Quitting Porn - Scared - Pursuing Hardness

This is excellent. I find it builds other areas of your life as well in a lot of different ways. Holding on to and managing the sexual tension and directing it in constructive ways, improved self esteem.

Today I was cleaning up and found the 90 Day Challenge check box calendar that I made for quitting porn. About 20 days were checked, I forgot about it after that, and the last day was in June… its now July. I’m done with porn. No urge to look. No routine to beat meat in front of the screen. I’m more human now.

Note: In the last month I have poked around on porn sites to get ideas for stuff/ position to do with my gf. Sort of like an academic field trip to porn land. Pants on… “ooh that looks fun”.

Great to hear of your progress!

I don’t believe any one of us adults can ever become completely porn free as long as we have the internet? Unless we set our settings to safe search, we’re always going to be confronted by it at some point. It’s how we deal with it that matters.

Congratulations!

That whole mindset that you are talking about has totally evaporated for me. “Safe search settings”… “confronted”….”deal with it”. I’m not sure what happened to me and I’m not congradulating myself. Its like I skipped off the tracks that I was on and now I just have 0 urge to have my mind get sexually involved with porn.

Man congratulations in your plan, I think your goal is very respectable and definitely it’s something I should pursue myself. During the last couple of months I have found myself watching more porn than ever and masturbating up to twice or tree times a day. I usually don’t enjoy the orgasm, I do not cum a lot and I always end up feeling worn out, tired, and guilty.

I have been trying to quit porn for myself, because I know it drills into your mind and causes several physical and psychological problems. I started PE three days ago, and since I want a better penis health I think that I should want a better health for my mind as well. So I’m going to avoid porn and see what happens with me!

Thank you for sharing your story!

Don’t know about you, but often my sexual thoughts are more extreme and disgusting than pornography. I also might lose a lot of time writing an erotic story about those thoughts to make it more detailed and “real”.

I agree that thoughts alone are enough. Glad I’ve cut porn out of my life.