. At least to some degree.

I know I am, and I should be. Because I’m guaranteed nothing and someone who may have the winning personality may decide a giant dick is a dealbreaker. And we are all somewhat scared of letting “The One” get away for a reason that we really could have prevented. At least I am.

I’d risk it if the chances of it completely not working were fairly low, but also why I wouldn’t mind hitting a size like 10” BPEL x 6.25” MEG. The girth should still be manageble for most, and as for length, well you just use what she can take. In that way a 10”x6.25” is technically more useable than say a 7”x7” would be.

I’ve had enough troubles at 6” girth mid shaft that I’d be hesitant to say 6.25” is a good move for maximum ass.

10” length I’m sure has a shock and fear factor that may earn you fewer chances than 7x7” cuz everyone isn’t amazed in a good way. Real life ain’t porn. *laughs*

I agree with 10” the girl isn’t going to think I will take what I can. She will think no way that shit will fit all the way in! They don’t think like we do. But realistically the statement is true the 10x6.25 would fit more women just not all the way in. 7” girth will probably not fit at all unless she is trained. Women can’t take their eyes off a huge dick but that doesn’t mean she will have sex with it. But hand job isn’t out of the question lol But who wants just a handjob?

Well, as much as I would love 10”x6.25”, more realistically I’d be extremely happy if I can ever make it cleanly into the 8.5”x5.5” to 9”x6” range. I have a 1” or so fat pad I can’t seem to get rid of, so NBPEL numbers would be 1 off the above (so 7.5” visible to 8.5” visible).

Personally I’m also thickest at the base, so if I was 6” there, I’d taper to about 5.75” just under the head, so that should still work for most.

My fat pad is nearly 1 inch too even though I am fairly lean. That’s why I’m aiming for 9” bpel.

I like the toy idea as an indicator. We own a fairly large selection of toys, and the GF most enjoys the 8”x5.5” and I can still DP her. We have a 8”x6.25” which she can take only after loads and loads of sex, and it’s more the mind kick that turns her on than the size. No DP with that one, though, I’d not last a minute :)

I like the idea of this, I don’t the results can be too biased though, the majority of women is what you are trying to get a read on, and the majority of women are not super size queens.

If you compare the number of reviews of a certain dildo over others, say you are reviewing something with only 10 reviews there is a good chance it’s been bought by a minority niche.

If the dildo has 395 reviews it’s a good indicator that you are getting the majority opinion, and the majority opinion if you are looking this up in the first place is presumably the market you are going to be running into.

Know what I mean

See a hooker and ask her about your size. They’ve seen it all before.