Newbie Beginning Regimen

Hello all. I’ve been a lurker here for a long period (two years) but I’ve only just now been shocked into action. My girlfriend confided in me- after a lot of solicitation on my part- how large the other people she’s been with were. Although the number of people is only two, it happened that I was the shortest on the list and although she said my penis had the most girth by far and she has had much more satisfying sex because of it, being a man I am not at all satisfied. Truth be told even before this news I’ve always felt pretty short and it had been weighing on me enough to keep asking her about the other guys. I know I’m probably not very tiny and I don’t want to sound like I’m whining about my size to any who are smaller and feel real inferiority, but if it comes off that way I apologize.

I’ve decided to follow the updated newbie routine. I’ve tried this on and off before, but my dedication always waned. Hopefully by posting and keeping in touch here I can keep it up (bad pun).

Starting Stats: 8/6- BPEL: 6.21
EG: 5.5

First of all, welcome to Thunder’s.

Second, “being a man I am not at all satisfied” - truer words were never spoken. You will find many here who sympathize.

Third, asking your partner about her previous partners’ sizes is ill advised: that way lies madness!

Good luck and happy PE’ing!

Truer words ne’er spoke.

But do note that she said you were the girthy guy and that the sex was more satisfying because of that— so, what have you learned?

While not the longest, you are the thickest— and that is more important to her— so you are in a sense her biggest [thickest]— and best.

Make lemonade.

Third, asking your partner about her previous partners' sizes is ill advised: that way lies madness!

Haha, tell me about it. The funny thing is I kept reassuring her, “oh come on, it’s not like it really matters anyway right?” Of course I knew it mattered, I guess I just have a good poker face or something.

While not the longest, you are the thickest— and that is more important to her— so you are in a sense her biggest [thickest]— and best.

I know you’re right and it may seem like a fool’s errand to run around now trying to make my dick longer, but I think it’s really just for my own edification. As absurd as it sounds, I’d probably want an unusably long penis just to measure up to some societal notion of “manliness.”

But what you say is true and that’s why I don’t want to obsess about it. I’ve always wanted to have a length of around 7.5 BPEL and if I could make it to that goal, regardless of the amount of time I think I’d be happy. Of course from what I’ve seen after guys reach their initial goal they always go bigger.

No! Never was there a more noble cause! And your success will be the answer to the Feminists and Communists that would have you believe otherwise! :)

Just curious what your NBPEL is? 6.21 BPEL is not small or not enough to be a noticeable size difference from the average population. Maybe you seem shorter cause you’re thicker.

Well last time I measured NBPEL it was around 5.5, which seemed a bit short to me. It may have to do with my stature; I’m 6’4. The other guys she was with she categorized as abnormally large.