Im gonna get surgery for PE, thoughts?

Hi guys,

I decided to get circumcised for PE. Im jelqing since feb 2021 and started my PE journey but its become impossible to jelq in the usual way because my foreskin is stretched out during my 9 months of PE. When I get my surgery I will be out probably around 1 month but then I can go 100% again and gain very quick. Maybe I need to learn to jelq again but I think it will be much easier.

Trust me its become IMPOSSIBLE to jelq at a low erection level because my foreskin is too big. I cant get good grip at the sides.

The only bad thing about it that I dont want to be circumciced but PE is very important for me and I rather have a 6 inch+ circumcised penis and maybe 3 months extra work to get my girth back then a smaller non circumcised penis.

The only scared thing and question:
1) do you guys think I will lose length because of the operation?

2) how much girth will I loose?
Any thoughts?

For both questions you’ll be same size like now after surgery. Maybe will be slightly swollen your dick for few weeks and will looking like you gain some girth gains but after that you’ll be same size like before.
Be patient after surgery everything have to be healing great buddy after that you can start again PE. Safety is really important by my opinion.
Think good before circumcision surgery you have to be 100 % sure in yourself about this decision. Good luck.

Will a cirmumcision tighten my foreskin? And can Pe and jelqing gain foreskin again?

Because the problem is whenever I approach the glans for a jelq there is too much foreskin , so much I just cant jelq.

The problem is at the base of the penis. Do you think circumcision will help to get more grip at the sides. Because my foreskin is not falling over my glans with every jelq thats not the problem its the problem at the base of the penis.

After surgery by my opinion jelq will be more comfortable. But this is my personal opinion. And with jelq you can’t restore your foreskin again. Foreskin restoration is long-term process.

Getting circumcised for this reason is irresponsible. You are going to mutilate your body, you should think this properly.

I think getting circumcised for the sake of making jelqing easier is not a wise decision.

If you actually wanted to be circumcised, then do it. But if it’s not something you actually want, don’t do it.

First of all, even though it’s a relatively straightforward procedure, it is not without risk. Both in terms of infection, as well as in terms of how it turns out. It could turn out loose and not help you. It could turn out too tight and make sex and other forms of PE more difficult. I remember there was a member here who got a circumcision and the doctor who performed it really fucked up and made it way too tight and the poor guy ended up with a downward curve and really bad turkey neck (ball skin coming up the shaft).

Additionally, you should not bet on being able to resume PE any time soon after that surgery.

I had my frenulum severed. That’s all, not the whole foreskin removed, and even though it visually healed within 2-3 weeks, for the next 9 months whenever I tried stretching or jelqing, it would hurt and I would end up with a purple bruise right where the frenulum was severed, I’m assuming because all the tiny blood vessels around there were still regenerating and weak.

Plenty of uncircumcised people (like myself) are able to do PE just fine, including jelqing.

Besides, there are tons of other exercises you can avail yourself of instead of jelqing if it’s so difficult.

Why can’t you pull all the skin back towards the base and hold it there with one hand while you jelq with the other? I guess I’m having trouble visualizing exactly what the problem is…

I keep saying this, but you only have ONE penis. Don’t fuck it up. Don’t damage it I’m the spirit of making it bigger . Don’t compromise your pleasure and enjoyment of your penis just because of PE. That defeats the whole purpose.

Work around the problem.

Just my opinion…

Ok thanks for the questions.

First of all I live in the Netherlands. If a doctor in the hospital (it happens in the hospital) fucks it up he is fired immediately, that kind of things don’t happen here trust me, those horror stories are not happening here.

Secondly, my friends got himself circumcised and he was fully recovered within 3 weeks. And lets say I cant pe for 3 months or more thats better then now.

Trust me I CANT jelq with my foreskin. Its stretched out too much and I gained 1.9cm with jelqing so Im not doing it wrong its just not possible anymore. Its too difficult to jelq now. I dont care if my penis is circumcised or not only thing that cares is that my dick is gonna grow to a minimal size I want it to be. I can give it few more tries but 2/5 sessions fail in the week because i cant get a good grip on my jelqs anymore.

I really dont know what happened to me. It used to be so easy and now that im gaining an amazing amount I cant get the job done. Im 99% sure my foreskin stretch is the problem.

I used to hold foreskin back with 1 hand and jelq with the other but that is also not possible anymore im not jelqing the penis but just massaging the foreskin even my grip is very tight.

