I, too, have had problems in gaining a truly full erection. The extent and quality of my erection is something that I have noted, paid particular attention to, for nearly a decade today. There are definite influences on erection power.
Yes, your sex life is an influence. Your frequency of ejaculation — and your usual process of reaching ejaculation — is a great influence on erection power. Depending on your condition, your ejaculation frequency can be among the greatest influences on it. Included in your sex life, or sometime lack of it, are masturbation habits. Taoist practice, as discussed in Daniel P. Reid’s most famous book, is useful in understanding how sex and ejaculation affect vitality and penis vigor.
People can argue something through theories — or attack ad hominem — but some people value results over theories. I read a study’s abstract, online, recently, whose results showed that the subjects’ testosterone levels rose significantly a week after last ejaculation. But I already had concluded the same thing, maybe in slightly different terms, because of personal practice after other readings, which sometimes had said the same thing in greatly different or seemingly bizarre terms. Charles Runels, MD, in his book, offers some guidance in terms fairly comfortable to the Western or American mind.
No matter how many or who bash Dr Lin, he has much accurate information amassed on his website. I cannot attest to the accuracy of all the information that he discusses, especially where it seems he disputes any benefit from mechanical penis enlargement (PE). Yet most of the information that he discusses on hormones and neurotransmitters and so on is accurate and is, to satisfy the peer-reviewed mindset, scientifically established. Further, if one gives his information an honest reading, one sees that his dispute with mechanical PE is mainly that it can cause scarring within the penile tissues and inhibit full engorgement and powering up of erection. Stepping aside from Dr Lin’s view, and even from the mechanical-PE view, that is one reason it is important to start slowly overall and to warm up well. So even PE’ers, it seems, accept the fundamental validity of that view of Dr Lin.
Still, I would not, myself, at this point buy Dr Lin’s supplements. Although I have never tried them, they do not seem to me like products that would be especially effective. In my own assessment of Dr Lin’s offerings, I find it ironic that he sells those products, which, although I think they may help somewhat, I do not believe match the excellence of much of his writings. Particular foods and particular habits are preferable, the more foundational solution. Herbs could be an adjunct. Yet if a person does not amend his habits and diet, then to the very extent that the herbs do increase erection and sexual function, the herbs may overwork a system already breaking down. I think that if someone wants to use herbs to enhance his sexual health, he probably ought to see a traditional Chinese doctor, whose services can be rather inexpensive, who will prescribe a formula for the individual to balance his system on the whole. The male system when balanced on the whole and nourished on the whole has strong erections. I would read Dr Lin’s writings, yet I would not, at least myself, buy his supplements.
When first I tried to start mechanical PE about seven years ago, I suffered some numbness and diminished erection that lasted beyond the usual recovery period. I had started with light weight, and yet — this before the advent of the Bib hanger which later I bought but never did use — it was too heavy for me, personally. What is more, the moderate jelqing that I did, over only a short period, did help give me a slightly meatier penis, but I wound up with poorer erections, lasting beyond the usual recovery period. I stopped hanging, stopped jelqing, and kept manually but only casually stretching.
Today, I do not believe, as Dr Lin seems to, that all mechanical PE is harmful. Neither do I believe, as seems the popular view here, that Dr Lin is a complete charlatan. Ask any sane sensible person these days, or ask his doctor, whether penis enlargement is possible without surgery, and he will answer no. If you say that it is possible, he will call you stupid, and call your instructor a complete charlatan. If you say that you have already gained size from PE, he will say you are crazy. Within a community of certain beliefs, whether at large in society, or whether in a specialty forum, it is easy to succumb to reliance on social proof, the doctrine that if the great majority of people believe something and act accordingly, then it is obviously the endpoint of truth and foreign conclusions are false.
Here, in this thread, I do not think that overtraining per se is the problem. But, possibly, even easily, it could be too much PE, so far and right now, for the particular individual amid other non-PE factors. Maybe the warmup is not great enough. Maybe he has an imbalance of prostaglandins, causing excess inflammatory response, even scarring. Maybe he has a zinc deficiency, causing poor healing. Maybe he has poor thyroid-hormone function, causing poor tissue integrity and marginal circulation to begin with, now revealed under this added stress. Maybe, because of poor tissue integrity, his capillaries are fragile and, with jelqing, they have become leakier, permitting too much fluid escape during erection. And so on and so on.
How many porn stars with huge penises do you see who can power them up to full mast? An erection does not come merely because you have happy thoughts (although happy thoughts are a great help). A truly full erection, unless your penis is very small, takes great amounts of acetylcholine and nitric oxide to power, and other substances are involved. If you want to increase the total volume of your penis by 50%, consider that maybe — just maybe — your penis will need 50% more nutrients and better blood circulation to power it’s erections. The author Alan Ritz, despite his clumsy English and some of his quaint views and his oft-questioned discovery of a VIP muscle, offers help in his book. In it, he references widely accepted, but little-discussed, scientific information on erectile function and precursors. The book’s first half, discussing hormones and neurotransmitters and so on, is much clearer and more concise, far easier to peruse, than Dr Lin’s prolific but jumbled website.
Over years, I have tried many diets and habits and supplements. Sometimes, I learn something, test it’s validity, find it works wondrously, and yet, amid the vicissitudes of life, do not stick with it. Why, why, why? But it happens. So I am here, today, not as strong as I would like to be, and not with the strength of my erections as I would like it. Yet, over my years, I have found some answers, because I sought them, and did not merely wait for others to give them to me. One thing I had to do was always to look, always to read, always to think and to consider, and then reconsider, for myself. And I had to question myself and what I believed. I suggest to review suggestions, yes, but then look for yourself, read for yourself. If people tell you something is untrue, read it anyway. Even below castles of untruths are foundations of truths revealed. But sometimes, no matter how many or who say a thing is untrue, when you look for yourself, you find that it is — or at least many useful parts of it are — true. Take PE, for instance.
I have found that some of the greatest aids to my erection are reducing ejaculation frequency, keeping a consistent and rather early sleep pattern, daily physical activity, good bodily hydration, consistent eating (including whole raw eggs, providing choline among other benefits), deep breathing especially of fresh air, optimizing my thyroid-hormone function, and pursuits that stir my optimism. Those are basics. But without basics, taking even the best supplements is playing a drug game. If you do want supplements, though, then yes, arginine and Ginkgo are good ones, as far as supplements go.
I do not have much experience in mechanical PE. I am here to learn, though, because I would like to find a mechanical routine that will help me gain more size, mostly girth. But meanwhile, I do not want a larger penis that cannot reach truly full erection. For that, I would rather keep my present size, and just enable spontaneous and truly full erections. I cannot say for sure what really goes on in other men’s private lives, but what I have seen from the sidelines of forums and through various media and informal talking, and in readings and in self-observation, has led me, by now, after several years, to conclude that the greater problem for most men is not penis size but rather is penis health, including erection strength.