Newbie jelqing: Use true erection or pumped up
When jelqing I find it hard to maintain a 40% erection and can’t get more than 2 or 3 strokes at best before it’s too soft (glans has deflated, not firm around shaft). Alternatively, I’ll squeeze one hand around the base and kegel until it’s engorged but not erect and jelq with my other hand. Does it need to be a true natural erection, or will this kegel pumping suffice?
If pumping it up is good enough, can I use a cock ring for the jelqing to make things easier? I have a natural turkey neck and I’m hoping the ring will keep it out of the way.