Realistic goals

Having just started PE not too long ago, I don’t know what sort of goals to set for myself. I mean, I have an idea of where I’d like to end up, but what should I be looking for on the way there. Do any vets out there have some insight on some short term goals I can set for myself as I PE? So far, I’ve set gaining 3/8” in length and girth as goals for the end of summer, so roughly 10-12 weeks of PE. Is this a bit too optimistic?

It can be a bit optimistic even with newbie gains. But they do seem like fine goals, just know that not everybody makes it there in a few months.

- PE is a marathon, not a sprint.
- More than before, but not if it doesn’t work anymore (you only have one dick).

I’m new here as well. Although I can offer no practical advice, I wish you the best of luck! :D

Pe vet of about 10 years here at your service,

To be honest you will probably see the best gains in your life within the first year. You can expect maybe 1.5” in length and 1” in girth if you’re lucky and stick with it. Some people may get more or less but I remember around gaining around that much my first 12 months. I can honestly tell you the best girth I have ever gotten in a month was .5” at the base with more or less newbie to advanced routines.

Later on growth will begin to slow down to a trickle as you get accustomed to boring and average routines so you will have to be more creative, a tough task for some on here. You can basically take that 1.5” of girth from a girth only routine and cut that in half. So in 2 years you can probably expect a gain of 2.25” which doesn’t sound like much but it’s enough to go from a loose fitting condom over 4” to a magnum over 6”. Everything really depends on diet, exercise, hormones, and how quick you heal.

I can make gains anywhere from .125” a month to .25”, but I heal very quickly and eat very clean.

Like TGD says, you should see your first major gains within the first year. An inch in length is not unrealistic, but an inch in girth is a huge gain.

Maybe try to aim for something like 1” length and perhaps 0.5-0.75” girth at first and then go from there :) .

Average gains seems to be about 1/2”x1/4” per year.

Maybe it won’t work for you, but my goal is not a specific number, rather it’s so that every time I pick up a ruler (monthly) I am happy with any sort of gain. If I’m even a 1/16” bigger than last month then I’m happy and motivated to see what I can add next month without the negativity of not yet reaching a specific goal.

I’m hoping if I make enough small gains that they add up. I live in a relatively full house, so actually dedicating myself to PE is a little risky.

Just be consistent and have faith. I know, it doesn’t sounds that fancy, but that’s it.

I recommend you just focus on girth for right now because your length goal is so close and you will gain length as a result,girth is far more difficult. I have toyed with many,many,many,many… programs and from my experience you should be looking at your pe goals 12 weeks in advance, taking each month to work on a different aspect. Not unlike a bodybuilding program…just sayin’.

If you’re pressed for time I highly recommend you buy a professional pump and a heating pad. That for me is the first ten minutes of my routine including the warm up because of the heating pad around the tube. From there on I have one of several techniques I can do wether it be a supersets of target jelqs and ulis, or a partial jelq then a full jelqs counting down by 5s, I have many ideas. The best part is that I can finish a full routine in an hour then hop in the shower before anyone notices. I live in a small house with almost no privacy. You just have to be smart with your time and not pe overwhelmed.

Hey if you’re in Texas feel free to pm me and maybe I can walk you through some stuff over the phone.

Thanks for the advice Divider. Don’t think I’ll move into pumps and heating pads yet, but I’ll keep it in mind whenever I move out. For now, I’ll focus on the newbie routine and the sock of rice for warm ups.

Really nice reply. Also, where do you recommend purchasing a “Professional” pump?

Thanks,
I got my standard 2” from a leather sex store that was going out of buisness. It’s an La pump (lapdist.com), many others on here recommend vacu-tech, and pump toys also. You can expect to pay about $100-$150 for a good plastic tube with a quick disconnect end and no seams. I’ve also seen some carried in sex toy shops but I wouldn’t buy them unless I had a chance to feel it for defaults, and the plastic piece of crap kits there for around $40 aren’t worth the time thinking about them.

Once you get your tube, and I recommend 2” to start off. You can buy a really good hand brake bleed kit at an auto store for $30 or so. The only difficult part is obtaining the little male quick discovery piece which pe sites sell for $20, but I found the exact company that makes them at colder.com for $5 plus S&H, so $10-$12.

That mushroom head maker thing looks ridiculous.

Target the stuff you lack.Like you must decide if you lack EQ,Girth or length.Or you need more time during sex.