Are these realistic goals

Hey everyone, I’ve been researching and reading up about jelqing for about a week now and I am very interested in giving it a go. I just registered here and this is my first post.

My girlfriend is great, we have a good relationship and we started having sex about 2 or 3 months ago (She is 17 and I am 19. She was a virgin before me). She has said that it feels “so” good before. But during sex she is reasonably quiet apart from heavy breathing (due to movement). She is not vocal at all, I suppose mainly because she has no reason to be. I want to have her gasping for air and moaning in ecstasy, but it seems I don’t have the equipment to do that. :( Which is heartbreaking.

I also can not really last past 5 or 10 minutes of penetration (unless she goes on top, which I can usually last longer, for whatever reason. But that can be tricky since my cock is a bit below average so it slips out if we get too excited). Anyway that’s my background story.

MY GOALS AND CURRENT SIZE:
My current size is about 5.25” in length and 4.5” in girth. MY goal is to get to 6.5 in length. And add ATLEAST a inch of girth. I really need more thickness.

I have tried “wet” jelqing in the shower 3 times now, but I don’t really know if I’m doing it right. I am circumcised too so when I jelq I am usually pulling skin up from my ball sack. Is that right? It gets in the way.

Anyway, are these realistic goals? From what I have read, A more likely length increase scenario seems to be gaining around 1 inch rather than 2. How long does it generally take to add 1.25 inches? I am hoping for this kind of result by 3 months. What kind of routine would achieve this?

Also, what is generally the average girth increase after 4 months of jelqing?

Thanks!
Nick.

Three months is pushing it. You should reach your goals if you persist. Think in terms of years.

It might be worth working on foreplay and penetration technique.

Welcome to the forum.

Thanks.

Foreplay and penetration technique eh. Give me some keywords to google. :P (or some wise words of advice to swallow. .. Or perhaps a link to someone who spreads their wise words)

:search: + foreplay. Also take a look at "edging".

Better yet, do an advanced search and specify the " Life, Love and Fantasies" forum.

the-clitoris.com - This website is for sale! - the clitoris Resources and Information. is a very good place to look as well.

Ok, thanks for that.

How long do you think it would take for the average PE’er to get to 6 inches in length and 5 inches in girth from my size?

Or more specifically, how many months does it take to add 0.75” to length and 0.5” to girth?

I will be happy if I can become completely normal and average. It’s just being on the small side of average that is annoying.

And who knows, once I reach that goal, getting to 6.5 and 5.3 or something won’t be so unrealistic. :) Cool!

How long is a piece of string?

Nick,

no one knows how long time it will take, and anyone pretending otherwise is either joking or stupid.

Hmm, I guess I don’t really know the PE etiquette. I’ll keep researching the forums.

On one end of the spectrum you have guys that gain that much in a few months. On the other end guys that do everything right and don’t gain anything after a year or more.

For the vast majority of guys that are disciplined about PE I would feel safe saying that +0.75”s and +0.5”s are very do-able with the length being easier than the girth. As for how long that will take for the average PE’er? I would feel very uncomfortable giving an exact number. How about 6-18 months? A lot longer than you were looking for, I know.

Hmm, is there any way iamaru, that we could do a survey to try and work out what the average gain rate is here?

I have a few additional questions:

1. I’ve read about “stretching” in most people’s routines. What is this exactly? I read up on “v-stretch”, but regular stretching seems to be a different thing. Can somebody link me to something helpful?

2. Is it best to routinely stretch before or after jelqing?

3.When I jelq, I have about 4 inches to work with (not including the nob and taking into account the base), is it normal for only the top half of your shaft to be red and full of blood rather than the whole thing? I try to go as far down as possible. But will I end up with a baseball bat?

4. Should my jelq stroke go all the way to the nob? Or should I have stopped somewhere before that?

5. Is it normal for your flaccid penis to tighten up (and therefore lessen in size) after your jelqing session?

If I can find all of this out that would be great.

Nick, look at it this way: you’ve had your penis for 19 years. What’s 2 years for making it perfect? And then you can have it for a few decades more.

Go here “http://free-penis-enlargement-videos.thundersplace.org/” if you have any problem whit technique’s or you don’t know how to do it.

Well, that’s true, except that you only really start to care about your size until you’re 15ish. ;)

(Even then, I only started to REALLY think about my size until I started having regular sex with my (pretty much perfect) girlfriend 3 months ago. Which is a first for me)

START HERE ——-> NEWBIE ROUTINE <——- Important Newbie Threads/Info
Is PE101 and will answer most if not all of your questions. It contains the basic newbie routine, a link to the videos that Luka89 posted and more besides.

I was wondering that after my last post in this thread. Haven’t we had one of those by now? I seem to remember something like that but my searches are getting me crap results, must be using the wrong parameters.

Have we done this before? Anyone got a link?