Is jelqing really supposed to be exciting

Personally, I jelq with strict form at a 1-3 second tempo and a very firm grip and have never considered it an exciting or pleasurable experience.

I think it is ok for you to start a log in the “newbie” forum with a note asking a mod to move it to member logs

Personally I don’t think you need to clutter up your mind right now. For one thing, not everybody buys lot theory. If I were you I would just go with the newbie routine for now.

To me it must be fun if you are going to stick with it! Here are my thoughts/practices with jelqing. Although I mix up the EQ from 50-100% and try to switch things up a lot to get 100% of my dick jelqed/worked. (I love to kegel and edge with jelqing)

When jelqing up to 80% some have to ejaculate before they can keep it from being too hard/uncontrollable. The head of my dick is extremely warm while I jelq so I guess as a beginner it should be getting warmer as you are putting energy into it. So if you can’t control the hard on then just masturbate it to ejaculation and then jelq. That may speed things up a bit. And I think as you get further into PE, say a month or two, you will find what works the best and your dick will respond more to your wishes as you learn to tame it. haha Wild thing that our dicks are by nature!

Use a lube and one hand reps. Lube both hands and dick. With the free hand you can use it and visualizations of having sex or some hot scene to stimulate your dick and mind. The mind is the biggest part. Focus and mind control. After 25 to 100 I switch hands and the free hand is used for foreplay/stimulation. I’ve learned to produce good EQ as it was shit when I started PE. Don’t squeeze hard when you jelq so that it is slightly stimulating. Soon it will work right to the core and you will be surprised what it feels like. You may find your dick tingles afterward or itches inside the core. It is a new feeling. Good luck. I did 2,500 jelqs yesterday and my dick is buzzing. Whatever I must do to gain. I may someday break my record of 3,000. We will see. You can check out my routine and how my unit has grown at the member picture forum.

3,000? Nice going, when do you sleep mate? :D ;)

Grtz.

And sadly, the fatpad/abdominal area is one of the last areas that it burns fat from.

I believe that’s true with body fat. There are some hypothesis about how to break it down and make it easier to be absorbed/burned. I don’t know how that is going.

Dope001 - I don’t do my jelqing at night. It is a compilation throught the day and early evening.

I always jelq at 80-90% erection, slowly, and with a light grip. I also only take maybe 2-3 days off in a month, even on the days off I P.E. My EQ is fantastic, I don’t measure, but it is growing. So do what feels good, and keep doing it.

And doing it! The light grip and daily PE!