If You Could Choose To Be Any Size

There is no better than to hit the gym, and start a nutritional reeducation.

Just call it a 3.5 cm fat pad. Boom, problem fixed.

When I first started I was obsessed with being 7 nbpel x 5.5 meg these days I stopped obsessing over it and I’m 6.5 nbpel x 5.5 meg and with a cockring closer to 6 meg. I no longer obsess over my size or have size anxiety besides that’s a damn good sized cock that makes my wife sore afterwards so any bigger and sex will be a problem. Would I like to hit my length goal? Sure. But I no longer care if I do.

If I get to your size, I would feel exactly the same.

I really should be happy with my current size, but I’m greedy and really want that 5.5in girth…

You have great stats already. As long as you keep PE a part of your life and not have it become your life you’ll be fine.

I only became happy because of kind words and reassurance from other members here. A year ago I was still obsessing over it and a couple vets gave me great advice and I listened. That’s not to say I wouldn’t love to hit my length goal because like yourself it’s more so out of greed lol. I pretty much just do maintenance PE now and I decon every 6 or so weeks.

The biggest shocker I’ve had in this discussion is how thick fat pads are on some guys. Besides the obvious (eating too much), I suspect there might be a genetic component, too. Some guys just look a certain way, and changing that is a huge struggle for them.

I wish I could be the 8×6 bpel. I’m so horrible at measuring but just the other day I got a 7 bpel and that was pushing against my 1inch fat pad. And I hit 5.25 girth just under the glands by my circumcisions scar.

7.7 BPEL x 5.6 EQ has to be my target anything more would interfere with my sex life.

Exactly, finding/knowing the limit is key. Great sex comes before cock size all day long. Unless you find yourself in the sack with some size queen who probably can’t even have a good orgasm because she is too worried about whether or not her tits are big enough or if your car fits her standards because why stop measuring the world by just cocksize?

Yep - but age is a factor too. When we’re 18, the fat pad is small; when we’re 58, the fat pad is much bigger, even if we’re not overweight. As for ideal size, I always seem to want a little bit more. I’m not sure that will ever stop.

Yeah weight is a crap indicator for physical fitness its all about fat percentage and fat distribution. Actually men should never exceed 15% which translates to always having visible abs which is sadly very rare.

The size queens I’ve met had no problems having amazing orgasms.

Yeah I’m so tired of the infantile male ego crisis theory of “Oh, but mandingo has a flaccid penis inside this and this female pornstar and it’s not a true balls deep” IT IS. Just today I looked at Lana Rhoades taking mandingo’s 10 inch balls deep anal in “Balls deep anal with mandingo and lana rhoades” This includes fast in and out thrusting where it’s super clear that mandingo has full EQ and penetrates with his full 10” nbp.

You cite porn videos like anatomical studies of sex. I cannot stress enough how flawed an approach this is and how silly you sound every time you do it.

How about some clinical data on girth, instead of porn:

How Big is Too Big? The Girth of Bestselling Insertive Sex Toys to Guide Maximal Neophallus Dimensions

Clinically based on where patients are having trouble, they’re drawing the line at 15.1cm or 5.9" on girth.