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the journey begins :)
bit of a intro before i start.
Im 19yo from australia and im 5”L x 4 7/8”G.
My size from everything iv seen is on the lower side of average. Its something that i have become insecure about ever since girls became interesting and iv been weighing up my options ever since. The first time i ever seriously considered it was about 1 year ago but i left it thinking it was all a load of crap. I stumbled on this site about 6 months ago but i just let it be. And now im back.

I must admit im still very unsure about whether i am going to start a PE program for myself. After just reading doublelongdongs article about greatly exagerated penis sizes in the porn industry im not feeling too bad at 5 :) . My other worrying factor is the injuries that can occur. And lastly after alot of reading i am still wondering is size really that important. There are some saying it is and some saying it isnt. A interesting forum topic that i found helpful was from the tuckermax forum (great forum btw) about what was too big. The results i found very interesting. THe main concensus was that 8”L x 5.5-6”G was the MAX that these girls would take. Some of the younger ones even saying that 6-7” L was max. Now i know alot of you are probably saying oh well they were being nice. But its not that sorta site (you kinda need to see it to describe it ) From that info there optimum would be about 6-7”L x 5-5.5”G. Alot of these girls said that they would knock back sex with guys who were too large for the fear it would hurt / stretch them out too much!!!

What am i getting at here. Well really im asking for your experiance. Im trying to weigh up myself if i wanna do this. There is no denying that my penis holds me back with women. After reading Yman’s story i can relate. But saying that iv noticed alot of guys are a bit older. I had a image in my mind that it would be full of people my age but there are alot of married people here. And they all seem to agreed that their wives prefer it. But is this the size different or is it the more confidence you posses or is it maybe that you wife just wants you to feel comfortable saying that if it makes you happy im happy sort of frame of mind?

haha im rambling. oh another thing, do any of you guys still live at home with your parents and if so how do you fit ur regime around it.

CHeers guys

Go man, go for your goals and don’t fail to acheive!

Cheers,
Cas

hi mission good to meet you,

Its certainly worthwhile thinking about these things now.

PE isn’t for everyone. Its certainly something that requires bucketloads of time and effort, so if you haven’t really decided to commit its pointless.

In terms of injury/rewards, if you take it carefully and don’t start doing squeezes on day one, you’ll probably be ok. PE injuries are mostly temporary things that require that you take a bit of time off, unless you are incredibly stupid.

The optimum measurements you state seem to be quite reasonable.

Welcome mission.

I you are feeling happier with your dick from that size survey you’ve seen, then great, that’s how I’d like to feel.

I’m married now and my wife isn’t aware that I PE. But she has commented recently that sex seems much better and doesn’t realize why. I started out at 5.5 BPEL x 4.25 and, although I’ve been with a fair few women pre-marriage, have never had anyone commenting on my size (good or bad).

However, I’ve always felt short-changed in dick size. This has affected my confidence in some ways and has caused me to shy away from some sexual encounters. Also, in the locker rooms, every other guy seemed to have something bigger hanging between their legs :) .

You’ve got to ask yourself how badly to want it, because it takes a lot of work/dedication and without the right attitude, you’re going to fall at the first hurdle.

If you want it, you can achieve it.

The fact that you’ve found out about this now, at your age, is a blessing. If I could have started this at 19 (11 yrs ago) I’d be bigger than most guys by now ;)

A man with a mission…welcome! :)

I’ll answer some of your guestions now.

Is size important? A better guestion would be: Is pleasing women important to you and how important? Now I’m not saying that you can’t please a woman with under 8” dick, all I’m saying is that it gets easier. Does size matter? This is the common guestion and the answer is yes. It matters if you are “too small” or if you are “too big”. If somebody says the size doesn’t matter, he/she is either fooling him/herself or doesn’t know any better. It matters for sex. It isn’t something that makes you or breaks you. It’s just for sex, nothing more, nothing less.

