Originally Posted by Averageblack
I started watching porn and masturbating at the age of 13. I didn’t even get my penis touched by a girl until I was 16, but during those 3 years, I would get boners from thinking about or talking to girls. Especially at dances, during a grind I would be raging hard the entire time.
Is this a psychological issue? Yes.
Does it mean no kids should be able to watch porn? ABSOLUTELY NOT.Just like the guy who burst a blood vessel while doing PE. He probably had the circumstances for it to happen (ie weak veins by genetic defect).
Some particular people are simply more prone to certain psychological disorders.
My kids will get internet porn at 12-14. Whenever we have the talk.
I feel obligated to strongly advise you not to allow your kids to watch porn, especially at a young age. If you must, allow them softish-core pics in magazines like playboy, but not the unlimited variety and massive visual and audio stimulation that is internet video porn. The worst case is a kid who, initially unsuccessful with women, begins to think something like “no matter, I’ll simply retreat to porn use, and thereby deprive women of their power over me,” only to find years later, when he wants to and is able to have sex, that he cannot because his dopamine receptors in his brain have been overstimulated by an unlimited stream of multiple tabs of big dick, busty blonde orgies in HD with women and positions and acts that in no way reflect reality and which a real girl will not measure up to. It is very important that their adolescent brains be wired to sexual stimulation from the smell, taste, touch, sight, sounds and pheromones and other hormones of real women.
Also, without exposure to porn, your boys will be more eager to experience the real deal and approach real girls because they can’t see naked girls otherwise, leading them to develop, long term, more assertive, dominant, alpha type personalities that are sexually confident and familiar with how to approach women, instead of betas doing their math homework in between bouts of internet porn and self-pity/forever alone status updates. Sorry to get almost comically graphic there, but I want to drive the point home. This is especially important if your boys have naturally introverted tendencies (which could occur even if you are extroverted, of course). If you are old enough to have kids you were probably not exposed at a young age to the kinds of intense, unrealistic, close-up, full shaved, hardcore HD porn that exists now so you may not realize the potential psychological danger.
Finally, how can you know that your boys won’t be one of those with the natural predisposition to porn induced ED? Porn is also potentially able to give your boys ED-causing small penis anxiety, even if they have above average members, simply because their personal visual sampling of other men’s erect penises consists entirely of porn dicks.