Gardenparty:
I think I speak for everyone here when I say that we’re JEALOUS of you! That’s pretty much the best situation you could have. A girl like that is rare indeed, a blessing.
I have a lot to say on this subject but I’ll keep it brief. I’m a student of spirituality as well as peak performance: I want to know what the highest potential of a human being is, physically, mentally, everything. I believe we are capable of so much more, superhuman or science fiction stuff. A lot of it has to do with raw physical energy though, in terms of what you eat, as well as (as a male) how you deal with your sexual energy.
This is getting to tantra, taoism, and stuff that’s not really relevant to thunder’s place. But what I want to say to you is that, one, conserving sperm is KNOWN to massively increase physical and mental strength in males, and two, on the more esoteric side, the taoists believed that when a girl cums with you inside her (assuming you aren’t wearing a condom) she creates a “burst” of excess sexual energy, which the guy actually absorbs.
There were, and are, whole cults of taoist mystics who would basically just fuck girls into orgasmic bliss, as a way to cultivate spiritual power. It’s real. Having studied chi gung, tai chi, and all manner of internal martial arts for a long time, I’m sensitive enough that I can actually feel this “chi upgrade” when a girl cums. But man, you’re getting a huge dose. That’s amazing, and beautiful, and really powerful.
On the subject of YOUR orgasms, first of all, realize how lucky you are that you can maintain in bed for so long. Most men have the opposite problem. If you can master your emotional state and focus on a sense of gratitude that you can get to pleasure your girl to such an ABSURD degree - and that you’re actually absorbing pure life force, hundreds of times more than most guys get per session, if you can tap into that emotional state of gratitude, I guarantee you’ll be more relaxed and you’ll be able to cum.
But it gets even better than that. Guys are also able to experience multiple orgasms, “internal” orgasms. It’s a very subtle art but it’s definitely within your reach if you want to work on it. Basically what it involves is being pleasured immensely and learning to relax into that pleasure so that you feel it in your whole body. In my own practice I find that working on the whole body, rather than the penis, is a really good way to access that- especially nipples, etc. Many guys start out with nipples that aren’t very sensitive, but if you play enough they will get really activated, and then you can start to feel sexual pleasure in your whole body rather than just in your penis. A lot of prostate-stimulating ads, like aneros, are proffering basically this same experience, but you can do it without any products, it just takes your will and your intention, and more than anything a relationship to how you feel emotionally. If you can chill and relax you can cum any way you want - orgasmically, or “internally” on the energetic level.
To the forum, I’m sorry this is off-topic, but having the knowledge I couldn’t help but share it. Garden, any more on this please PM me and I’m happy to discuss it in detail as much as you’d like. I got your back brother. And god, please keep fucking the shit out of that amazing goddess of a girlfriend :) We all live vicariously through you.