About that forum and the women there… How did they determine what was their max? Did they try out different sized dildos or was it just a rough estimation? No matter how much lengh you have, it’s all about how you use it. Sure you can hurt someone with a 9 incher if you insist on forcing it all in, no matter how bent and in pain is the partners cervix! I think of any longer than 8” more of a visual stimulation than a physical improvment. Big cocks are sexy. Not for all, but most.
The measurements given, 8x5.5-6.0 are quite realistic, but remember that pussy accomodates to size. When I started, my girth was 5.3 and now I’m 6.5…. my girlfriend never noticed anything and she was always tight, being the petite girl she is. So with reason, even as that little survey pointed out, women with more experience can take larger dicks.

It is correct, that some girls might refuse to have sex because they are in fear of that big penis, but equally some girls it might be a stimulant, encouragement to try.

Do it. You are young. Every older guy here wishes they’d started earlier. Only ones that have regretted doing PE were the ones that have seriously injured themselves. They are a rarerity, but they exist, there’s no denying that. Practising PE has it’s risks, but they are easily overcome by the benefits. You won’t injure yourself if you use common sense and moderation. I don’t remember one injury that was caused by sensible PE. It was always someone getting stupid for a little while and doing something extreme.

There are a lot of guys that are your age too. Take me for example. I’m also a single. It’s not just wifes making their hubbies feel better. I’d like to tell you, that size doesn’t matter, that there is no competition in the world, everything is good, but I’d lie. Size does matter and it isn’t fair, but you have a chance to improve yours, isn’t that a gift? I thank God for that I found this place.

There are also a lot of guys that live at home. Do a search with keyword “stealth”, for stealth PE. :) ( The search button is at the top-right of this page )

If your penis size is something that stops you from interacting with women, why are you even guestioning anymore? The guestion isn’t “why should you?”, but “why shouldn't you?”.

When you decide to start or even if you don’t, read, read and read again. More you know, more you gain.

When you are ready, start with this: Newbie routine

If you got anything to ask, we are all here just for that. Have fun and be safe. :) :up:

Hi mission.

The subject of does size matter crops up time and time again. To some women it does matter and others it doesn’t, so I don’t think there is answer to your question. But if it makes you feel insecure then I suppose it matters to you and there’s something you can do about it. Why don’t you give the newbie a go and see what happens.

As with everything, there is a certain amount of risk involved with PE’ing, but if you do it right and start off slow and don’t over do thing’s you should be okay. Just don’t go trying to do advanced exercises because you really need to condition your dick before doing them.

I must also say that my confidence has rocketed since finding this place. I was very insecure about my dick size before finding thunders place, but since I have become a member I’ve come to realise that it is not the end of the world and I can do something to remedy this. Even though I’ve only had minimal gains since starting 2 month’s ago my sex life has improved so much because I’m much more confident. From my understanding there is no bigger turn off to a woman than a lack of sexual confidence.

Well, whatever you decide to do good luck, I hope you stick around to become a believer.

Welcome to thunders mate.
murph

Hi great to see another person interested in PE. It totaly depends on you if you want to do PE or not. If you do feel that your size is bothering you and you are not doing it with girls because you are scared they will say you are small then it is better for your own SELF-ESTEEM and CONFIDENCE that you would do some PE. I do it just because of those 2 reasons. Once I’ll achieve my GOALS I know My confidence will be much higher because the size of my penis question will not bother me anymore. I`m a bit bigger then you 6.25x5 but for me I feel like I’m small. And I want to be at least 7x5.5. I am focusing on GIRTH now because a lot of people say that a size of 6-7 inches long is good enough but what really makes a difference is the girth. So I want to have something between 5.5 and 6.0 in girth, which if it is possible for me to achieve will probably take me long time.

Welcome Bro.

Read, Read and then read some more.

As for what is possible not to sure but I can say that I have gained 1.5 inch in length so far.

i couldnt have asked for a better welcoming. Thanks alot.
I see alot of u guys use bone pressed measurments so just to keep with the norm im 5.5BPL.
Iv been looking at the newbie routine and i think i have got a hang of it.
Just a few questions though.
With the stretches is their any benefit from doing keegals at the same time. I have practiced this and noticed a nice stretch. Would this be maybe too advanced for me starting out?

Thanks for the guidance guys

I encourage you to not to kegel while stretching. While you are kegeling, the bc muscle is taking the load from the stretch and that’s something that simply isn’t beneficial for gaining.

cool thanks

No problem. We are here for this. :)