The sign i know my jelqs are right is that
the glans become harder when I approach the jelq: not happening anymore because im stroking the skin even with the tightest grip I can get

I cant think of any other thing why my sessions just fail every time.

I wouldn’t do it.

I thought about doing it for PE and looks many years ago, until I found more information.

I am lucky to be uncut, fortunate, and so happy I never mutilated myself. For some reason there is a misconception in our country, culturally with the circumcision. Like if it was more “hygienic” or even better looking. When in reality is a tradition that only belongs to Jews. Maybe somebody else too but culturally, I think the US is the only one that has been doing that.

I discovered that around the world most girls appreciate uncut dicks. They love to see the head covered, and see it exposed as a sign of readiness for penetration. In fact, there is a growing trend in PE to re-grow the skin that was cut at birth.

Keep your foreskin, a recovered foreskin is just your pubis stretched down your shaft, hairs and all, it’s not the same as your original. Have you considered vacuum hanging or pumping? Investments in these options may be a better idea. Are any of the people suggesting you get circumcised had adult circumcisions? What were your friends reason who was circumcised? Was it to jelq better? Stuff goes wrong with surgery no matter what country you live in, just happens more often in some than others.

Stop jelqing and do something els instead.

Guys thanks for all the answers but I told you I did hanging and extending its just not for me.

+ I gained an amazing amount in a short time and was gaining 0.2cm EVERY MONTH during jelqing. Why would I change it to an other method if this one gives me amazing gains.

Thats like become rich of your job and you only need 1 year for financial independence and you quit your job because it doesnt work out.

I rather stay uncut to but jelqing has become impossible. Im gonna try 100 more New things but my dick changed and I cant jelq anymore. I rather have a cut dick witt 6 inch+ then I uncut penis that isnt.

You have to understand how frustrating this is for me, im nearing my goals everything is going so wel (PE wise) and then boom my dick doesnt want it anymore.

The mainproblem is I cant stroke anymore my glans is not getting hard with every jelq approach to the glans and my grip is very tight, dont know what my dick wants

This almost sounds like you hurt something or damaged a valve.

I’m really trying to understand your problem, I promise.

I’m cut. When I dry jelq, I rely heavily on my extra skin to move “with” my grip, so it isn’t stretching my skin to hell, which is painful to me. You’re trying to move blood through your dick, not your skin. Your foreskin could hang a foot off the end of your glans, wouldn’t make a bit of difference. Concept and practice are exactly the same either way.

When I wet jelq, I use both hands, one at the base to hold my extra skin back, the other hand to slide grip.

It’s really that simple. If that doesn’t work, there’s something else going on. Maybe your dick needs a rest.

You can do other exercises as stretches, you can pull back your foreskin completely, grab your glans and stretch your penis. That’s what I did for years when I still had my foreskin and I grew my dick to a good size. Here’s my experience: Bangel77’s Journey

As for my decision to get circumcised and the outcome: Bangel77 - Foreskin: Cut Or Not to cut

I’m Newly Cut - When To Begin With PE

However, just to be able to better do PE (hypothetically) doesn’t sound like a good reason to get circumcised.

A third option: you could see about having the excess foreskin removed, leaving whatever amount you feel is appropriate.

Hmm its really hard. Im gonna try to explain it 1 more time.

I used to do this without problems (Im a grower so my flaccid is small)

- 10 mins of stretching
- jelqing

When I start to jelq I masturbate a bit till I get a bit hard on the sides and my penis grows a bit.

Then after 4 or 5 strokes I got to the right erection level and I stay there very easily. When I perform the stroke of the jelq I feel my glans getting harder and my dick is the perfect size to continue for 30 mins (glans getting hard is priority number 1 of knowing youre jelqing right)

Now I get my penis hard to the right erection level and stroke, stroke and stroke but I cant get the right grip on my penis and I dont feel my glans is getting hard. Its like my penis gets hard in a different way then before but my EQ is still very good not worse then before.

Now my penis grew a bit in flaccid size but Im not getting a good grip (probably due foreskin problem) and not getting my glans hard when I approach the jelq.

Somethimes I cant get the job done and get the right erection level and still stroke good but its maybe 1 out of 3 times the last weeks. I want to do it right every day like I use to.

Me jelqing almost every day 5 times a week is important for my mental health it keeps me calm and I know I gain and Im gonna get to my goal. If I can continue a good months of jelqing I reach my goals for the next year and this will be comforting for me. I dont rush Im still very aware of my penis health.

Anyone got a Idea?